nav[aria-label="Primary Navigation"] { padding: 0; & ul { list-style: none; width: 100%; display: flex; flex-direction: row; justify-content: start; align-items: start; gap: 30px; padding: 0; & li { margin: 0; } & ul li { list-style: none; } } }

Work crush and Christmas party.

Red Lightning

I work in a secondary school and have a crush on one of my colleagues. I'm 25 and she's 22.

Ive gotten to speak to get a lot recently and would like to ask her out.

We have our Christmas party tomorrow evening and am wondering should I try and turn things a little flirtier than things have been or make any moves?

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks

Find more posts tagged with

Quick Links

Comments

engiweirdo

Red Lightning wrote: »

I work in a secondary school and have a crush on one of my colleagues. I'm 25 and she's 22.

Ive gotten to speak to get a lot recently and would like to ask her out.

We have our Christmas party tomorrow evening and am wondering should I try and turn things a little flirtier than things have been or make any moves?

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks

Sure drop the oul hand and let us know how you get on.

mickuhaha

The real question is are you both women?

SEPT 23 1989

It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again

Poor Uncle Tom

Wait till she's done the leaving, at least.....

troyzer

Awful idea. You can't make the move if you're sober and she's loaded.

Red Lightning

Berties_Horse wrote:

If you're colleagues then it would be wise to remain on platonic terms.

We're only colleagues for another week or so cos I'm working as a substitute and am starting a new job after Christmas.

corner of hells

Make sure there's no chalk dust on your hands , them handprints will give the game away.

Larbre34

engiweirdo wrote: »

Sure drop the oul hand and let us know how you get on.

Or don't.

Nothing meaningful ever came out of a drunken fumble at a Christmas do, except maybe knob rot.

Even if you're not drinking, buy her a couple, have a laugh with her in a bigger group and keep it light. Ask her if she's ok for getting home and stuff and make sure to catch her eye and try a bit of harmless banter and flirting. The objective being, that shes thinking about you after the night is over. After Christmas, ask her out the old fashioned way and go from there.

Noveight

Red Lightning wrote: »

We're only colleagues for another week or so cos I'm working as a substitute and am starting a new job after Christmas.

Blow the load and hit the road.

Classic.

corner of hells

Noveight wrote: »

Blow the load and hit the road.

Classic.

Do a JFK , shoot the load in her hair , she jumps out of the car screaming and runs off.

Reati

corner of hells wrote: »

Do a JFK , shoot the load in her hair , she jumps out of the car screaming and runs off.

I think you have confused who got shot with a load in the head with that post...

pablo128

Ask her does she want a ride. If she says no, ask her would she mind lying down while you have one.:pac:

The Tetrarch

Have you teaching job in Dubai sorted?

punisher5112

Get talking and ask her would she like to go out for a meal as your time there is short.

Naos

Ask Feeky on his lunch break for some advice.

The Tetrarch

i think there was an old saying about dogs and doorsteps that might apply here.

munsterlegend

Red Lightning wrote: »

I work in a secondary school and have a crush on one of my colleagues. I'm 25 and she's 22.

Ive gotten to speak to get a lot recently and would like to ask her out.

We have our Christmas party tomorrow evening and am wondering should I try and turn things a little flirtier than things have been or make any moves?

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks

Given all the grammatical errors I am more worried about the students.

corner of hells

Reati wrote: »

I think you have confused who got shot with a load in the head with that post...

Poetic license

punisher5112

The Tetrarch wrote: »

i think there was an old saying about dogs and doorsteps that might apply here.

Don't sh1t on your own.....

Don't worry he is leaving....

troyzer

munsterlegend wrote: »

Red Lightning wrote: »

I work in a secondary school and have a crush on one of my colleagues. I'm 25 and she's 22.

Ive gotten to speak to get a lot recently and would like to ask her out.

We have our Christmas party tomorrow evening and am wondering should I try and turn things a little flirtier than things have been or make any moves?

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks

Given all the grammatical errors I am more worried about the students.

The OP could be a PE teacher to be fair.

TheValeyard

Do not do it.

For the love of god, do not do it.

gctest50

Red Lightning wrote: »

I work in a secondary school and have a crush on one of my colleagues. I'm 25 and she's 22.

Ive gotten to speak to get a lot recently and would like to ask her out.

We have our Christmas party tomorrow evening and am wondering should I try and turn things a little flirtier than things have been or make any moves?

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks

Easy - start drinking .........and there is no time like the present, the night is but a pup

Otherwise :

Red Lightning wrote: »

I'm 25 and she's 22

I don't drink so I will have my wit's about me but it also means I may not be three most confident.

could seem a bit .... odd

The Tetrarch

Is she a nun?
We need something to increase the disaster factor.

MuffinTop86

Start drinking.

Nobody likes a bore

engiweirdo

MuffinTop86 wrote: »

Start drinking.

Nobody likes a bore

Great idea. And smoking too. You want people to like you and think you're cool right?

Red Lightning

Larbre34 wrote:

Even if you're not drinking, buy her a couple, have a laugh with her in a bigger group and keep it light. Ask her if she's ok for getting home and stuff and make sure to catch her eye and try a bit of harmless banter and flirting. The objective being, that shes thinking about you after the night is over. After Christmas, ask her out the old fashioned way and go from there.

Good advice. Thank you

Noveight

engiweirdo wrote: »

You want people to like you and think you're cool right?

Not people per se, just this 22 year old.

Saddle up and give her one for me, OP!

sdanseo

Been there done that. It was fun at the time.
Until the next Monday at about 9am.

Trust me, don't do it.

Edit: just saw you're leaving in a week.
Thunderbirds are go sir.

engiweirdo

Noveight wrote: »

Not people per se, just this 22 year old.

Saddle up and give her one for me, OP!

#WomenArePeopleToo

Noveight

engiweirdo wrote: »

#WomenArePeopleToo

I truly hope you're being sarcastic.