Roger Hassenforder wrote: » Imagine how the guy felt being charged with rape if he genuinely thought it was consensual sex...
One eyed Jack wrote: » There isn’t anything wrong or unreasonable in assuming anyone is interested in sex, or that anything they’re wearing indicates their interest in having sex with whomever or however many people they please.
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » *BEEP* Strawman Alert *BEEP*
Bigbagofcans wrote: » Well yes that too. BUT the thread is about the girl's thong being held up in court which I believe is wrong on all levels.
El_Duderino 09 wrote: » That’s amusing because in a recent discussion about consent the topic of the WhatsApp messages being used as evidence was brought up. Plenty of posters objected to them being used as part of the prosecution. I’m not sure if you were one of them. I wonder how many people have switched sides.
Riskymove wrote: » the line of evidence suggested that as the woman wore a thong she was likely open to having sex that night with someone so because she wore a thong it was more probable that she consented to sex than she didn't that is the concept put forward at the trial as I mentioned I have no idea what other evidence was put forward and if the jury actually accepted this line of evidence or not. But that was the idea suggested and is what people disagree with
ceadaoin. wrote: » Unless there is more that isn't reported in this article then I don't know how the jury reached the decision they did . I know how it looks to me
One eyed Jack wrote: » You disregarded the rest of my post which was pointing out the difference in the fact that just because someone is up for sex, does not mean they want to be raped. Most people are capable of, and do understand the difference between the two very different things.
ceadaoin. wrote: » From what I can gather the prosecutions case was -accused claims they were kissing but no one witnessed this -someone saw her being held by the neck and someone asked if everything was ok (not sure if this is the same person). Accused told them to **** off or similar -the girl was a virgin and wouldn't have had sex down an alley in the mud -she immediately said he had raped her The defense -she didn't cry -they had kissed at length (but no witnesses to back this up) -she was wearing a thong therefore was out for sex Also, the accused said he couldn't get hard but then later said that they had sex. Seems contradictory. Unless there is more that isn't reported in this article then I don't know how the jury reached the decision they did . I know how it looks to mehttps://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews//ireland/counsel-for-man-acquitted-of-rape-suggested-jurors-should-reflect-on-underwear-worn-by-teen-complainant-883613.html?fbclid=IwAR35TmZ4qXy2n1YHC0sHTl_37mqRM9EZE5Bs7d7ZC2-IZuR4UVrAT5h5FKA
professore wrote: » Let's assume that instead of a thong she was wearing a pair of granny knickers. Should the prosecution be barred from using that as evidence she DIDN'T go out looking for sex, therefore weakening their case?
Rennaws wrote: » There's a reason they didn't ask you how you thought it looked before coming to their unanimous verdict.. You weren't there. For the sake of clarity though, are you suggesting that they're guilty ?
Riskymove wrote: » I didn't disregard anything, it was fairly clear. But there was no suggestion that wearing a thong means you want to be raped. that would be a fairly ridiculous position I simply set out what was actually put forward at the trial which again, is the idea that being up for sex on a night out makes it more likely that you consented to sex than you didn't
One eyed Jack wrote: » There would have been no uproar about the introduction of the victims underwear in this particular case if the defendant been found guilty. .
One eyed Jack wrote: » It’s nof unreasonable to suggest that if a person is up for sex, that having sex is the logical consequence of their actions. .
Rennaws wrote: » There’s quite a bit of libel on this thread.. I’d think twice about that in this day and age..
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Yes, there would. If I recall correctly, the first article about this outrageous comment appeared before the verdict came out.
SusieBlue wrote: » I live in Cork & the local radio discussions were covering this all week, from both sides, both on air and on social media. Apparently the defendants wife rang one radio station and demanded the story be removed from their social media pages, because she was annoyed at the comments underneath the articles.
PlaneSpeeking wrote: » I've worked with students who have been both accuser and accused in both the above cases and the statement from the former was very distinct - "I was raped by x..."; the latter fell more in the area of "I must have been raped", "The next morning he didn't seem my type so I wouldn't have slept with him" or "I might have said yes but I didn't mean it". Telling. Very telling.
professore wrote: » Hold on a second .... the defendant is MARRIED ?????
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Some big leaps you've made there, from: - wearing a lace thong to being up for sex - being up for sex to having sex - having sex to being raped Your post is actually a perfect example of the dangers of those comments.
Bigbagofcans wrote: » So he cheated on his wife with a 17 year old girl? He's a pillar of society.
professore wrote: » On that evidence he is certainly guilty.
ceadaoin. wrote: » I'm suggesting that , in my opinion, after reading the case as put forward in that article, she was raped.
And either way, I don't think that the judge should have allowed her underwear to be considered as evidence of consent