retro:electro wrote: » Again something looking sexual and something implying sexual consent are two different things.
nullzero wrote: » When did I blame victims? Rape should be reported, saying so isn't victim blaming.
vonlars wrote: » Maybe next time try something like 'A rapist getting away with it because of the failings in our justice system boils my blood.'
If the defense can show that she left her home with the intent of having sex, the prosecution will find it hard to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the sex she ultimately did have was non-consensual
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » You're acting like you're conducting a consent class for teenagers. I assume most people on the thread understand what "sexual consent" means, and don't need to have it explained in every other post
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » You're acting like you're conducting a consent class for teenagers. I assume most people on the thread understand what "sexual consent" means, and don't need to have it explained in every other post. .
nullzero wrote: » The legal system has no chance of success if everybody is cowering in fear of reporting a rapist. The notion that having your sexual history revealed in court as if it is something to be ashamed of puzzles me surely we've moved beyond these archaic notions of shame.
Grayson wrote: » Honestly, the thread is getting a bit confusing at this point. I just think we shouldn't infer from someones underwear whether or not they consented to a sexual encounter. I don't think that argument should be allowed in court. I think that implying consent based on what pair of knickers someone put on hours before is just stupid. There's no logical connection between the two. If someone can make that logical connection, then sure it could be allowed. But Thong => Wants to shag you doesn't make any sense at all.
ceadaoin. wrote: » It's being exposed with the intent of justifying a rape and inferring that the person deserved it. The victim is questioned in minute detail in court about behaviour that in no way relates to the alleged crime. It's humiliating. There's something wrong with you if you really are "puzzled" as to why that's not something a lot of people want to go through.
retro:electro wrote: » The knickers she decided to wear that evening are neither here nor there when it comes to her intention to have sex later on that night.
nullzero wrote: » I don't see why sex should be seen as shameful in any context in 2018.
retro:electro wrote: » It shouldn’t be. But when it’s framed in a way to discredit you, perhaps picked up on and reported in media, sexual encounters and internet history detailed aloud for your friends and family to hear, and punctuated with an effort to try and lay the blame for your rape square at your feet; it’s embarrasing, ridiculing and off putting.
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: You're acting like you're conducting a consent class for teenagers. I assume most people on the thread understand what "sexual consent" means, and don't need to have it explained in every other post.
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » So you keep saying. And yet the accused's barrister (who is a woman, btw) was able to use the aforementioned knickers effectively in her client's defense, so they're evidently not as "neither here nor there" as you believe.
B0jangles wrote: » You are apparently arguing that some people believe that it does, therefore it's a good argument to make.
irishgrover wrote: » Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: You're acting like you're conducting a consent class for teenagers. I assume most people on the thread understand what "sexual consent" means, and don't need to have it explained in every other post. Just read this paragraph in isolation and it got me thinking....and I'm genuinely not joking.. Should everyone involved (solicitors, barristers, judge, and Jury), be forced to receive a class on what defines consent at the beginning of a rape case....because for the ****ing love of everything good in the world I don't know how someone's underwear has any bearing, in any universe, on consent..... How at barrister or judge can think it relevent or appropriate I don't know...
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » I'm pointing out that the defense barrister was doing her job, which was to convince the jury to find her client not guilty. If the barrister had not made the argument, and her client had gone to jail, she would have failed to represent him to the fullest of her ability. Again, her job was to defend her client, not pander to feminism.
irishgrover wrote: » Should everyone involved (solicitors, barristers, judge, and Jury), be forced to receive a class on what defines consent at the beginning of a rape case....because for the ****ing love of everything good in the world I don't know how someone's underwear has any bearing, in any universe, on consent..... How at barrister or judge can think it relevent or appropriate I don't know...
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » Again, her job was to defend her client, not pander to feminism.
ceadaoin. wrote: » Ok so you report it. Then your previous sex life, how you were dressed, how you behaved, how you behaved in the past, how you behaved after the fact, how much you drank, if you used drugs etc will all be combed through, exposed and questioned. In the UK the police can take your phone and devices and comb through your internet history and messages if you allege rape. So in that case, if you ever sent a suggestive text or looked at anything online that shows you like sex, it will be used against you. All that for only a miniscule chance of a case being brought to court and an even more miniscule chance of a conviction? No thanks You ARE victim blaming. You'd be better off directing your rage at the system that enables rapists to walk free rather than the individuals who are reluctant to go through further trauma.
joe40 wrote: » Court cases don't have to reach the truth, just influence the jury.
nullzero wrote: » A rapist getting away with it for not being reported boils my blood.
retro:electro wrote: » Well she wasn’t pandering to reality either.
Feisar wrote: » I hear you however the person that suffered the trauma needs to deal with it in the best way for themselves not what some might consider the moral high ground.
B0jangles wrote: » Objecting to the courtroom use of ugly myths about what a person's choice of underwear tell you about them, is not 'pandering to feminism', though it is quite revealing that you think that it is.
Simple_Simone wrote: » I wonder who precisely, other than Coppinger, will benefit from yesterday's cheap PR stunt. For me it's reminiscent of Clare Daly and Mick Wallaces' nonsensical "invasion" of Shannon Airport a few years ago. Loads of free publicity for the media savvy couple, (their media pals having been tipped off in advance of the stunt) but the number of lives that it saved is probably zilch.
nullzero wrote: » There are too many myths being thrown around here in relation to this. A rape trial doesn't feature all of the plaintiffs sexual exploits, it isn't an opportunity for the plaintiff to be embarrassed and made to feel ashamed, those perpetuating that notion should be ashamed of themselves.
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: Pandering to feminism would have involved not saying anything about the underwear and possibly watching her client go to jail.
Feisar wrote: » Please reread what I wrote.
Atlas Rotten Machinist wrote: » Pandering to feminism would have involved not saying anything about the underwear and possibly watching her client go to jail. She decided to stand up for her client and pull out all the stops to secure an acquittal, which was the correct thing for her to do in that position.