eviltwin wrote: » The average Irish woman isn't a Victoria or Britney. We don't get to pick and choose our healthcare like that. Yes our rates are high but it's due to the way birth has become almost like a production line rather than treated holistically as it should. It's not because women are demanding sections.
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » so they are harangued into c sections
eviltwin wrote: » birth has become almost like a production line rather than treated holistically as it should. It's not because women are demanding sections.
eviltwin wrote: Yes our rates are high but it's due to the way birth has become almost like a production line rather than treated holistically as it should. It's not because women are demanding sections.
Whispered wrote: » Not really. Interventions such as sweeps bringing in labour, breaking waters in early labour, makes it more likely that a section will be needed. Women are/were (apparently it's to change) routinely pressured into accepting these interventions. I refused a sweep and the doctor was quite annoyed about it, shockingly so. It's on my file that I "refused medical advice". Which in my view is a disgrace.
LirW wrote: » I'm glad nobody gives in to the obvious mom-shaming the OP wants to do here with the "but people choose C-Sections, so they risk their pinky fingers of their newborn". Yes of course the rates of sections are high, it's no surprise with how dysfunctional the maternity system is. Some hospitals have you on the clock from the moment you enter their premises, everyone is overworked, every ward is understaffed and there's nothing anyone can do. Before OP is so quick to judge about how easy Sections are, did you have one? Do you know how this is definitely not the easy way out? You can't lift your child yourself for a few days, you have to run around with a pee bag for at least a day, you have to take some strong painkillers to cope with the strong pain afterwards (they sliced your tummy open, you can't drive for 6 weeks, it's not a particularly gravy experience.
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » you are in voguehttps://www.independent.ie/style/celebrity/celebrity-news/lets-not-start-the-parent-shaming-already-hes-eight-days-old-vogue-williams-hits-back-at-critics-after-photoshoot-one-week-after-birth-37315657.html
LirW wrote: » Yeah, why do women feel the need to put others down for something that doesn't remotely affect them?
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » why do some women need to feel victimized during all rational discussions?
eviltwin wrote: » Its not a rational discussion when the focus is on the patient, the person who doesn't get to call the shots. Until recently pregnant women didn't even have the right to object to medical treatment. You want a rational discussion then frame it round the management of labour which goes against best practice.
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » you just have, the scope has widened...
LirW wrote: » Just because women have a say now for a few weeks it's not going to shatter a system that's in place for decades. Also if a woman opts for a C-section, it's none of anyone's business, isn't it? With my second I had a really troublesome pregnancy and at the end the baby didn't turn. All the usual didn't help and I was given the choice of trying to turn the baby from the outside, which is 50% successful and can have some pretty nasty complications or a C-section. Given the difficulty of this pregnancy I decided to go for the C-section and got a date for it. Then I went into labour over a week before and was on the table in the theatre just a few hours later and had the baby safely delivered, she was completely twisted in there. How exactly imagine that to be? If you have a healthy pregnancy you don't just go in to the consultant and tell them a C-section would suit you more, they tell you exactly what your options are and why it would make more sense trying it naturally. We're not celebrities that have so much money that they could literally buy the world, for us mortal women the normal rules apply. So what exactly is your point, what do you wanna talk about? That there are health implications when children are born via Section? It was mentioned before, yes, it might not be as beneficial as a natural birth but then rather a healthy section baby than a birth injury or a dead baby.
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » yes exactly its so we can discuss the implications of c section rationally
LirW wrote: » Can we talk about your one sentence replies that make a discussion next to impossible because they make no real sense as responses? You wanna discuss the effect of a C-section rationally? What part of it? That children are delivered safely? I really don't get what exactly you want to discuss.
bluewolf wrote: » That is shocking
the long-term benefits of vaginal seeding are unclear. In addition, there's concern that vaginal infections, such as group B streptococcus, herpes, chlamydia and gonorrhea, could be passed from mother to baby. Further research is needed. In the meantime, if you want to promote your baby's gut health, consider breast-feeding. Bacteria present in breast milk and on the skin around the nipple have been shown to contribute to the seeding of the infant gut.
Whispered wrote: » Also, I had to press him to find out exactly what he was doing. It was my due date and I had a routine appointment. He listened for heartbeat, asked some questions and said everything looked good. Then told me to get on the table for "an examination" ...........
Mountainsandh wrote: » I have two children, both C-section born. The first was as a result of complete mismanagement, incompetence, the way I was treated. .....
Malayalam wrote: » When women share their birth stories as we do sometimes with each other I am often reminded of the quote from a poem by Muriel Rukeyser - ''What would happen if one woman told the truth about her life? The world would split open.'' I remember an elderly male gynaecologist slapping hard at my thighs, trying to get me to open my legs when I did not want an internal at that moment. I just wanted to be in labour peacefully. I remember him decades later though I am positive he forgot me within seconds of stomping out. Ach, I suppose we have to somehow let go of some memories.
LirW wrote: » I've just discovered my Sansevieria is pregnant with a hidden baby. I have to get my cutter out to surgically separate it. Otherwise it dies. I'm a good plant mammy. I hope it won't have a weakened immune system after it.
Sassygirl1999 wrote: » we are discussing, thanks for your participation
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bluewolf wrote: » What is the stars