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Are transexual women attractive to hetero men?

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It's a very general question of course but think it could prompt and interesting discussion.

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Dravokivich

P_1 wrote: »

It depends on the individual really. Like nobody is 100% hetro or homo, everyone occupies some position on the spectrum.

Eh... im 100% hetro. Only been with women. Only thought about being with women.

P_1

Dravokivich wrote: »

Eh... im 100% hetro. Only been with women. Only thought about being with women.

Nobody is 100%. High 90s yes but theres no absolute on either end

Dravokivich

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody is 100%. High 90s yes but theres no absolute on either end

What are you talking about? That just sounds like nonsense. Are you going to tell gay people they aren't gay now as well?

One eyed Jack

Dravokivich wrote: »

Eh... im 100% hetro. Only been with women. Only thought about being with women.

Exactly. I really don’t know how the “spectrum” stuff got legs, but it’s nonsense, at best. Heterosexual and homosexual are completely separate and distinct sexual orientations, there’s no “spectrum”.

P_1

Dravokivich wrote: »

What are you talking about? That just sounds like nonsense. Are you going to tell gay people they aren't gay now as well?

No but viewing things as absolute black and white issues is a nonsense. There's always a nuance and a grey area in between. The majority of people (gay and straight) would lean strongly towards one side or another but its an absurdity to assume there's no nuance whatsoever.

The Bishop Basher

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody is 100%. High 90s yes but theres no absolute on either end

That's bull****. Stop putting your experience on everyone else.

Dravokivich

P_1 wrote: »

No but viewing things as absolute black and white issues is a nonsense. There's always a nuance and a grey area in between. The majority of people (gay and straight) would lean strongly towards one side or another but its an absurdity to assume there's no nuance whatsoever.

No it isnt. Its why we have black and white.

lawred2

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody is 100%. High 90s yes but theres no absolute on either end

Sorry what?

P_1

Rennaws wrote: »

That's bull****. Stop putting your experience on everyone else.

Dravokivich wrote: »

No it isnt. Its why we have black and white.

lawred2 wrote: »

Sorry what?

Sure, if ye're happy living life in absolutes with everything nicely packaged into boxes without exploring the greys in between them or questioning then the more power to ye. Personally I'd find that incredibly dull and boring but everyone has their own perspective on things, it's what makes life so interesting.

The Bishop Basher

P_1 wrote: »

Sure, if ye're happy living life in absolutes with everything nicely packaged into boxes without exploring the greys in between them or questioning then the more power to ye. Personally I'd find that incredibly dull and boring but everyone has their own perspective on things, it's what makes life so interesting.

My sexual orientation isn't a choice.

I was just born as a male who likes women..

We really have come full circle when i'm having to explain myself and labelled boring for being 100% straight..

:rolleyes:

[Deleted User]

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody is 100%. High 90s yes but theres no absolute on either end

You can just keep telling yourself that, if it makes you feel better.

FFS. Where are some people getting these ideas from? I get that many are not necessarily binary when it comes to sexuality, but the vast majority of men are absolutely (meaning, absolutely, total, 100%) heterosexual, as with women.

What is it with trying to convince straight people that they have to have some kind of shared defective sexuality. I’m a straight man. I’m over 40 years on this earth. I never have had and never will have any sexual urge or interest in another male (of any original or modified physical configuration) as any type of sexual partner. Same goes for women who were not born as women. I wish such people no ill will in life, but get over yourselves, FFS.

I am absolutely normal and I’ve a pain in the hole (fnarr fnarr) with muppets suggesting I’m some sort of statistical outlier through pushing the sort of crap P_1 wrote above. Give it a rest.

P_1

Rennaws wrote: »

My sexual orientation isn't a choice.

I was just born as a male who likes women..

We really have come full circle when i'm having to explain myself and labelled boring for being 100% straight..

:rolleyes:

Nobody's asking you to explain anything a chara. Discussion forums are all about sharing perspective and opinion

batistuta9

One eyed Jack wrote: »

Exactly. I really don’t know how the “spectrum” stuff got legs, but it’s nonsense, at best. Heterosexual and homosexual are completely separate and distinct sexual orientations, there’s no “spectrum”.

exhibit A :pac:

professore wrote: »

Have to say as a hetero man Blaire White is disturbingly hot. There are lots of worse looking cis women out there.

P_1

JayZeus wrote: »

You can just keep telling yourself that, if it makes you feel better.

FFS. Where are some people getting these ideas from? I get that many are not necessarily binary when it comes to sexuality, but the vast majority of men are absolutely (meaning, absolutely, total, 100%) heterosexual, as with women.

What is it with trying to convince straight people that they have to have some kind of shared defective sexuality. I’m a straight man. I’m over 40 years on this earth. I never have had and never will have any sexual urge or interest in another male (of any original or modified physical configuration) as any type of sexual partner. Same goes for women who were not born as women. I wish such people no ill will in life, but get over yourselves, FFS.

I am absolutely normal and I’ve a pain in the hole (fnarr fnarr) with muppets suggesting I’m some sort of statistical outlier through pushing the sort of crap P_1 wrote above. Give it a rest.

Yikes who pissed in your cornflakes, noone is pushing anything. It's a discussion forum, you know, where people come to share opinions and perspective

lawred2

P_1 wrote: »

Sure, if ye're happy living life in absolutes with everything nicely packaged into boxes without exploring the greys in between them or questioning then the more power to ye. Personally I'd find that incredibly dull and boring but everyone has their own perspective on things, it's what makes life so interesting.

I've never felt the need nor inclination to question myself.

You might not understand that but it is what it is. Boring in your eyes. The way it is in my eyes.

Ben D Bus

In my day a tranny was a portable radio!

The Bishop Basher

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody's asking you to explain anything a chara. Discussion forums are all about sharing perspective and opinion

You're telling us we can't be 100% straight.

It's the same as telling someone they can't be gay.

Of course it needs to be explained to you..

[Deleted User]

Rennaws wrote: »

You're telling us we can't be 100% straight.

It's the same as telling someone they can't be gay.

Of course it needs to be explained to you..

Worse than that, he/she is saying everyone is at least a little bit gay.

[Deleted User]

P_1 wrote: »

Nobody's asking you to explain anything a chara. Discussion forums are all about sharing perspective and opinion

You kinda called him boring ,in a roundabout way, for not exploring his sexuality!

_Whimsical_

P_1 wrote: »

Sure, if ye're happy living life in absolutes with everything nicely packaged into boxes without exploring the greys in between them or questioning then the more power to ye. Personally I'd find that incredibly dull and boring but everyone has their own perspective on things, it's what makes life so interesting.

Would you find that an acceptable thing for a straight person to say to a gay person?
"I'm sure if you made the effort you could fancy people of the opposite sex. I personally don't think much of your CHOICE to not do so?"

Everyone's individual choice and perspective seems to be so much more interesting and the spice of life when that perspective only undermines one side of any debate on these matters.

I fully believe some people are gay and bi and trans and whatever, and fully respect to their to choose their own way without any form of judgement, but surely we can afford straight people the same respect?

P_1

Jaysis lads. All I'm saying is that if you want to label yourself that's cool, if you don't want to label yourself that's also cool. If you want to explore thats cool, if you don't want to, guess what, that's also cool.

The world is fcuked up enough without us getting ourselves bogged down in minutia. So long as you're not harming anyone with what you do then bloody well do it

lawred2

Out of interest, let's say someone was 97% on this spectrum... How would that three percent manifest itself?

P_1

_Whimsical_ wrote: »

Would you find that an acceptable thing for a straight person to say to a gay person?
"I'm sure if you made the effort you could fancy people of the opposite sex. I personally don't think much of your CHOICE to not do so?"

Everyone's individual choice and perspective seems to be so much more interesting and the spice of life when that perspective only undermines one side of any debate on these matters.

I fully believe some people are gay and bi and trans and whatever, and fully respect to their to choose their own way without any form of judgement, but surely we can afford straight people the same respect?

But that's not what I'm saying, essentially I'm saying that painting yourself into a corner isn't the best of ideas.

[Deleted User]

lawred2 wrote: »

Out of interested, let's say someone was 97% on this spectrum... How would that three percent manifest itself?

By finding this one attractive...

There's a willy between those legs

P_1

lawred2 wrote: »

Out of interested, let's say someone was 97% on this spectrum... How would that three percent manifest itself?

It likely wouldn't manifest itself in any meaningful way to be perfectly honest. Now say if somebody identified as 80% on the others hand you may see some manifestation.

It's an off the wall idea I know but at least it's got people thinking this fine sunny morning

P_1

Omackeral wrote: »

You kinda called him boring ,in a roundabout way, for not exploring his sexuality!

True but one person's boring is another's exciting. Like it's one of those questions where there's no right or wrong answer, it ll depends on the perspective of the person who's answering it

[Deleted User]

P_1 wrote: »

True but one person's boring is another's exciting. Like it's one of those questions where there's no right or wrong answer, it ll depends on the perspective of the person who's answering it

I think calling someone boring for something they've no control over is a bit crappy though.

lawred2

Omackeral wrote: »

By finding this one attractive...

There's a willy between those legs

Before or after willy presence was known

The Bishop Basher

P_1 wrote: »

But that's not what I'm saying, essentially I'm saying that painting yourself into a corner isn't the best of ideas.

Why ?

If you're comfortable with your sexual orientation what's wrong with stating it.

[Deleted User]

lawred2 wrote: »

Before or after willy presence was known

We'll see that's the thing. If you're attracted to her before you know, you're still attracted to a trans woman. Them's the facts.