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Considering moving to the states...

lewis

Myself and my family are considering moving to the states, my wife is from there and we`ve been back and fourth over the last few years visiting family.

Over the last few visits(years), our kids have grown up and found it harder to leave there, as we have...we feel that there`s more there for us and that we`ll be happier there, but making that MOVE decision has been talked about between both sides,(us and family in the states) to the point that we`re almost ready to make it happen....

For me, I`m a home bird, my wife moved from the states to live with me (before kids) 18 years ago, I feel this could be a new start for us all, but I`m pooping it....should I just say yes, lets do it!?!?!?

My question here is, has anyone else been in a similar situation and made the move...how was it...did it live up to your expectations...did anything go wrong...etc..

This is a major decision for us all, I just want it to be the right decision...

Cheers.

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Kermit.de.frog

Billy86 wrote: »

With large highways thus is somewhat true. With cities... not so much. A lot of road over there are falling apart, and have been for quite some time. This varies a lot depending on area, though.

That is bull**** leftist Europeans want you to believe.

The US will always remain the most powerful country in the world because it has great infrastructure.

They believe in individual freedom which the car represents. They build for the car and their infrastructure is light years ahead of Europe in that regard. It's a different scale and no one can match it.

What gets leftists is just how inferior the rest of the world is. They can't take it because it is their own bullsh#t that keeps the rest of the world so far behind. The rest of the world is not comparable.

And then they pretend to wonder why Americans don't have passports - why would they!? The rest of the world is a ****hole in comparison. They can live wonderful fulfilling lives without ever leaving the US.

[Deleted User]

Moving with a well thought out plan, education and skills is a good idea.

Moving because it will be a new start, it's always better somewhere else etc tends not to work out so well.

The average person particularly if they have children have to settle somewhere commit to something or end up bouncing from Ireland to the US, Canada, Australia, Holland, The UK, and back again always being vaguely unhappy where ever they are.

Billy86

lewis wrote: »

There roads and just general space for cars is great, way better than here.

With large highways thus is somewhat true. With cities... not so much. A lot of road over there are falling apart, and have been for quite some time. This varies a lot depending on area, though.

Billy86

This whole thread can be booked down to just one question: how rich are you, OP?

Donald Trump

Dog Man Star wrote: »

Typical ignorant Paddy!

- Chronic skills shortage
- Medicare for all
- Backwards Irish, mostly eliminated in 2002

When you move to Australia as a skilled worker, most people will say "how did you do that you waste of space ****?"
Guess what - those people are gone forever
They go back to Ireland and you move on.
The rest of us close ranks. Welcome to Australia.
**** THE BEGRUDGERS.

Go easy on the tins of Fosters there.

Haven't got a breeze what the hell that is supposed to mean

Dog Man Star

Typical ignorant Paddy!

- Chronic skills shortage
- Medicare for all
- Backwards Irish, mostly eliminated in 2002

When you move to Australia as a skilled worker, most people will say "how did you do that you waste of space ****?"
Guess what - those people are gone forever
They go back to Ireland and you move on.
The rest of us close ranks. Welcome to Australia.
**** THE BEGRUDGERS.

Dog Man Star

Come to Perth. Stomemasons arrive Thursday, Job friday

bucketybuck

Why would you want to live in that shithole?

If you want to move thats one thing, but why would you want to live in a racist shithole with effectively no social protections?

OU812

Put it this way OP, you can always come back, but you’ll be a long time wondering “what if” if you don’t go.

Or as my dad would say. Live for now, you’ll be a long time dead.

lewis

Manic Moran wrote: »

I moved 18 years ago, ended up in California. (Likely relocating to Texas in a few months, CA isn’t what it used to be). 25, $2,500in my pocket, and a one way ticket. I would submit that fear of making a mistake is a poor reason to not go. Such a fear is always going to be present, as will the “what if” if you don’t.

Nobody can promise you a better life in the US (especially if you don’t have retirement figured out), but I presume with your US connections and visits, you have a reasonable idea as to what you are in for. You have obviously talked about it, considered it, and still think that there is enough behind it that you have not rejected the idea.

I fly back to Ireland routinely, it’s good to see friends and family and the old homestead. I cannot at this time imagine a reason I would leave the US and relocate back to Ireland, though. This place works for me.

Bottom line. Fear of making a mistake is a terrible reason not to do something. Make your decision on the pros and cons, then dive into it with the fullest expectation and intent that it will work out.

Thanks a lot for your reply, it really is how we're feeling about it, mainly me cause I've not experienced this big a move before. I'll take on board what you've said.

[Deleted User]

First figure out if you can afford private schools and first-class health insurance, and if the answer is no to either of those questions then consider your position very carefully.

lewis

Kermit.de.frog wrote: »

Best thing about USA is the roads OP. No messing about.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVcJXkvCjaY

There roads and just general space for cars is great, way better than here.

lewis

riffmongous wrote: »

Where in the States?

VA.

Donald Trump

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

Apart from anything else, Trump would do me in now. There is no way I could support that total moron.

Oi. Feck off

Spanish Eyes

DickSwiveller Returns wrote: »

It's more likely ill win Mr Universe than your children being shot dead in a school shooting. get a grip!

I'm sure many a parent in US thought that, but they were left with coffins with their little children in them just the same.

Apart from anything else, Trump would do me in now. There is no way I could support that total moron.

But there's your answer, many do support him sadly. I have higher standards than that TBH.

Manic Moran

I moved 18 years ago, ended up in California. (Likely relocating to Texas in a few months, CA isn’t what it used to be). 25, $2,500in my pocket, and a one way ticket. I would submit that fear of making a mistake is a poor reason to not go. Such a fear is always going to be present, as will the “what if” if you don’t.

Nobody can promise you a better life in the US (especially if you don’t have retirement figured out), but I presume with your US connections and visits, you have a reasonable idea as to what you are in for. You have obviously talked about it, considered it, and still think that there is enough behind it that you have not rejected the idea.

I fly back to Ireland routinely, it’s good to see friends and family and the old homestead. I cannot at this time imagine a reason I would leave the US and relocate back to Ireland, though. This place works for me.

Bottom line. Fear of making a mistake is a terrible reason not to do something. Make your decision on the pros and cons, then dive into it with the fullest expectation and intent that it will work out.

DickSwiveller Returns

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

No joke, but I would be personally worried about my kids in school where they can be shot to death.

High medical insurance and co payments.

Drinking and driving is accepted.

Very high property taxes.

I don't know.

It's more likely ill win Mr Universe than your children being shot dead in a school shooting. get a grip!

Del2005

Kermit.de.frog wrote: »

Best thing about USA is the roads OP. No messing about.

Their freeways and bridges are falling apart, chronic underfunding has left the road network in a terrible state.

mvl

Well I also wonder what is the appropriate age up to which we're happy to move country ?
For example I was less than 30 when I moved here - and it was easy (and no other family around, but the two of us). But now looking at it with more mature eyes, I am not sure it would have been as easy to move in my forties, or towards fifties even ...

Donald Trump

US has the best and bigliest President

Metric Tensor

Kermit.de.frog wrote: »

Best thing about USA is the roads OP. No messing about.

Would love to see Freeway Jim getting stuck in to the Mulranney to Bangor Erris road on busy Tuesday morning.

Donald Trump

OP, on a slightly different topic, being married to a yank, I assume your kids have yanks passports.

In case anyone here wants to get themselves an oul' yank passport and emigrate, any chance ya might have a hot legal-aged daughter?

No harm asking

Yester

Go for it!

Duckworth_Luas

The United States forum in the Travel section has lots of posters with similar backgrounds.

Kermit.de.frog

Best thing about USA is the roads OP. No messing about.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVcJXkvCjaY

Donald Trump

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

No joke, but I would be personally worried about my kids in school where they can be shot to death.

Only thing that will stop a bad kid with a gun is a good kid with an even bigger gun. Buy them all Uzis. Simples.

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

High medical insurance and co payments.

Insurance is expensive. But get a dacent job and good insurance and you'll have low co-pays.

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

Drinking and driving is accepted.

Well that is kinda true. At least socially. Although community service for killing an ould fella and running across two cops in the US after driving while pissed....you're more than likely going to have to see point 1 about Uzis if ya wanna walk away from that one

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

Very high property taxes.

Property tax keeps price of houses relatively steady. Can at least dampen down bubbles. You're just paying the government a slice of what you would have otherwise paid the owner of the house anyway.

Spanish Eyes wrote: »

I don't know.

Ah sure neither do I

Franz Von Peppercorn

Surely get the kids to college here first, or you and they will be broke for life.

Kermit.de.frog

You've come to the right place OP for reasoned advice.

ygolometsipe

Makes it all the worse seeing as you can never come back.

Life is hard when you have choices.... damn choices.

Im off to have either a bowl of coco pops or frosties! cant decide either

Spanish Eyes

No joke, but I would be personally worried about my kids in school where they can be shot to death.

High medical insurance and co payments.

Drinking and driving is accepted.

Very high property taxes.

I don't know.