Deleted User wrote: » Only if you believe that such studies are the only form of evidence... Which gives Psychology an even greater degree of credibility than is warranted. You've said the word evidence, but what evidence is there really?
Deleted User wrote: » Because religious, or traditional focus groups in the US are going to very interested in showing that the Male/Female group is better for parenting. Lesbian or gay focus groups are going to want to show that they are the better option, and if not the best, then more than acceptable. The focus stops being about actual parenting, and becomes about the issue. Gender, Sexuality, etc.
Deleted User wrote: » There is a decided lack of studies about female led violence in our society. Oh, there are some but in comparison with the amount of studies about male led violence.... nope. Not even close.
Deleted User wrote: » Do we? How do we know?
Wibbs wrote: » Actually much of psychology is up in the air as far as hard data goes. It can be quite the "soft" science particularly by the time it hits the mainstream and it suffers from fashions that come and go. Remember "mindfulness"? That was a recent cure all, some even pushing it to be made a school subject. Then further research showed a strong tendency in gender differences and outcomes from the practice. In essence it was generally helpful for women, less so for men and could actually exacerbate problems in some. Patriarchy is a strong factor in male mental illness? Great, only that mental illness in men(and women) has and is going up, not down, yet society has become far less patriarchal in its thinking over the same time period. Indeed on the subject of mental health and psychology: we've never had so much emphasis, understanding and access to therapies regarding mental health, yet mental illnesses in men and women are on the increase. And no, the "it wasn't diagnosed in the past" doesn't quite fit either. Take one demographic; middle aged men. A generation ago your average 40 year old western man was one of the least likely to present with mental illnesses, the least likely to turn to suicide and very low down on overall death rates(deaths tended to cluster in younger men and the elderly). Today, they are one of the most likely groups to die by their own hands and their death rates have gone up. Even if every single death by suicide in say 1970 of 40 year old males was hidden it wouldn't explain the overall jump in rates today. Now somebody could have a brain fart, equate the rise of women's equality with this trend over the same time period and come to the conclusion that Feminism is to blame!!!!, but they'd be a 24 karat moron of the highest quality. There could be a case to answer in how roles have shifted as being one factor alright, but picking a buzzword like feminism or patriarchy and laying all the blame there like this BlindBoy character did is again the easy answer of the moronic, and I would suggest unhelpful.
Dannyriver wrote: » There is nothing about mental health that he speaks about that isn t based in solid scientific evidence. Can you name which aspect of his opinions you think are not based on research?
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » beyond your love for picking pointlessly on single words a person happened to use, is not likely to define them.
The answer could not be clearer really. You are asking what traits a particular group are considering bad. And you are asking this in the context of a discussion of the term "toxic masculinity". And my response to it is clear, that the reason you are not getting answered with a list of such traits is that the question itself misses the point that it is not the traits themselves that are "good" or "bad", but how pressured or expected an individual group is to conform to them or measure their worth by them.
I have told you what my understanding of "feminism" is, and how I see myself as a feminist thus defined. And I have given MY answer to the question you asked. Someone elses answer you will have to get from someone else. But part of the reason "feminists" are not answering your question is I have yet to find anyone who stands up and identifies by YOUR personal definition of what a "feminist" is. So again the deck is stacked, you will continue (to pretend) not to have a "feminist" answer your question because no one actually is a "feminist" by your definition of it. So there is no one TO answer it.
Again however my understanding of the use of the phrase, as with the definitions I found when I googled it, is that NO trait is toxic.
I SUSPECT you agree with me, for example, that any suffering someone suffers due to expectations put on them due to an arbitrary grouping they are part of.... is a bad thing.
Just like I wholly agree with YOU that this modern move towards playing the victim is a horror move and one to be resisted at every turn.
Technocentral wrote: » Only know the Rubberbandits from Horse Outside and the song on TS 2 soundtrack, never seen him interviewed but the fact he's pissing of the rightwingers on here so much must mean hes successful in his mission, fair fuks to him!! Truth hurts eh Dick?
Brian? wrote: » I'm misrepresenting nothing.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » If children of same sex parents had worse outcomes I wonder how willing the researchers would be to publish such findings. Can you imagine the backlash from the LGBT lobby? Are these researchers completely balanced, I wonder?
Brian? wrote: » Correction, it's not what you're saying. What are you are saying is that you suspect that any research on the subject would be buried. That's not being intellectually curious. If you were intellectually curious why don't you go and find some evidence on the subject, instead you throw out some guff about climate change data as a distraction. The reason I'm not addressing that is because it's zero to do with the topic at hand.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Actually, that isn't what I'm saying. I'm just being intellectually curious, which you should be too. I note you didn't address my point about the concealment of data re climate change
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Sounds the same thing to me? A statement like that would be just trying to explain a lack of evidence for a given position, by creating theories explaining away the lack of evidence. Even if it was 100% true however, it still changes nothing. The evidence is not there. And until such time as it is, we should act on the evidence that IS There.
But I see no reason rationally to expect funded studies to find the evidence these people are looking for, because I see no arguments being offered to even expect it to be true in the first place that there is any reason a man and a women can give a more ideal upbringing to a child than a man and a man, or a woman and a woman.
But the studies ARE being done, that's the thing. The results just are not going the way some people want, so they imagine the studies THEY would like to see simply have not been done, or have been buried.
True. Totally with you on that one. Great are of research. One of the reasons I think study on that is only being done in the last decade however is that I think the concept of emotional abuse in the first place is.... relatively speaking..... new in the public eye. It was not that long ago that (and some people still do) people thought you could not even be raped by your husband or wife if you were married to them. That marriage implied 100% consent 100% of the time. So that we are only looking into the area of women emotionally abusing men now.... does not really surprise me. Worse still, as I was only saying on the paedophilia thread yesterday.... one can only do research on certain people if those people make themselves known to us. And men have not been quick to come forward and admit to being abused in any way, emotional or physical, by women. It would be seen as a weakness. "Ah john cant even handle his woman" type stuff. So it is a good first step that we are combating THAT mentality and men are coming froward more. Now we CAN study it more. Which is all good stuff.
If you want to go with black and white "pass" or "fail" fair enough. I don't. I see that the methodologies of science have removed vast swaths of human bias from experiements and studies. Sam Parnia always springs to mind here who was very biased towards a positive results, but because honest methodologies were used they never got the results they WANTED To get. Is the system perfect? Hell no. Do I consider that a fail? Also hell no. We are working on it all the time. But yes there are flaws in how research is funded and how publication is chosen. We know this.
Keepaneye wrote: » That's the thing. If confronted in the real world these people shrink down and cower away from a good debate because when confronted with actual scientific facts, they get flustered ala Cathy Newman.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Ah, more smug patronising comments. Do you really expect people to engage with you just talk down to them?
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » So a young lad struggling in Southill Limerick needs to take a Gender Studies course or something?
Brian? wrote: » That is not what you're saying. You are saying you believe research into same sex parents is purposely not being published. At least stand over what you're actually saying.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » I'm simply saying that you shouldn't believe that all research is 100% honest and transparent just because it's been peer-reviewed.
Brian? wrote: » Right so. You've taken a position and have started digging in. It doesn't actually matter what I say anymore.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Well, I think you're very naive. do you remember a few years ago when scientists in Norwich university were found to be concealing data that conflicted with their view on climate change. These things are bound to happen.
Deleted User wrote: » Or simply that there hasn't been any funding or pressure allocated to researchers to actually do the studies.
Deleted User wrote: » Look at the area of domestic abuse. There are extremely few studies looking into the area of women assaulting males in the home, either physically or emotionally, except within the last decade or so.
Deleted User wrote: » Which fail... because there are biases within the organisations who fund the research, or within the communities who review the work.
Deleted User wrote: » There are heaps of studies out there which have been accepted for decades, and then later are revealed as being based on flawed assumptions.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Technocentral wrote: » Only know the Rubberbandits from Horse Outside and tgecsong on TS 2 soundtrack, never seen him interviewed but the fact he's pissing of the rightwingers on here so much must mean hes successful in his mission, fair fuks to him!! Wow, fantastic argument. Really profound.
Technocentral wrote: » Only know the Rubberbandits from Horse Outside and tgecsong on TS 2 soundtrack, never seen him interviewed but the fact he's pissing of the rightwingers on here so much must mean hes successful in his mission, fair fuks to him!!
Brian? wrote: » I have no doubt they would. That's how any decent academic should work. You're displaying some serious bias here to believe they wouldn t
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Apologies. It's very hard to keep with this word salad.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Your comments were in reply to a comment I just made so pardon me for thinking you were referring to me.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Well, that person does have a point. When the American Psychological Association was full of Conservative Psychologists they classified homosexuality as a disease.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » You can't underestimate how much bias plays a role in these kinds of studies.
DickSwiveller Returns wrote: » Also, as I said, there is surely a fear of a backlash from the LGBT lobby, who are very influential at the moment.