johnnyboi93 wrote: » hey guys, I'm a 25 year old male and I've been talking with a 43 year old woman online and she wants to meet up. ive no problem with the age gap. do you think any different ?
Motivator wrote: » I had a very brief fling with a co-worker a couple of years ago. I was 28 and she was 47. She was married with three kids and she made it blatantly obvious that she was up for something with someone, she mentioned it on a constant basis. She was unhappy in her marriage and there was very little sex in their marriage. I had a bad break up with my girlfriend of a number of years and I turned to my coworker for advice. I always thought she was good looking, which she was, and obviously any attraction I had towards her was just fantasy based as I never once thought anything would happen between us. One night both of us were on the late shift and we took a break together in the middle of the night. I was having a rough night and so was she. We were alone in the canteen at 3 am and one thing led to another. We had unbelievable sex on the couch in the canteen and we did so most nights we were working together for perhaps a month or so. We had lots in common, both found each other attractive and had amazing sex. There was an emotional connection too which made it much better too. We both made a conscious decision to quit before we got too used to what we were doing. It was purely down to the age gap. If she was a few years younger I’d say we’d still be together. She has since split from her husband and is alone now which is a real shame. She’s a wonderful woman and is still very sexy even at 50+. I left the company probably 5 months after we stopped messing around and I moved to Cork. Not long after I did I met my future wife and things have worked out brilliantly for us and I have an awful lot to thank my former coworker for. Listening to her being so sad at the way her marriage had ended up I actually got some tips on what not to do in a marriage and it has worked out well. I sometimes meet that woman when I go home and there’s no weirdness between us, a big plus factor when you are involved with a mature woman, and we often still chat away. She was very close to getting an invite to my wedding too. My advice to OP is go for it, the worst that can happen is you have a bit of fun with an older woman. The best that can happen is that you have a bit of fun with an older woman but you learn an awful lot about what makes women tick and what makes them happy into their 40s and beyond. Your situation is very different to mine I know but I would say go for it.
corner of hells wrote: » Go for it , she might even have a daughter or two in the firing range that you could "shake n bake " when she's out at bingo
I says wrote: » Reminds me of the joke What’s the difference between riding a Honda 50 and a granny? Both great fun to ride as long as no one sees you riding them.
professore wrote: » Funny how if the genders reversed the 47 year old would be attacked as a dirty old man taking advantage of a harmless young wan. And the "bad marriage with no sex" thing wouldn't be believed. If she was such a wonderful woman she would have left her husband before riding someone else.
Donald Trump wrote: » Jaysus. I thought I was the perverted one. I must be losing me touch. I never thought of the four-way with the mother and the two daughters
SCOOP 64 wrote: » Agreed with you if its was with older man alright,but the bad marriage and no sex id say hundreds of women in same boat, its the security with the husband they stay for and not confident enough to walk out of a marriage.
mvl wrote: » was it said a 43 year old single woman, or did I miss that part ? or why does the woman need to be seen as the needing something more out of anything ? maybe the lady is in an open marriage, and just wants a bit of fun ! ---- but from the age gap point of view, 18 years gap where OP is the youngest party wouldn't seem right (as I have young parents myself - the thought of having a thing with someone same age as them is bleah )
Princess Consuela Bananahammock wrote: » On a serious note, you do want to get her intentions clear. She may be thinking something a little more long time than you are. At 43, you're thinking about settling down a bit; at 25 you're still thinking crazy fling.
Blaas4life wrote: » Boys....let's not being getting ahead of ourselves. ...it's only a meetup....she could be sh1te craic like
