Appledreams15 wrote: » I really feel from the apology that Jackson does feel bad about her leaving in a very distressed state. He specifically apologised for it. A very steep learning curve for everyone.
Appledreams15 wrote: » Does anyone have any other thoughts on Jackson's apology, as it is the latest news. I'd love to hear people's thoughts.
Fann Linn wrote: » We'd have to hear the evidence. What is known is that the 4 were found not guilty after a trial. Furthermore, there are doubts now whether that trial should have even gone ahead according to the PSNI.
wexie wrote: » As already pointed out that's extremely unlikely to happen. But, in answer to your question : no or at least not necessarily. It's entirely possible that she believes to have been raped and they believed they didn't rape her. It's not like with a murder where you can conclude : there is a body, which didn't die of natural causes therefor a homicide has to have taken place.
zedhead wrote: » Not disputing the verdict, or even trying to insinuate they are rapists. But just because they are not guilty does not mean she is a liar.
zedhead wrote: » Genuine question. Do you think if she went on trial now for a false rape claim against them and was found not guilty, does that mean they raped her?
Appledreams15 wrote: » But Lorraine, why wouldn't people attack a legal verdict. A verdict that they don't agree with. Some agreed with the verdict, some disagreed. It stirred up discussion. I think it is a bit naive to think that nobody woukd disagree with a verdict after a case is over.
FrancieBrady wrote: » Had you been listening you would have heard him express his regret about the woman leaving in a distressed sate in the trial itself. It was probably drowned out by the mob.
jm08 wrote: » FrancieBrady wrote: » Had you been listening you would have heard him express his regret about the woman leaving in a distressed sate in the trial itself. It was probably drowned out by the mob. I thought his apology was good (better late than never) until you came along and said he was only doing it for show! I presume you will get annoyed when the 'mob' sees it the same way as you.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » I’m not defending sexism at all - I’m saying you can’t accuse PJ etc al of being sexist from a few WhatsApp messages. And I’m also noting that they are far from the only people to have messages in their chats that could be taken the wrong way by the wrong person.I suppose the apologize was a necessary evil for PR but I don’t think it’s far to take it as him admitting he did what she claimed he did or that he is acknowledging being sexist.
wexie wrote: » Not really sure how you got that from my answer? I already answered your previous question with
wexie wrote: » It's entirely possible that she believes to have been raped and they believed they didn't rape her.
FrancieBrady wrote: » Appledreams15 wrote: » I really feel from the apology that Jackson does feel bad about her leaving in a very distressed state. He specifically apologised for it. A very steep learning curve for everyone. Had you been listening you would have heard him express his regret about the woman leaving in a distressed sate in the trial itself. It was probably drowned out by the mob.
jm08 wrote: » She didn't call another woman a slut - what she said was the girls were 'being slutty.' (which could, according to the dictionary mean that they were either being 'untidy or lazy' or being 'promiscuous with many casual sexual partners'.'
jm08 wrote: » I thought his apology was good (better late than never) until you came along and said he was only doing it for show! I presume you will get annoyed when the 'mob' sees it the same way as you.
Mrsmum wrote: » I thought it was comprehensive. As an apology, it satisfied my standards .
jm08 wrote: » In what context do they call each others sluts? Dictionary definition.slut noun [ C ] (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN)slang disapproving a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvementslut noun [ C ] (LAZY WOMAN)UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually untidy and lazy
GreeBo wrote: » Who, in your opinion, are "being slutty" other than people you would describe as "sluts"?
Can I not use the word "fast" to describe someone who is running fast?
I'd go so far as to say that "slut" is the correct noun to use for someone who is acting "slutty".
Yeah_Right wrote: » So he should be allowed to get back to playing rugby?
Grayson wrote: » Are you saying that he doesn't mean the apology?
jm08 wrote: » Yes.
jm08 wrote: » I don't agree.
Appledreams15 wrote: » eh what? That's the exact opposite of what I said. I said it was hearfelt. Are you even reading this thread?
jm08 wrote: » Francie spoiled that impression by claiming that he just thought it was for show. My beef is with Francie's attitude, not yours.
joe40 wrote: » I'm glad that he put out an apology, even if it is only a cynical move it is welcome. He has admitted that a young woman left his house in distress which plenty of posters here have tried to deny He has admitted that his actions showed a lack of respect and did not reflect the principles his family tried instill, again something many posters here have tried to deny and belittle. I do hope he can get on with his life now but his apology and the wording of his apology has destroyed plenty of arguments on this forum. Equally I do not agree with some of the excessive comments by some people that want an "innocent" (determined in court) man's life and livelihood ruined. I hope everyone can move on and learn from this sorry mess