tretorn wrote: » Its only Irish women and women in the UK who dress like porn stars going out. Irish and British women are not very attracive so the clothes are designed to catch the male eye and they look trashy. European women are better looking so will attract the male eye based on attractiveness alone. Irish women are now the fattest in the world and are also short and dumpy. There is a correlation between overweight women and porn clothes, the heavier the woman the shorter the skirt and these womens outfits would hurt your eyes, hence messages to pals, do I look good, no you look like a slut. Some women actually take being called a slut as a compliment, thats how skewed things are now.
Appledreams15 wrote: » I said to my male friend, as long as men think that they are worth more than women
Tigger wrote: » Your male friend is a dick
Appledreams15 wrote: » I said to my male friend, as long as men think that they are worth more than women , sexual assault is going to happen. If they saw them as worth the same as themselves, they would never do it. That's what needs to change, the 'I am worth more than you' attitude. He said, 'But religion tells us that men are worth more than women"...
Appledreams15 wrote: » I said to my male friend, as long as men think that they are worth more than women , sexual assault is going to happen. If they saw them as worth the same as themselves, they would never do it. That's what needs to change, the 'I am worth more than you' attitude. He said, 'But religion tells us that men are worth more than women". That is in particular, the first thing we need to change in Ireland. The Catholic Church nearly normalised abuse of women by men. Question it! Who were the Catholic Church - they were abusers.
ArthurDayne wrote: » The comments about women needing to take greater care in how they dress are very concerning. All things are relative -- there was a time in Western society when a woman showing any bodily skin was considered immoral, and indeed there are societies in our world today where women are expected to cover their entire bodies lest it be seen as immorally enticing. Turning the debate into one which, even if unintentionally, encourages us to wind back the clock on what women should be expected to wear on a night out is simply not the right way to steer this discussion. Wearing a boobtube and a miniskirt is not an act of direct self-endangerment and it is therefore contrary to our values as a progressive society to foist any form of contributory responsibility on a woman wearing such attire in the event that she does indeed become a victim of a sexual assault. It is perfectly legitimate to encourage women not to put themselves in scenarios of direct potential danger, such as getting in a car with a stranger, and it is always sound advice to be mindful of one's alcohol intake, with particular sensitivity for one's surroundings and journey to wherever they are staying. It's vitally important to note however that, even if a woman does put herself in a position of direct potential danger, we must stop short of equating personal irresponsibility or recklessness with contributory responsibility for any sexual assault which she may be subjected to.
FrancieBrady wrote: » Whose is saying that??? It matters afterwards who is responsible, and to a degree it is moot because she has been raped or has had a bad experience. When it was entirely possible to avoid it.
tretorn wrote: » Why is anyones bag upstairs in the first place.
upandcumming wrote: » And an imbecile.
jimgoose wrote: » Seriously, is this fella an actual idiot??
Maxpfizer wrote: » jimgoose wrote: » Seriously, is this fella an actual idiot?? I think he'd have to actually exist before he could be an idiot.
optogirl wrote: » How is it entirely possible to avoid being raped? I'm really struggling to understand what you mean at this point.
tretorn wrote: » You dont see men or women falling around drunk in public in other countries. You dont see teen discos with thirteen year olds barely dressed and a peculiar orange colour. They have four inches of lurid make up on with beetle eyebrows and false eyelashes. Where are the adults in their lives, is this what young girls think life is about. The jury didnt believe PJ raped anyone so the version of lost handbags and immobilising people on beds got no credence. All four men were acquitted of all charged.
FrancieBrady wrote: » It is a pretty simple point. Mind yourself. Do not increase your odds. Do not get blind drink and go to the home of strange men alone?
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wexie wrote: » So we just shouldn't bother right? Is that what you're saying? How do you feel about that? Seems like good advice no? Do you think we should just replace those signs with other ones saying : don't rob people's stuff?
tretorn wrote: You dont see men or women falling around drunk in public in other countries.
foxyladyxx wrote: » Here's the link to Sober Paddyhttp://soberpaddy.com/how-not-to-be-a-rapist/
sober paddy wrote: » Here are my credentials I have gotten through forty-one years of my life without raping anyone.
I am going to share my three top tips for not raping. This is foolproof. 1. Don’t Rape What?? Seems obvious right? But let me tell you, this is the fundamental starting point for us men. It is the cement that holds all the blocks together. Do 3. Do not rape. No rape. This might seem the same as the first. In fact, now that I see it written down, it is exactly the same. You see, in my experience, I have found that not raping is the only way to not rape. I cannot think of any other way of not raping.
If you are the one with the lump of swizzily mushroom shaped cheese hanging between your legs, you are the man.
I have to admit that I did just google this, and I was a little surprised with the result.Here is why I was surprised reading this – I get the forcibly and threatening side of things, but if someone else is intoxicated and you have sex, then you are raping them. Or at least, you could be raping them. How is their consent legitimate if they are drunk and don’t know better? What if you are drunk and not thinking clearly? Heavy going right?
Then there is the casual rapist. This is the irresponsible and misogynistic sort who craves their own ego and lusts to be satisfied whatever the cost.... it may be a group of men who cajole each other to further depraved and immoral ways of conducting themselves… more often than not with women. These are the sorts who would not consider themselves to be rapists… but by definition they are. You could meet a woman, take her home and bang her in the airing cupboard of your mate’s gaf. Top story. Top night. Top shagger.
Having the penis means you are the one who rapes. It is not the other way round.
Any other time that you want to have sex with a woman. GET SOME ****ING CLARITY AND ASK HER.
The Male Group Mentality Mix in a little misogyny and privilege and you have a powerful cocktail brewing
Women, in general, do not fantasise about getting double ended by two or three meaty men.
They do not, in general, desire to be taken three ways by a bunch of penises. I have never heard a woman indicate this to me in real life. I have never heard a woman say “Ooooh three cheddar tasting, sweaty ballbags and cocks at once? Yes please.” “What, group Bukake with a Football Team? Yes Please!” And I have had my fair share of encounters with the fairer sex. I have even been involved in 3-way and 4-way action. But never, ever have I had the situation where one woman has been up for some multiple man shenanigans, without another female present. Maybe that is just down to the women I have met. But no-one I have met has shown me or told me differently.
..... I can tell you, that most women who are into group men action are the kind who will control that environment. They will tell you what they want. They will ask you to invite your friend in.
Unless… Well, probably unless they are being raped.
This cannot be something that “just happens” lads. Because let’s be clear – 2/3-on-one sex with a girl does not just happen.
It is not normal. It is not something that most women would agree to. Remember, women think very differently to men. Remember that lads.
Nowadays porn has become an uncontrollable beast. It perverts your expectations.
It is OK to have lots of sex with lots of women.
It is OK to do whatever it is you want, once both of you agree to it.
Porn is not real.
Which leads me onto my last tip… Respect women lads. Respect them and open that manly, considerate heart inside you.
In all my years of riding and women, I never had a situation where a woman left my company crying, bloodied and distraught. It never happened.
