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Appledreams15 wrote: » The protest worked! The minister for justice is going to review all aspects of sexual assault trials.
Mrsmum wrote: » If crudeness about sexual encounters is a thing, fine, but would you have the banter in such a way when you knew a girl left your company very distressed ?
chopperbyrne wrote: » And most likely find that not a lot can change.
The Wordress wrote: » I think that says more about you to be honest. Imagine my husband texting his friends and bragging about our sex life after the deed. Spit roast, top shagger etc. Would you not find that completely humiliating. I know I would.
Strazdas wrote: » I'm surprised you can't see the issue with current international players being discovered to be in a conversation about women like this. If Seamus Coleman and Darren Randolph had a conversation published describing women they'd met the night before as sluts and bragging of spit roasting and merry go rounds etc, they'd be in a fair bit of hot water, irrespective of anything to do with rape charges.
the_pen_turner wrote: » bleeding doesnt mean that there was a rape or even as assault. it is a ****ty thing to let someone leave your house bleeding though.
hysterics. what does that mean. did anyone else at the party report that she was in hysterics. i didnt hear any one say they did.
just becasue he opolagised for her feeling bad doesnt mean he did anything to casue it
freshpopcorn wrote: » These guy were disusing a one night stand and not a long term husband/wife/partner. I've often heard women/men discuss there sexual acts and sometimes it was crude. I have never done it but I don't believe in banning people doing things.
Silentcorner wrote: » Well that is not entirely true...in fact the lads testified that one minute she was looking for condoms and performing oral sex, albeit briefly, when she then decided to leave...she was getting dressed by the time the third guy came back into the room after heading out looking for condoms... So, she did not display regret afterwards....she left the room during, her exit ended the incident... For at least the next thirty minutes, the young lady was "in hysterics" according to RH, and sobbing for the entire taxi journey according to the taxi driver. Sobbing for 30 minutes is a long long time to be that upset...unless you think she was faking it!
freshpopcorn wrote: » I wouldn't speak like that to be honest but I have seen people do it and it doesn't bother me personally what people do in private chats.
Faugheen wrote: » If a woman is left bleeding and in hysterics then it absolutely does matter, consent or no consent. Why did Stuart Olding apologise if it didn't matter? Because he gets that while he doesn't agree with her recollection that she was raped, he does see that she wasn't happy with what happened.
Appledreams15 wrote: » Some people saying today the the girl didnt have legal representation. I can't see anything about it online. Anyone know?
Mrsmum wrote: » Now that is ludicrious.
hynesie08 wrote: » Why would she? She wasn't on trial.
Appledreams15 wrote: » What do you mean why would she? Victims in other crimes have lawyers. Im actually amazed if she didn't. Flabbergasted
tayto lover wrote: » The girl who entered the room said she didn't look distressed. So her distress came about after that. Maybe the fact that the girl had seen what was happening caused the distress? She might have come to her senses because the girl had seen her.
Deleted User wrote: » If I partook in a consensual spit roasting that the girl ended up either not enjoying, or regretting, I'd apologise. It doesn't necessarily mean "I'm sorry I raped you."
hynesie08 wrote: » She was a witness for the prosecution, how many witnesses have their own solicitor?
Silentcorner wrote: » Well, now you are just wildly speculating. The girl turned her head away when the witness stuck her head in, so they could not have seen each others faces, and as the young lady testified, she did not kick or scream or fight back at any point, it was not until the third man entered the room that she finally manage to escape the room, she testified that her "flight" kicked in when the third man arrived, about 20 minutes after Dara Florence popped her head in. By the time the young lady made it to the Rape Crisis centre, and the police she had forgotten about the witness who stuck her head in the room...so her fear of exposure on social media was not a motivating factor for the young lady in question.