irishrebe wrote: » It's quite hard to tell the difference at this point, to be honest with ya.
Strazdas wrote: » The protests weren't just about the trial verdict but all aspects of the nine week week trial and the general issue of consent. i wouldn't necessarily agree with much of the things they are protesting about but it's definitely not just a simple 'wrong verdict' protest (their banners and placards had quite a few different slogans and messages on them from what I could see). The 'I believe her' one could be interpreted as being aimed for example at those who called the woman a liar and a troublemaker rather than at the actual verdict.
RuMan wrote: » Havent a clue what the protests are about and i doubt the protesters do either. I did note 2 serial protesting politicians involvment however. Their involvment alone suggests its an execrise in virtue signalling. Personally i believe in due process and respect a courts verdict. The hard left clearly dont.
Faugheen wrote: » Believe it or not, a lot of them seem to be calling for better education around consent. When you have people here saying they can perform a sex act on someone when they're sleeping because they're in the bed, I think they might have a point.
Faugheen wrote: » Nope, it's written in law. You can not perform a sex act on someone when they are sleeping. As I have said, some couples enjoy that. It doesn't make it legal.
Faugheen wrote: » In this case, both defendants and complainant didn't feel they were that drunk that they couldn't consent, as they have admitted.
RuMan wrote: » Faugheen wrote: » Believe it or not, a lot of them seem to be calling for better education around consent. When you have people here saying they can perform a sex act on someone when they're sleeping because they're in the bed, I think they might have a point. So you're saying a consent class will prevent rapists raping? Could we roll that logic out to perpetrators of other crimes or is it just a rape thing?
the_pen_turner wrote: » but are they calling for more education for all or for education for men on not to rape
RuMan wrote: » Best of luck, maybe u should move on with ur life. Trudeau talks a lot about "equality" for a mans whose success is primarily down to who his daddy was. Hopefully one day the gay son of immigrants might lead canada.
RuMan wrote: » So you're saying a consent class will prevent rapists raping?
irishrebe wrote: » If rapists realised that they were actually committing rape, that might be a start.
Flipper22 wrote: » No, read the act. You cannot CONSENT when you're asleep. That's obvious. Equally it doesn't preclude someone from consenting before they fall asleep.
RuMan wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » If rapists realised that they were actually committing rape, that might be a start. Ok. I'd view rapists as criminals who mostly coudnt care less about the law
Faugheen wrote: » Of course you have extremists saying just for men. But in general, it's being linked to how poorly sex education is taught here (which it is) and that the issues surrounding consent, homophobia and what have you should be incorporated properly. I was chatting with my mates about the trial and the aftermath (media, protests) a couple of days ago, and one thing we agreed on was that there wasn't even one iota of education surrounding consent until we got to college.
irishrebe wrote: » And that's the entire problem.
Faugheen wrote: » I honestly don't know the full ins and outs about that one. Having said that, nobody is suggesting that whatsoever. They're saying that's it's ok to do because they're in your bed, which is wrong.
Silentcorner wrote: » It needs to be taught to both genders...that way if it ever goes to court no one can plead ignorance... I wouldn't have thought it were necessary either until a few months ago, the meetoo movement which I would have dismissed as hyperbole at the time (largely because it involved female actors working in the flesh business in Holywood albeit with some exceptions)...and in particular a few examples, demonstrated that there is a huge disparity when it comes to consent....witnessed on this thread.... We are heading for an age where I believe we will be challenged with more and more cases like this one...and unfortunately more false allegations also... Its all well and good waiting until college, but not every one goes to college, very very few go to consent classes...
RuMan wrote: » Ok. I'd view rapists as criminals who mostly coudnt care less about the law
Silentcorner wrote: » We are heading for an age where I believe we will be challenged with more and more cases like this one...and unfortunately more false allegations also...
RuMan wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » And that's the entire problem. Fair enough. Consent seems clear cut to me.
Rubberchikken wrote: » Whatever about the two with lesser charges getting back to employment, i cant see the other two playing rugby in this country again. Sponsors arent going to be happy to be connected to behaviour these two were charged with. Even abroad migjt be difficult. If only people, male and female, actually thought things through..