Uncharted wrote: I don't believe you either..... should I be jailed too?
mayolady14 wrote: » I never said that obviously.
mayolady14 wrote: » yourdeadwright wrote: » Again as I said you get both extremes here, You have people talking nonsense about the women (wrongly) but you also have people talking **** about the lads (no where found not guilty) its the internet it happens, I'm not going to say I believe you or not as iv never meet you , no idea what happened to you or what didn't , But if you had a issue with a Garda you should have taken it to the Garda Ombudsman they are there for situation like that and should be used , Any member of the public has the right to be listened to and have a compliant investigated, I have no interest in reliving the matter any more, as I have moved on with my life. The point is that women are constantly being told to report their rapes, but when they do they aren’t believed. I have been repeatedly told that it would be my fault if my rapist rapes another woman. This is obviously exceptionally unfair
yourdeadwright wrote: » Again as I said you get both extremes here, You have people talking nonsense about the women (wrongly) but you also have people talking **** about the lads (no where found not guilty) its the internet it happens, I'm not going to say I believe you or not as iv never meet you , no idea what happened to you or what didn't , But if you had a issue with a Garda you should have taken it to the Garda Ombudsman they are there for situation like that and should be used , Any member of the public has the right to be listened to and have a compliant investigated,
Mokuba wrote: » So 100 percent of people who accuse another of rape go to rape crisis centres? That is what you have now inferred. Where did you pluck that one from? You're embarassing yourself at this point.
seamus wrote: » How can someone have been murdered, but the person who killed them is not a murderer? Likewise, how is it possible that a woman "may have been raped", when the person who had sex with her is not a rapist? These are specific legal terms, not feelings or beliefs. If the guy who killed you is not a murderer, then you weren't murdered.
seamus wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » Who said it did? Let's shift focus a little to give a less contentious example. Imagine you have the following scenario, the below being the facts; 1. A and B are in a room together 2. Nobody else enters or leaves the room 3. When B opens the door, A is found dead, having been stabbed in the back. B admits to having stabbed A in the back. 4. B is tried for murder 5. B is acquitted Does this mean that A wasn't murdered? Yes, yes it does. A was "killed", but he wasn't murdered. Likewise with this case, in absence of anyone else in that room, the fact that none of the men were found guilty of rape means that logically and legally, the woman was not raped. She may have been attacked. She may have been injured. She may have been degraded and humiliated. But she wasn't raped. To even state that "it hasn't been proven that no rape happened", is to claim that the court is wrong.
irishrebe wrote: » Who said it did?
Chana Great Shark wrote: » I hooe they do and I think they should sue all Facebook twitter etc users who they can identify. A case like that would set a legal precedent in Ireland that would finally end trial by social media. I think all parties including witnesses and the lady In question should follow suit
Uncharted wrote: » I don't believe you either..... should I be jailed too? I mean you say you don't and didn't want it all brought up again,which is fair enough.... Thats your perogative yet you keep mentioning it......
mayolady14 wrote: » Of course. But I can tell you I’m literally ashamed of every Irish man and woman who want this girl to be hung drawn and quartered for reporting what happened her. The way she is being spoken about it shocking. And shows why we don’t come forward more often
Appledreams15 wrote: » We are a joke of a nation. I don't think you see how Ireland is regarded abroad.
Appledreams15 wrote: » I'm sure the men in India said the same thing. We are a joke of a nation. I don't think you see how Ireland is regarded abroad. Totally backwards and treating women like ****. At mass protests on rape in India, the lawyer for the rapist said 'India is the best country, in india there is no place for a woman' How different are we? How different are we ?shame on you Ireland!
Appledreams15 wrote: » Why on earth are you f"*ing talking to a victim like this. Scumbag post. Old male mentality in Ireland rises to the fore yet again!
ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Did the Gardi tell you they did not believe you? Or did they tell you, you do not have case?
steo_magra wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » Yeah, I'm fine. Just ashamed to be Irish, reading this ****. What a nasty little country. So glad my children won't be growing up in a place where you can't have an abortion if you're raped, and where you're dragged over the coals and called a liar for daring to report a sexual assault which doesn't end in a conviction. The trial wasn't in Ireland though
irishrebe wrote: » Yeah, I'm fine. Just ashamed to be Irish, reading this ****. What a nasty little country. So glad my children won't be growing up in a place where you can't have an abortion if you're raped, and where you're dragged over the coals and called a liar for daring to report a sexual assault which doesn't end in a conviction.
mayolady14 wrote: » Excuse me for a second...do you?! I don’t really give a **** about anonymity tbh, I gave a **** about my mental health and what being forced to relive that in a court room would do to it. And we all know that everyone and their mother would know who I was. It’s a small country. I know what it’s like to be a victim of rape and not get justice. And I reported to the guards and was not believed.
yourdeadwright wrote: » Again if you felt unfairly treated you should have followed up with a complaint and perused the matter, Without sounded cold hearted The Ombudsman is in place to help complaints like this, its the sole reason it is in place .You decided not to peruse the one route that is there and then complain things need to change ,
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mayolady14 wrote: » No. I chose to bring it up in an anonymous forum to show how reluctant we are to believe rape victims. I have literally no reason to lie. His name is not mentioned and the post was edited so you don’t even know his team or sport. You don’t know when it happened. I didn’t mentioned the Garda station. I have literally nothing to gain or prove and yet still....we can’t believe women when they disclose they were assaulted
No. I chose to bring it up in an anonymous forum to show how reluctant we are to believe rape victims. I have literally no reason to lie. His name is not mentioned and the post was edited so you don’t even know his team or sport. You don’t know when it happened. I didn’t mentioned the Garda station. I have literally nothing to gain or prove and yet still....we can’t believe women when they disclose they were assaulted
mayolady14 wrote: » I have literally nothing to gain or prove and yet still....we can’t believe women when they disclose they were assaulted
mayolady14 wrote: » It’s pretty telling that you and others on this tread would prefer to chastise me for not taking things further than be horrified that 1. This happened and 2. A guard did nothing.
mayolady14 wrote: » And men think they can rape and get away with it. Because they do. 98% of them.
Mokuba wrote: » What about those people who are openly saying that a unanimous verdict in a court of law is wrong, based on their own worldview - and are organising protests to criticise it. Are you ashamed of those who now are taking to the streets when a jury reaches a verdict they don't like? What about the 4 lads? Are they not entitled to move on with their lives as innocent men? Or will they have to endure this witch hunt for the remainder of their lives? Are you not ashamed of the people who continue to make their lives hell?
irishrebe wrote: » Stabbing someone to death is ALWAYS a crime, whether it was on purpose or not.
Appledreams15 wrote: » Mayolady, today all women of Ireland stand together. I feel your pain, and I have suffered what you have suffered. It is so important to get as many people to these rallies today as possible. It is vitally important to raise international awareness of human rights abuses of women in Ireland