mayolady14 wrote: » Not about how I feel? 98% of rapists walk free in this country is that ok?
Shefwedfan wrote: » I keep seeing this 1-2% number fired around Could you please explain it?
irishrebe wrote: » No, they decided that they cannot prove beyond all reasonable doubt that a rape occurred. A very different situation. If we have a fight and I punch you in the face and break your nose, but you can't prove it in court that I did it intentionally and that we weren't just messing, does that mean you weren't attacked?
OwlsZat wrote: Groping and hanging out of a bunch of socialising local "celebrities" regardless of their married status.
mayolady14 wrote: » Only 1-2% of rapists are incarcerated in this country. This is due to numerous factors but largely the way we bring a rape trial to court and the high burden of proof required by the victim. It’s not like in a robbery case where there can be probable cause. I commend any woman protesting this verdict as we need to ensure that rapists are getting convicted.
Appledreams15 wrote: » Mass protests about rape in Ireland today. We are akin to India now. Hopefully this shines an international spotlight on the shameful way that women are treated in Ireland. When you have mass protests about rape, you"ve got to start looking at yourselves.
mayolady14 wrote: » Not about how I feel? 98% of accused rapists walk free in this country is that ok?
seamus wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » No, they decided that they cannot prove beyond all reasonable doubt that a rape occurred. A very different situation. If we have a fight and I punch you in the face and break your nose, but you can't prove it in court that I did it intentionally and that we weren't just messing, does that mean you weren't attacked? Legally, yes.
pjohnson wrote: » Of course people know in the locality. Thats the nature of gossip. Dara Florence was outed as the complainant on social media which was false. Vast majority of people do not know her identity. This whole island and a large chunk of Britain all know Jackson and Olding now.
Sidebaro wrote: » OwlsZat wrote: Groping and hanging out of a bunch of socialising local "celebrities" regardless of their married status. And you think this behaviour is no better than the lads behaviour?
mayolady14 wrote: » Shefwedfan wrote: » I keep seeing this 1-2% number fired around Could you please explain it? The Sexual Abuse and Violence in Ireland Report (2002) is now fourteen years old and it remains a deeply disturbing work. Among its findings: 27% of Irish women and men experience sexual violence in their childhood. Roughly one third of Irish women and men will experience sexual violence in their lifetime. Only one in ten victims of sexual crime in Ireland reports that crime. Those who do report then face a torturous journey to the point where the DPP thinks it worth prosecuting the case. Ireland has the lowest conviction rate for rape cases – following allegation – in Europe, standing at 1 – 2%. The EU average is 8 – 10%.
VinLieger wrote: » mayolady14 wrote: » Not about how I feel? 98% of accused rapists walk free in this country is that ok? FYP which shows where your problem on this issue is, you seem to want to remove the whole concept of innocent until proven guilty in the case of rape
weldoninhio wrote: » As below
irishrebe wrote: » And so you'd be happy to be called a liar and a scumbag by all and sundry for taking me to court, when I was ultimately found not guilty?
Laneyh wrote: » Based on some comments elsewhere I don't think the trial got half as much detailed coverage in Britain. People genuinely didn't seem to know details of the case. The media here had a field day
Luxxis wrote: Ok how are women's rights in any way affected in a rape trial?
mayolady14 wrote: » The Sexual Abuse and Violence in Ireland Report (2002) is now fourteen years old and it remains a deeply disturbing work. Among its findings: 27% of Irish women and men experience sexual violence in their childhood. Roughly one third of Irish women and men will experience sexual violence in their lifetime. Only one in ten victims of sexual crime in Ireland reports that crime. Those who do report then face a torturous journey to the point where the DPP thinks it worth prosecuting the case. Ireland has the lowest conviction rate for rape cases – following allegation – in Europe, standing at 1 – 2%. The EU average is 8 – 10%.
Tsipras wrote: Why would they say it?
Shefwedfan wrote: Are you trying to say a Lady Garda would tell her that he is needed for the Championship????
seamus wrote: » irishrebe wrote: » And so you'd be happy to be called a liar and a scumbag by all and sundry for taking me to court, when I was ultimately found not guilty? That's an entirely different matter which I wasn't referring to. From the point of view of society, the court arbitrates and declares fact. So from a social and legal point of view, she wasn't raped. That's why we have a legal system at all. That doesn't mean her feeling that she was raped are invalid, and it doesn't change the facts of what actually happened that night - which nobody really knows. But it does mean that this stuff of, "The courts are wrong, she was raped", is at best misguided and at worst dangerous. As a society we have to accept the outcomes of a fair legal system, no matter how distasteful they may be. Otherwise we may as well just scrap it and start burning people at the stake based on nothing more than accusations.
irishrebe wrote: » And this is why it's so hard to get a rape conviction. I posted hours ago about allowing an acquaintance to use my toilet after a night out. He then made a move on me. I was able to get rid of him, but what if I hadn't been? The onus would have been on me to prove that the sex wasn't consensual, and how could I do that? It's my word against his. I would have to prove beyond all reasonable doubt that the sexual contact was unwanted. How do you do that?
Sidebaro wrote: » Shefwedfan wrote: Are you trying to say a Lady Garda would tell her that he is needed for the Championship???? Lady Garda having an interest in a man's sport? Witchcraft!!!
Uncharted wrote: Please allow me to clarify. You have my whole hearted concern (2.if) your alleged event took place. It's morally and legally wrong and disgusting on every level. My point is this..... under no circumstances would the person who raped me or anyone belonging to me get away with the crime. (1.I don't believe or understand how anyone could just let it go).....
OwlsZat wrote: I don't believe the lads behaviour was very Gentlemanly. However, her footing on the moral high ground is pretty unsteady.
Uncharted wrote: » Please allow me to clarify. You have my whole hearted concern if your alleged event took place. It's morally and legally wrong and disgusting on every level. My point is this..... under no circumstances would the person who raped me or anyone belonging to me get away with the crime. I don't believe or understand how anyone could just let it go.....
irishrebe wrote: » We don't know if she was raped or not. We know that it couldn't be proven.
I don't know where you get the idea that the findings of the jury mean the rape categorically 'didn't happen'. No legal professional would put it in those words.
mayolady14 wrote: » I was violently violated, I did not want to keep reliving it? Like Christ on a bike do people have no idea how horrific it is to have to relive a rape every day?
mayolady14 wrote: » CIARAN_BOYLE wrote: » If a Garda says something unacceptable you go to a differenr Garda. It's not rape but I was hit by a car, no injuries more than bumps and bruises. I got lucky. Garda said I'm not reporting this there was no evidence you were hit by a car. I went to a different Garda. I was violently violated, I did not want to keep reliving it? Like Christ on a bike do people have no idea how horrific it is to have to relive a rape every day?
CIARAN_BOYLE wrote: » If a Garda says something unacceptable you go to a differenr Garda. It's not rape but I was hit by a car, no injuries more than bumps and bruises. I got lucky. Garda said I'm not reporting this there was no evidence you were hit by a car. I went to a different Garda.