meeeeh wrote: » I agree with the verdict, I don't think rape was proven. But I don't think there is anything to celebrate here. Their attitude to the woman (and other women) was disgusting, I don't think trial should be so public but at least women will know who to keep away from.
bluewolf wrote: » You hope she was genuinely raped because false accusations are worse than rape? For real?
Mr.H wrote: » not what i said I said I hope she genuinely 'thought' she was raped. Because yes a false accusation of rape is worse than rape. These innocent men will have to live with doubters for the rest of their lives. Even though they are innocent. So yes a false accusation is worse than rape. I do hope she wasnt making a false accusation and she genuinely thought she was raped
Max Prophet wrote: » Should the woman be now named so lads will know to stay away from her ?
Bananaleaf wrote: » I found it interesting that it was reported on Newstalk that the 4 men were found 'innocent'. Is this correct? As in, is this the word that was used, or just the wrong choice of phrase by the reporter?
Billgirlylegs wrote: » I'd stop digging.
Mr.H wrote: Because yes a false accusation of rape is worse than rape.
seamus wrote: » One genuine issue which did come up in the conduct of the case was the disparity in the cross examination of the woman versus the men. She was basically grilled for the guts of a week on a short history of her adult life, whereas the defendants only questioned for half the time on their conduct on the night in question. Whether this is something that can be rectified I don't know, but it certainly creates a huge barrier for anyone wanting to make a complaint of rape. You have to be prepared to open your entire life up to public scrutiny and prove that you're lily white, whereas the person you accuse just has to account for their behaviour that day/night.
ebbsy wrote: » Amadan indeed.
Sidebaro wrote: » I think I'd rather be falsely accused of rape than raped. Maybe it's just me?
Mr.H wrote: » Because yes a false accusation of rape is worse than rape. These innocent men will have to live with doubters for the rest of their lives. Even though they are innocent. So yes a false accusation is worse than rape.
erica74 wrote: » The lads involved have painted themselves in an awful light with the text messages that came out after that night. The way they speak about women and, in particular, the other women who were there that night, is vile. If I was a woman who was friendly with them or their circle, I would be glad to know their true character as displayed in their messages. Any person can sleep with as many people as they want, as long as it's all consensual, and still treat each other with respect and not speak about their encounters like they're in a porno.
Kyta wrote: » Can the lads take civil proceedings against her now for defamation of character? Their careers and lives are potentially ruined now.
py2006 wrote: » Not attacking you, but surely that does not equate to rape?
retro:electro wrote: » This kind of attitude is dangerous. This has nothing to do with “smug middle class” jersey boys “winning” over a woman. Justice is blind. It cares not for who you are or where you’re from. I’m astoudned at the amount of **** like this I’m reading lately. The social standing standing of those involved should be left at the door. All that matters is what happened that night between those involved. Shame on this fool
Mr.H wrote: You know if your FALSELY accused of rape you will be always seen as a rapist. Even though you are not one
_Dara_ wrote: » py2006, I feel like you’re not understanding my position. I believe that the verdict was the correct one. I think there was too much doubt and if it’s the case that she just regretted what happened, then of course it doesn’t equate to rape. I’m not thrilled about being misrepresented like this. Someone else might skim the thread, see your post and think that I consider them guilty when I don’t. I DO think they’re misogynistic jackasses. That’s a different thing entirely.
seamus wrote: » She was basically grilled for the guts of a week on a short history of her adult life, whereas the defendants only questioned for half the time on their conduct on the night in question.