volchitsa wrote: What strikes me about that post is that it uses traditions of baby girls being abandoned alive in one country as an argument against legal abortion in another country with no history of abandoning girls at all.
pilly wrote: » You don't have any colleagues so I'm going to presume the rest of that paragraph is a lie too.
Graces7 wrote: » What an insult to families who love and cherish their children even or especially when they are severely disabled. Because they are their children. Who grudge no time or energy or cost. Who would not have killed the babies unborn . who chose to love and cherish.
Ismisejack wrote: Some of us had cows to milk, not everyone gets days off you know!
Graces7 wrote: I have colleagues working in India and Nepal and gathering in baby girls literally thrown on rubbish heaps because they are girls The men will not allow birth control or abortion lest they prevent a previous boy
Graces7 wrote: Crisis pregnancy? Inconvenient more like, and maybe they need to think re sterilisation
Graces7 wrote: » Crisis pregnancy? Inconvenient more like, and maybe they need to think re sterilisation
RobertKK wrote: » In time I think what people view as moderate now will be viewed as being extreme. There was a time when slavery was not seen as extreme, there is still slavery in the world in 2018 where people are bought and sold. Because it happens it doesn't mean it should be legal. It is pro-choice views that causes the stress you talk about, as the unborn life is seen as something that can be traded away with an abortion. I don't believe in the trading of life, where one life is seen as inferior, it is a view that ends up permeating society. It has happened in countries where abortion was legalised, abortion rates go up. The high levels of abortion has also contributed in the western world for the need for higher immigration given not enough people are being born, and this has led to tensions and the rise of the far right. Back in 2012 the figure was 30% of pregnancies in Europe were aborted or about 2.2 million abortions, a few years later we see Merkel and some others seeing the refugee crisis as a means to fix a demographic problem of not enough young people to fill jobs and pay the taxes. We saw the consequences of this policy and the problem stems from a disregard for life in the womb, which leads to not enough people being born as they are seen as disposable, the replacement of these missing people with immigration from areas of the world which do not share the same culture or heritage. Resentment and now the main opposition party in Germany is a far right party. Abortion has led to discrimination against girls in some countries, where we see being an unborn female is the reason to be aborted. Today we see the unbalanced populations in some countries like China and India where tens of million of women are missing in society because females are viewed as inferior, with men who will never have a chance to find a woman to share love, because the women were never given the chance of life as they were seen as disposable in the womb. But this is what we get when people talk about choice, viewing the lives of others as disposable, but not thinking about the consequences down the line. Abortion brings about a very negative butterfly effect.
Ismisejack wrote: » It will . If in the event the referendum does pass the pro- abortion side won’t just rest on their laurels, they will campaign for looser abortion laws again and a referendum won’t be needed to do so, just weak politicians
bubblypop wrote: » Hey, do the anti choice brigade get up really really early or go to bed really really late??
Ismisejack wrote: Trying to normalise murder and claim pro-lifeors are extremists. I’m am insulting all I stand for engaging with an invacile like you
robarmstrong wrote: » Nah, it really won't.
david75 wrote: » Anyone get their cheque from Soros this week? Mine never came
Hapax Legomenon wrote: » A vote to retain the 8th is a vote to essentially 'look the other way' while thousands of Irish women continue to have abortions in the UK - often later than would be the case if it was available in Ireland. I think it's important not to view the referendum as a 'what are your views on abortion?' survey. You can remain personally opposed to it in all circumstances, while also taking the more pragmatic view that it should not be criminalised.
pitifulgod wrote: » It's pretty moderate by international standards so not extreme. The reality is Robert, Irish citizens have abortions by the thousands. The state puts undue stress on all those women. You wish to maintain it.
Neyite wrote: » This morning I got thinking about all this debate. I thought about the few people I know who had diagnosed FFA pregnancies and who choose to carry to term. One couple has a child now with significant & severe special needs. Another got a few precious days with their baby. Others were born sleeping. In all of those cases, the couples involved got amazing care from hospital staff, or from organisations such as Feilecain. Other professionals in their fields have donated their time or their skills to try to give a couple reeling during incredibly painful time some lasting memories. There were photographers giving them precious photos, seamstresses and knitters making delicate beautiful gowns for their babies to give you just a couple of examples of what folk do for newly bereaved parents. Down the line, I've seen the difficulty with the actual reality of having a disabled child who survived from a FFA diagnosis. The endless appointments, therapies and hospital stays far away from home. Waiting on multiple waiting lists. Home help. Respite care. Home nursing. Wheelchair ramps. Adaptable cars. Hoists, adult nappies, adaptation of homes and furniture to accommodate a disabled growing child. There are various organisations, charities and HSE outpatient supports that help parents with some of this but it's still a daily struggle. But I wondered where LoveBoth were in all of that? In the beginning to support people going through that pregnancy? Afterwards when the baby was born? Not once did I ever hear, out of all of the organisations that supported my friends, that the service or assistance the parents of a special needs baby was provided by LoveBoth. Not so much as a baby hat. I wondered what they actually do for the babies they love so much. Maybe they provide bereavement counselling I thought. Or helped with funeral costs? Or maybe they offer a NICU nurse support so they could briefly bring their baby home for a few days? I was sure that they offer some sort of help...because they love both, right? So I googled to check. And they don't appear to provide a thing. Not a single link to a support or a service for a crisis pregnancy, rape, FFA, or post-natal supports. Absolutely nothing. Love Both my arse.
RobertKK wrote: » I don't support repeal the 8th and the extremist abortion regime the government wants to introduce.
Loafing Oaf wrote: » Yeah, who wants to engage with invaciles?
Ismisejack wrote: » Trying to normalise murder and claim pro-lifeors are extremists.
Ismisejack wrote: » The proposed abortion amendment is totally unacceptable in my view and will ultimately lead to abortion on demand
Ismisejack wrote: » Trying to normalise murder and claim pro-lifeors are extremists. I’m am insulting all I stand for engaging with an invacile like you
Zerbini Blewitt wrote: » That’s fine. I thought you would have zero interest & zero arguments to make about women’s bodily autonomy in any case!! At least we’re clear where you stand. Just to correct one minor misunderstanding you have… The only extremists in this issue are • pro-forced birthers (like Ireland 1861-2018**, Nazi Germany, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan under the Taliban etc) and • forced abortionists (who don’t exist) Pro-choice is the sane centre ground (which is the civilised norm in all advanced, civilised countries). The body autonomy aspect of this debate will continue to take place anyway. (** all those who vote pro-life in our endless referenda (yes, that means your elderly catholic mammy & daddy and ), IONA, YD, Right wing neo-Fascist parties etc.)
Zerbini Blewitt wrote: » They do indeed. Yet, all they seem to have they have to back this stance up is their banal assertion that it is murdering babies (aka murdering fertilized ovums ) 75% - 90% by quantity of these abortion threads deal with the embryo/fetus, so I think a quid pro quo is in order. Would you be up for spending 1-4 weeks on this thread on woman’s right to bodily autonomy. Let’s get beyond the “it (forced birthing) is the lesser of two evils non-debate PR slogan from the pro-life side” I’m sure we will then all have a highly sophisticated ethical & moral debate worthy of a country with a high development index (in 2018) (without any issue-avoiding, non-argument tactics from any potential 1930’s style authoritarian forced-birthers). What do you say? (Note: Ignoring this post will have to be taken that the answer is:- No, You will not spend 4 minutes (let alone 4 weeks) discussing bodily autonomy rights).