bubblypop wrote: » Hey, do the anti choice brigade get up really really early or go to bed really really late??
Ismisejack wrote: » It will . If in the event the referendum does pass the pro- abortion side won’t just rest on their laurels, they will campaign for looser abortion laws again and a referendum won’t be needed to do so, just weak politicians
RobertKK wrote: » In time I think what people view as moderate now will be viewed as being extreme. There was a time when slavery was not seen as extreme, there is still slavery in the world in 2018 where people are bought and sold. Because it happens it doesn't mean it should be legal. It is pro-choice views that causes the stress you talk about, as the unborn life is seen as something that can be traded away with an abortion. I don't believe in the trading of life, where one life is seen as inferior, it is a view that ends up permeating society. It has happened in countries where abortion was legalised, abortion rates go up. The high levels of abortion has also contributed in the western world for the need for higher immigration given not enough people are being born, and this has led to tensions and the rise of the far right. Back in 2012 the figure was 30% of pregnancies in Europe were aborted or about 2.2 million abortions, a few years later we see Merkel and some others seeing the refugee crisis as a means to fix a demographic problem of not enough young people to fill jobs and pay the taxes. We saw the consequences of this policy and the problem stems from a disregard for life in the womb, which leads to not enough people being born as they are seen as disposable, the replacement of these missing people with immigration from areas of the world which do not share the same culture or heritage. Resentment and now the main opposition party in Germany is a far right party. Abortion has led to discrimination against girls in some countries, where we see being an unborn female is the reason to be aborted. Today we see the unbalanced populations in some countries like China and India where tens of million of women are missing in society because females are viewed as inferior, with men who will never have a chance to find a woman to share love, because the women were never given the chance of life as they were seen as disposable in the womb. But this is what we get when people talk about choice, viewing the lives of others as disposable, but not thinking about the consequences down the line. Abortion brings about a very negative butterfly effect.
Graces7 wrote: » Crisis pregnancy? Inconvenient more like, and maybe they need to think re sterilisation
Graces7 wrote: Crisis pregnancy? Inconvenient more like, and maybe they need to think re sterilisation
Graces7 wrote: I have colleagues working in India and Nepal and gathering in baby girls literally thrown on rubbish heaps because they are girls The men will not allow birth control or abortion lest they prevent a previous boy
Ismisejack wrote: Some of us had cows to milk, not everyone gets days off you know!
Graces7 wrote: » What an insult to families who love and cherish their children even or especially when they are severely disabled. Because they are their children. Who grudge no time or energy or cost. Who would not have killed the babies unborn . who chose to love and cherish.
pilly wrote: » You don't have any colleagues so I'm going to presume the rest of that paragraph is a lie too.
volchitsa wrote: What strikes me about that post is that it uses traditions of baby girls being abandoned alive in one country as an argument against legal abortion in another country with no history of abandoning girls at all.
Graces7 wrote: » I have colleagues working in India and Nepal and gathering in baby girls literally thrown on rubbish heaps because they are girls The men will not allow birth control or abortion lest they prevent a previous boy
December2012 wrote: » Yes I agree that it is awful that there is a double standard for males and females, with women not having control over their own reproductive system and being forced into situations they don't want by men or society. Thats why I am pro choice.
erica74 wrote: » How is that an insult? Parenting a child with special needs is hard, to deny that is pure stupidity. There are many many women who, if the option was available to them here in Ireland, may have chosen to end their pregnancy if the resulting baby was going to be born with special needs. However, there are also many many women who would still have chosen to continue with their pregnancy regardless of the difficulties and hardship to come. Both sets of women should have access to all of their options in their home country so that, no matter what they choose, they can be fully supported throughout. Some people are strong and stable enough and have the support system necessary to cope with a child with special needs and some people just do not have the ability to cope with a child with special needs and that is not an insult to them, it doesn't mean they are bad people. When a child with special needs is young, there is support from the government and the HSE but many families struggle to access what they need without a fight. When a child with special needs becomes an adult with special needs there is much less support available and then, parents are facing the worry of who will look after their child if something happens to them, if they become ill themselves, amongst many many other worries. I could go on and on about this particular part of the debate, however, this debate and the Referendum is about a woman's right to choose what to do when she finds herself pregnant and is not simply just about FFA and children with special needs.
kylith wrote: » Irish women have to have babies they can’t care for, and be denied a say in their maternity care because people in Asia don’t want girls? What?
amdublin wrote: » Maybe you need to stop being so judgemental and take your nose out of other people's business
pilly wrote: » What a disgusting thing to say.
Graces7 wrote: » erica74 wrote: » How is that an insult? Parenting a child with special needs is hard, to deny that is pure stupidity. There are many many women who, if the option was available to them here in Ireland, may have chosen to end their pregnancy if the resulting baby was going to be born with special needs. However, there are also many many women who would still have chosen to continue with their pregnancy regardless of the difficulties and hardship to come. Both sets of women should have access to all of their options in their home country so that, no matter what they choose, they can be fully supported throughout. Some people are strong and stable enough and have the support system necessary to cope with a child with special needs and some people just do not have the ability to cope with a child with special needs and that is not an insult to them, it doesn't mean they are bad people. When a child with special needs is young, there is support from the government and the HSE but many families struggle to access what they need without a fight. When a child with special needs becomes an adult with special needs there is much less support available and then, parents are facing the worry of who will look after their child if something happens to them, if they become ill themselves, amongst many many other worries. I could go on and on about this particular part of the debate, however, this debate and the Referendum is about a woman's right to choose what to do when she finds herself pregnant and is not simply just about FFA and children with special needs. Many things are "hard". Does not mean you choose death for someone rather than face "hard". Life is not easy for many of us but we face it.
Graces7 wrote: » Listening to discussions in Ireland, hearing things like. "Abortion is part of birth control" and "Abortion is an integral part of a woman's reproductive health care"
robarmstrong wrote: » Also Graces7, if you could answer the below questions I'd greatly appreciate it. Do you fully believe that a woman should be forced to continue a pregnancy to full term against her wishes (she may be in no position to have a baby) just to satisfy your own personal beliefs and morals? If YOU were in that same position (being unable and unwilling to carry an unwanted pregnancy to full term just to satisfy other people's demands), do you think YOU should be forced to continue a pregnancy you can't go through with for a multitude of reasons?
January wrote: » Quote: Graces7 Crisis pregnancy? Inconvenient more like, and maybe they need to think re sterilisation Anyone who lives in the real world in Ireland knows how exceptionally hard it is for women to be sterilised. Begging in some cases and still turned away because sure we don't know our own minds we might change them and then regret it or look for it to be reversed so we can have more children. Silly little women.