c.p.w.g.w wrote: » Technically my parents are still married, because the cost of divorce is too high...they live in different countys with their respective partners...stats would have them in the successful marriage column
david75 wrote: » To be fair a few more recent posters to the thread are pouring judgement on people just for having sex lives. These last few pages has stuff that reads like it’s from a very different time in Ireland. Long ago. Surprised anyone’s even responding to these sorts of posts tbh.
splinter65 wrote: » You should really report the posts you think are outside the charter. You’re judging those posters, and the posters who respond to them. Lot of judging going on there Dav.
JDD wrote: » True. And there’s probably similar couples both in Ireland and the UK in similar circumstances. I think the percentage rates of people in those situations would probably cancel each other out.
david75 wrote: » There was one a few pages back ‘keep your legs closed’. That seemed to start a load of it. On a thread where one side of the argument is literally involving themselves in women’s wombs, it’s to be expected I guess. But women shouldnt have to explain why they can’t use certain contraceptives or don’t want to, and there’s been loads of that here as well.
c.p.w.g.w wrote: » Technically my parents are still married, because the cost of divorce is too high..
Ajsoprano wrote: » I’m trying to find the actual referendum question but not finding it. Is it yes to 12 weeks , yes in medical reasons or no? Or is it yes to 12 weeks or no?
January wrote: » Its neither. The question will be something similar to 'do you wish to Repeal the 8th amendment and replace with the wording' the Oireachtas will have provision to legislate with regard to access to terminations' We will not be voting on anything regarding time limits.
Ajsoprano wrote: » Do you agree to let us do what we wanna do but we haven’t decided what we wanna do yet?
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Well because one is accurate and the other is not, that is why. In the context of abortion you ARE anti choice. However I am not "pro abortion". As I said in the post you seemingly decided to ignore..... people on BOTH sides of this issue want little or no abortions to be happening ideally. That is the opposite of pro abortion. So no you are not fighting fire with fire. You are flailing at an accurate term with an inaccurate one. A difference worth learning. Except again in the post you seemingly have decided to duck, dodge, and ignore I told you how the OPPOSITE is in fact true and I not only know what it superficially looks like, but I know all the intricate details of the entire gestation process. I wonder if part of the reason you have decided to ignore and dodge my post is that I do not fit the straw man mould of a pro-choice voter that you have invented in your own imagination. Or is it that you can not answer the questions I asked about that fetus, and what aspect of it you feel should be triggering our moral and ethical concerns about it's supposed right to life? Except no contraception, even multiple ones, "ensure" any such thing. Each contraception, especially used in combination, cause massive decreases in the % probability of becoming pregnant. But even combining the pill with condoms for example does NOT push that % to zero. That is a crass distortion of the reality of the pro choice narrative I am afraid. The reality is that pro-choice people, myself included, campaign for contraception use, cheaper and better access to it, and more education about it. But again you would know that if you had not decided to simply ignore my last post. No abortion is not "the answer" to "effort". Abortion is a CHOICE people can make when, despite the effort, women find themselves pregnant against their will. And choice is all it is or is being sold as by anyone except YOUR ilk with phrases like "pro abortion" that pretend otherwise. And how many people do you think are having sex? How many times do you think they do it? "Close to 100%" means not 100%. What is it then? 99%? 1% of a large number is still a large number. Even a 99% effective contraception regime will STILL result in many unplanned and often unwanted pregnancies. Do the math. And yet I did NONE of that myself and what did you do? You simply dodged and ignored my post. Which tells me you simply see what you want to see, and pick up on only the posts and posters you imagine fit the profile you have invented. Ignore those who do not fit it, because they will not fill out your agenda and profiling. "To me" being the important words in that sentence, because what you certainly have not done is offered a single piece of argument, evidence, data OR reasoning to establish a 12 week gestated fetus as a "person". So "To me it is a person" means nothing more to me than "To me Elvis is still alive". Fantasy is as fantasy does. Now if you want to actually present any of the above as part of debate rather than preaching I am more than all ears. Glad you asked. There is no reason in science or philosophy on offer to "care" (or as I put it, to have moral and ethical concern for) an entity that not just slightly but ENTIRELY lacks the faculty of consciousness or sentience. The fetus when it is generally aborted (the near totality of choice based abortions happen before week 16 almost consistently in EVERY country that has choice based abortion) not just slightly, but ENTIRELY lacks the faculty of consciousness and sentience. In fact it also lacks many of the pre-requisites for it too. What point do we, or at least should we, start to care about it? At the point when ANY significant level of doubt comes into play that that faculty may have formed. Spoiler alert: There is not a shred of concern at 0-16 weeks. It is alive. It is human. In taxonomy. It is not a Human Person. And it has no attributes upon which to afford it moral and ethical concern. And this is demonstrable because all the attributes you just listed ALSO exist in other "Life" we kill all the time. The last burger you or someone you know ate? Yep it had a heartbeat, response to stimulus, limbs, brain synapses and the whole lot. And yet to happily kill it by the millions. That last anti bacterial you took? Yes even a bacteria can respond to stimulus. So when you write "I think I have caught you lot out on this point" the reality is you have caught YOURSELF out. Because you have just listed a string of attributes that DEMONSTRABLY do not mediate a "right to life" in our general ethics and morality. So having shot yourself in the foot, limp over to the armchair and sit down and listen to the simple next step in that mental process. Ask yourself if those attributes DO NOT mediate our moral and ethical concerns, what attributes actually do. And you will then, like me, likely find that the answer you come up with for that question is PRECISELY the attributes the fetus being aborted lacks. Not just partially lacks, but ENTIRELY lacks. And having had that revelation you will then suddenly, and completely, understand one clear and concise pro choice position. Yay you! But if you need further introspection on the matter then have a little thought experiment. Imagine our technology..... and there are people who believe we are not too many generations from this...... reaches the point that we can map your consciousness into a computer and keep you alive after your body is dead. Imagine then I do this and install your consciousness into the equivalent of a toaster. No limbs. No heart beat. No flesh and blood. Just silicon and software. Should I be allowed torture you, kill you, or have my way with you because you have NONE of the attributes you just listed a 12 week old fetus having. OR would your awareness sitting inside this toaster like box have something to which I should show moral and ethical concern. If so..... why do you think that is. What does that toaster have that should concern me? And do you notice your answer to that question is PERCISELY what the fetus does not have, never has had, and is a way off having. We turn life support off all the time. So I am not sure what your point here is. In fact I am not even convinced at this moment that YOU know what your point here is. But the distinction you are missing here is that a coma patient HAS the faculty of consciousness and sentience. It might not be operating entirely, but it still has it. This is distinct from the fetus which A) Does not have it and Never has had it.
Ismisejack wrote: » The pro choice contingent have yet to come up with an “excuse “ for the inexcusable, that is the murdering of the innocent unborn. So far, all they have done is try claim the unborn doesn’t exist. It does!! The unborn is little more than a nuisance to the pro choice side and they couldn’t care less about the right of the unborn, all they are concerned of is pushing their agenda
Edward M wrote: » Did you ever think of applying for a job as a miscarriage Councillor? I m sure you'd be a big hit.
Ismisejack wrote: » The pro choice contingent have yet to come up with an “excuse “ for the inexcusable
Ismisejack wrote: » So far, all they have done is try claim the unborn doesn’t exist. It does!!
Ismisejack wrote: » they couldn’t care less about the right of the unborn
splinter65 wrote: » It’s the 12 weeks that’s going to save the 8th.
pilly wrote: » Here we go, another one.
pilly wrote: » No another one pretending to be pro choice but doing nothing but throw in anti choice arguments. Seems to be a regular tactic now. Don't know why anyone would think it will work but there go. Desperate times I suppose call for desperate measures.
grahambo wrote: It seems though Pro-Choicers still view people that are sitting on the bench as the Pro-Lifers. IE if you're not with us you're against us. Any politician will tell you that, in a Democracy, that is the absolute worst position to take as you automatically alienate people that haven't decided.
grahambo wrote: I think you are correct on that. And there is a reason the powers that be recommended 12 weeks. It's clear the "Institution" is Pro-Life, but they cannot ignore the voices of so many. 12 weeks is clearly the tipping point in many peoples opinions, including my own. Pro-Life has a way better chance at winning if it's 12 weeks than it would if say it were 10 weeks.
Ismisejack wrote: » the pro choice side , all they are concerned of is the rights and dignity of women
grahambo wrote: » Despite me saying that I am Pro-Choice, All posts have been argued against by other Pro-Choicers
grahambo wrote: » It seems though Pro-Choicers still view people that are sitting on the bench as the Pro-Lifers. IE if you're not with us you're against us. Any politician will tell you that, in a Democracy, that is the absolute worst position to take as you automatically alienate people that haven't decided.
Ismisejack wrote: » The unborn is little more than a nuisance to the pro choice side and they couldn’t care less about the right of the unborn, all they are concerned of is pushing their agenda
grahambo wrote: » I think you are correct on that. And there is a reason the powers that be recommended 12 weeks. It's clear the "Institution" is Pro-Life, but they cannot ignore the voices of so many. 12 weeks is clearly the tipping point in many peoples opinions, including my own. Pro-Life has a way better chance at winning if it's 12 weeks than it would if say it were 10 weeks.
grahambo wrote: » And there is a reason the powers that be recommended 12 weeks.
grahambo wrote: » Here's an interesting thing: Despite me saying that I am Pro-Choice, All posts have been argued against by other Pro-Choicers #9453 zedhead #9450 swampgas #9429 swampgas #9466 pilly #9468 pilly I talked with my mother about the Referendum and she feels there should be abortion. She's never steered me wrong so that's what I'll be voting for. It seems though Pro-Choicers still view people that are sitting on the bench as the Pro-Lifers. IE if you're not with us you're against us. Any politician will tell you that, in a Democracy, that is the absolute worst position to take as you automatically alienate people that haven't decided. I think you are correct on that. And there is a reason the powers that be recommended 12 weeks. It's clear the "Institution" is Pro-Life, but they cannot ignore the voices of so many. 12 weeks is clearly the tipping point in many peoples opinions, including my own. Pro-Life has a way better chance at winning if it's 12 weeks than it would if say it were 10 weeks.