L1011 wrote: » You don't need to talk to anyone at the door about it; and although a head in the sand approach isn't the best way to deal with anything - a debt of that age that hasn't been acknowledged for that period is not enforceable in court unless you acknowledge it again.
Odyssey 2005 wrote: » Call him and find out !. He will be back,again and again. May not even be what you suspect. Afraid to open your own door is no way to lead a life. Loans are like taxes and the IRA. ...they never go away.
Doctors room ghost wrote: » Still has to be dealt with though. The bank are obviously still keen on collecting the debt or else they have sold it on and the collector is now charged with collecting it.could you seek legal advice on this and maybe come to a written agreement with the company to pay back an affordable amount per week until it’s clear. It’s not nice but it won’t go away until dealt with
neenah wrote: » Can anyone offer some advice please. I had a debt collector call to my door last night looking for me. My partner answered and said I wasn't home as I was in the shower at the time. He didn't introduce himself as a debt collector but my partner said he's pretty sure he is one as he refused to talk about anything with my partner and he had paperwork in his hand. I know I have a debt owing for a loan I took out 10 years ago. I had received a few letters from the bank I owed it to and one from a debt collection agency in Dublin but this was years ago and to be honest I had almost forgotten about the loan til last night. I presume that's what the debt collector called for as there is nothing else owing. Does anyone know if I have any rights when it comes to dealing with these people as they scare the life out of me and I'm terrified he will call again and I won't know what to say or do. He left no details apart from a phone number to contact him on.
Odyssey 2005 wrote: » Neenah, it's time you put your big girls knickers on and faced this. You obviously knew this day would come. If you don't want your children to see you getting upset(perfectly understandable) then you need to take the initiative and call them. They will not beat you up. I sure you could nominate someone to speak for you if your not comfortable with it.
neenah wrote: » I know it had to be dealt but sending a big burly man to a woman's door isint the answer. I had answered the banks letters and tried to come to an arrangement with them at the time but they sold the debt to Cabot in Dublin. I tried to come to an arrangement with them also but heard nothing back from them and that was definitely 9 years ago now
lawred2 wrote: » a debt collector at the door is entering into seriously dodgy territory. They have no authority to do so. I would be contacting whomever has engaged these debt collectors to desist immediately or you will contacting the guards and reporting harassment. Instruct them to only engage with you through registered mail. The only person authorized to come to your door is a court appointed sheriff.
neenah wrote: » I just need to build up the courage to ring
spyderski wrote: » Cabot, and their wholly-owned legal outfit, "Belgard Solicitors" are nothing but a crowd of scumbags. They buy up residual debt for cents in the Euro from financial institutions, and they try to hassle and intimidate people into paying. If the debt is statute barred, don't feel under any moral obligation to pay these undesirables a penny.
IITYWYBMAD wrote: » Pick up the phone today, and deal with it. Your anxiety is just going to grow, as the days and weeks go on. You'll be hopping every time the doorbell goes, and it's no way to be living your life. As has been suggested above, you can nominate your partner to deal with it, but you have to make contact. These debt collectors are normally professional, and all they want to do is collect the debt. As has been suggested, it may not be enforceable, but burying your head will escalate it in your mind to such an extent, that the longer you leave it, the less likely you'll be to sort it. It's only a phone call, and these people are dealing with literally hundreds of these cases a day. If your partner is willing to speak on your behalf, just pick up the phone, ring them, tell them that X is dealing with this matter, and not to contact you directly again. IF they say that the call is being recorded, inform then that you are doing the same "for the record". Be firm, polite and just tell them that you are not in a position to deal with this, but your partner has agreed to speak with them on your behalf. Do not elaborate and do not say anything else. It'll be over in 3 minutes, and the relief you'll feel will be immense. Do it now...
neenah wrote: » Do I acknowledge to him that I owe the money? It's not that I want to hide but the stress is immense. My partner is happy to deal with him but will I tell him to acknowledge the debt ?
bertsmom wrote: » If you did borrow the money maby just pay it back and then it's one less thing to worry about.
spyderski wrote: » OP, you didn't borrow the money from Cabot. They made a business decision to buy distressed debt at approx 10% of par (face value), in a speculative deal that will see them make significant profits based on an overall recovery rate. Honestly, have no guilt about paying these bas**rds nothing. They are the Vultures that are in the news at the moment.
CruelCoin wrote: » It could well be the sheriff...
dr.fuzzenstein wrote: » Or pay your debt and these "vultures" wouldn't exist in the first place. It's this "free money" attitude that is to blame that Irish interest rates are twice what they are elsewhere in Europe. My German mortgage is around 2% and that could be considered expensive. This post is point in case. It's this Irish "rebel spirit" which only results in things in Ireland being difficult and expensive. Banking and insurance are two prime examples of this "sticking it to the man" attitude.
dr.fuzzenstein wrote: » Or pay your debt and these "vultures" wouldn't exist in the first place. It's this "free money" attitude that is to blame that Irish interest rates are twice what they are elsewhere in Europe.