sightband wrote: » married men going to raves in Ibiza...okey dokey I was speaking generally as most of the stags i’ve been on I hadn’t a clue who half the people were on it, uncles, cousins, brothers of girlfriends etc. If you’d been on many, as you say, you would know this much. It was a vast pool of men from varying backgrounds and quite a few of them would go extra step with the services available to them so to speak, so there ye are, it was just my observation but you felt the need to make some reference and comparison to rugby players accused of rape which is totally irrelevant to the discussion and fairly contemptuous you arrogant, insolent pr*ck.
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » Listen jabroni. As much as I appreciate the amateur psychoanalysis on your part, you'll forgive me if I don't take you too seriously. You've been on countless stags and never seen lads slinking away to get his end away with a bird.... in Amsterdam of all places! Pull the other one. You're full of it. !:D
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » Very doubtful.
Hannibal_Smith wrote: » I'd say your missus gets up to exactly the same when she's away with her mates.
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » You'll have to point out what part of what I said you find so unbelievable? Have you ever been on a golfing trip, stag party or lads holiday?
listermint wrote: » Can't believe anyone is taking this lad seriously he's clearly spoofing the lot of you.
badboyblast wrote: » Well maybe your friends and yourself are of the same generation as the current rugby players that are in a spot of bother and look at woman in The same light , I , like you have been away in endless amounts of stags, weekends , piss ups , raves from Amsterdam to, Barca , eastern Europe and Ibiza and most all married etc and we don't cheat or use pros but each to their own
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » Ah yeah I drop it in to plenty of holes on my trips away. Always bring a good set of iron and wood with me. Always trying for the the birdie. Play a bit from the rough when I have to. Great feeling stepping up to the tee and driving it up the fairway with my wood. Normally like to play with one partner but have been known to take part in a four ball as well! Always try and avoid the water but have seen one or two splashes after a hard stroke.
badboyblast wrote: » No evidence, are we both on the same thread , look up what the meaning is of a narcissist then read what the guy is saying ....
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » Don't need your pity kid. I earn plenty and provide very well for my family. They have a great life and want for nothing. Wife gets what she wants. Kids are all decked out in the best of gear. 2 family holidays a year. Spend most Sunday's doing a road trip to somewhere nice for a hike and a Sunday lunch. Very happy family pal.
Franz Von Peppercorn wrote: » So do you actually play golf?
_Kaiser_ wrote: » The first paragraph is just emotion talking with no evidence to support it. By all accounts he and his family are doing quite well, financially and otherwise. It may not be ethically palatable to many, but I would say what he's at or similar "arrangements" are fairly common both the longer the relationship goes on and the younger they were getting into it. Attitudes to sex and relationships has changed massively in the last 30 years.. This is just another example of that
sightband wrote: » I’ve just gone through my stag do years, many of whom that were on the stags were both relatively newly weds themselves and in long term marriages. I can most definitely testify that the practice of a group of lads being away together and availing of the use of pro’s is definitely not in the minority.
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » Obviously you're not married or have any kids. Not much chance of the missus having an affair when I'm away. Too many swimming lessons, piano lessons, gaelic matches etc. Although she does have enough time to wreck my head asking for me to send her photos of the holiday on WhatsApp :rolleyes:
badboyblast wrote: » . Poor wife and kids , thank god they are in the minority
Samuel T. Cogley wrote: » I don't really think monogamy is viable in the long term, different strokes for different folks if you'll pardon the pun, but there's a world of difference between a discrete affair or holiday dalliance and someone running around ****ting on their own doorstep when the other partner is clearly deeply unhappy. In that case why not end it properly and seek a divorce?
badboyblast wrote: » This guy is a narcissistic bloke, his life will soon tumble down around him , people should make themselves aware of such people and avoid them at all costs. Poor wife and kids , thank god they are in the minority
_Kaiser_ wrote: » it does raise interesting questions about long term relationships and the often differing sexual needs of the 2 people involved and how to deal with it.
vicwatson wrote: » I feel desperately sad for your wife and children.
_Kaiser_ wrote: » To be fair, it sounds like despite his foreign adventures, he's a good husband and father at home. It's probably better he "blows off steam" the way he is than starting an affair with one of her friends/someone in the office or something. I suppose it depends on whether you believe you can seperate sex from emotional attachment. By the sound of it, the "arrangement" gives him what he needs and things at home are happy and stable too. Probably better than a messy divorce, upset and pain for everyone especially the kids, and the aftermath. It wouldn't really be for me, but it's probably a lot more common than some like to think - and not just married men either.
Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: » That's actually not the case with me. Myself and the missus get on great. Have a fantastic relationship. Love her to bits. Enough riding to keep me ticking over most of the time as well. Doesn't mean I also don't enjoy battering open the back gate of the city with some young foreign bird either. That don't take away from the love I have for me wife and kids. Just blowing off a bit of steam with the lads. No harm done. No one gets hurt and keeps me happy. I think it's good for a relationship. I like blowing my beans on a birds face, but I'm not gonna do that to my wife if she's gonna be in kissing the young lad goodnight, am I? The Romans used to engage in a practice called Bacchanalia where they all went off to the wilderness and got pissed on wine and rode whoever they wanted. A big aul orgy in the woods. That's what the golfing trips are like, cept we normally drink San Miguel or Superbock and ride eastern european or asian birds. It's cathartic and good for a man's soul.
_Kaiser_ wrote: » It's a fun read alright but it does raise interesting questions about long term relationships and the often differing sexual needs of the 2 people involved and how to deal with it. As I said before, it comes down to whether you can seperate sex from emotional attachment really. In the case of the 2 guys here you could argue what they're at is less destructive than the alternative if they did simply "end it" at home. Life is rarely that black and white and every situation, every 2 people, are different
demanufactured wrote: » Funniest thread on boards ever.
JohnnyFlash wrote: » Thanks for keeping an eye out for me, hombre. Have the kids today, so took it easy with a few cans in front of the telly. Bringing the two teenage boys to Leopardstown for a day at the races. What had you in that late? Computer game marathon, or a Star Wars directors edition on the box?
Debtocracy wrote: » I wouldn't be particularly worried about his use of prostitutes. I would be more worried about his 'I do be getting me rocks off with some Eastern European bird, sur they do only be gagging for it and me kids do be in the best of gear, nike trainers and all and sur I do give me missus a good one every Wednesday night to keep her happy' type of speech.
Samuel T. Cogley wrote: » At a quarter to 11 you're still posting on boards. What happened to the clunge?
