Cabaal wrote: » nobody wants to force a rape victim to carry the rapists off spring to term.
_Roz_ wrote: » My parents will both vote no, unfortunately. My mother has always said if I ever had an unwanted pregnancy, give the baby to her. This the woman having to declare personal insolvency because of the insane debt racked up on the house by my father. She hasn't the means to provide for herself, let alone a human being. But somehow the child existing is more important than quality of life.
Bannasidhe wrote: » I had a conversation the other day with a friend I don't get to see often where she told me of her horrible day canvassing for Marriage Equality in a Cork suburb (Simon Coveney's base as it happens) and her absolute horror when my notoriously homophobic elderly father opened the door to her knock. Having known her since she was a small child he recognised her so she couldn't run away. Instead she bit the bullet and asked him to vote Yes. He replied 'what other way would I ****ing vote?' Friend said she knew at the moment it was in the bag. Then she asked me 'What about Repeal? How will he vote on that?. I said I honestly don't know but suspect it would be a No. We made the sad commiseration faces at each other. This morning I decided to ask him. He said that while he, personally, is anti-abortion all this amendment is is nothing more than a way for the same bunch of godbotherers who put girls in the laundries to control and torture women and girls. That as far as he is concerned there is no way a fetus is equal to a living breathing woman and it's ridiculous to say it is. It's high time the women of Ireland were shown the respect they deserve and that respect includes them having the same control over what happens their own bodies as men have. Why on Earth would anyone want to force anyone to have a child they don't want? Sure he grew up seeing the effect that had. Women trapped in abusive marriages. Unloved and unwanted children with the rags of their arses flogging them. Men drinking to escape the responsibilities they couldn't cope with or fecking off on the boat. No more Holy Joes and Josephines punishing women and girls, he declared. Them day are gone and good riddance! My will be 86 years old when the Referendum happens father is voting Yes to Repeal. No one is more surprised than me.
Water John wrote: » Well, I'll wait to see what those Ministers opposed to the 12 weeks come up with, to deal with rape and incest. That conundrum needs to be satisfactorily dealt with by anyone, proposing Repeal and saying the 12 weeks is too liberal. I understand their reluctance at 12 weeks no restriction. They need to point out how they would see the law that follows Repeal. In fact, anyone here who supports the Repeal but want a more restricted law than the 12 weeks, please post.
RobertKK wrote: » How can you say something is an imaginary world when it was reported as fact in the UK? Why would Ireland be different?
RobertKK wrote: » Do you think abortions should be viewed as a business which you said it would be?
RobertKK wrote: » We are told the pro choice side want abortions to be legal, safe and rare. But a business is there to make money and that would go against rare.
eviltwin wrote: » It's not an easy decision to make, it can take weeks to decide. Not for everyone but for some. And you might have an idea what you would do before it happens, actually faced with making that choice can be very different.
georgina toadbum wrote: » I was just going to say this. A friend of mine always said she didn't want kids and that if she got pregnant she would have an abortion. She got pregnant and couldn't go through with it. It really is not a decision you can make before you know you are pregnant and are in that situation. Myself I don't agree with abortion. I am however pro-choice and will be voting to repeal. I would never have one myself but I wouldn't judge anyone or wish them to be denied an abortion for whatever reason they want one.
_Roz_ wrote: » I'm fine with the 12 week limit but.... would people really take that long to figure out what to do? Do you want it, and can you support it. Yes/no answers to both. If you want it but can't support it, the decision might take a bit longer I suppose to try find a workable arrangement, but for the most part, surely anyone who is having sex should already have considered what they would do if they got accidentally pregnant, and review this at any point circumstances change, no?
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » I see no evidence that your imaginary future will come to pass. But let us imagine for the purposes of argument that it does. So what? If abortion is happening who cares WHO is providing it? As with any business we will have to ensure they conform to certain regulations of course. But nothing new there. So what's the problem in your imaginary world there? I am not seeing it.
January wrote: » So trying to organise an abortion within two weeks doesn't give a person much time to contemplate their options and come to a decision on whether they want to abort or carry on with the pregnancy.
January wrote: » two weeks doesn't give a person much time to contemplate their options and come to a decision on whether they want to abort or carry on with the pregnancy.
Riskymove wrote: » from the comments so far I think they would live with a tighter time frame - i.e. 8 - 10 weeks
munchkin_utd wrote: » A I dont know why it'd be the job of someone against a change to come up with a proposal to make a change?
Those TDs and Senators who accept that the current position is no longer appropriate but who have said they don’t want to go with the 12 weeks proposal from the Oireachtas committee need to tell the electorate what if any alternative they are proposing to address the circumstances of women pregnant as a result of rape.
munchkin_utd wrote: » As to a possible viable fudge, maybe it'd simply be that the form for getting the abortion pills would have a few boxes for incest or rape, and you choose from the pallete of valid reasons which one applies. If the form simply stays with the advising doctor then whatever box is ticked becomes only an administrative formality to access the pills
Water John wrote: » I understand their reluctance at 12 weeks no restriction. They need to point out how they would see the law that follows Repeal.
RobertKK wrote: » https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/oct/05/make-access-to-abortion-easier-uks-top-obstetrician-demands
Zubeneschamali wrote: » Have you read the report of the Citizen's Assembly and the Oireachteas Committee? They cover the issues pretty well.
q9214n5louyt3p wrote: » Misrepresentation is a tactic of both sides in this debate - ironically you are misrepresenting the tactic as typical of only one side
Stuckforcash wrote: » Has anyone any links to a reasoned debate on this topic? As in one without shouting and strawman arguments. Cheers.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » 3 Draft legislation will be prepared to accompany the question above that will allow unrestricted abortion upto 12 weeks and abortion after 12 weeks in cases of FFA and threat to life of the Mother
brendanwalsh wrote: » I personally think abortion is disgusting. The description of surgical abortion really makes me feel uncomfortable and the pictures I have seen online of litttle babies chopped into pieces is disturbing.
brendanwalsh wrote: » I would have no qualms for a person to get abortion if they were raped or the child had a disease incompatible with life. But abortion on demand is something I will have to vote against.