Deleted User wrote: » And there goes morals and decency. You do realise when you abort you are killing unborn life, abortion should not be something taken lightly.
Deleted User wrote: » I believe once you conceive you are having a child.
joeyanne wrote: » CONTRACEPTION FAILS. How do you still think abstinence is a viable option? Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, nothing to be ashamed of, and something everyone - even if you don't want children - should be able to experience. Sex is stress relief, it is fun, it is a way to feel close to someone you love.
joeyanne wrote: » How do you still think abstinence is a viable option?
Deleted User wrote: » Are you saying that you would have taken abortion had it been available other than having your own children? You dont need to be rich to raise children, plenty of people of low incomes do this, even those on the dole. You dont get a medal for having your children, you give love and get love back.
baylah17 wrote: » Do you also believe in the Tooth Fairy?:rolleyes:
gallifreya wrote: » I clearly said I made a choice due to my circumstances. A woman might not need to be rich to raise a child but in my case I definitely needed my job to support my family, my home and my pregnancies. Women's circumstances differ. And abortion was available to me - in the UK. I chose to continue with my pregnancies because I felt able to. No medals required.
optogirl wrote: » the good news for you is, whatever the outcome, your position does not have to change. That's the wonderful thing about choice.
Deleted User wrote: » I mean becoming pregnant and went on to have a child, I would have thought that was obvious?
Deleted User wrote: » How about reading the posts before jumping in with your opinion. I have already said abortion should be legal for Rape, Incest and Medical Reasons.
Deleted User wrote: » No, because I think the cost and hassle of going to the UK should be enough of a deterrent to put women off that abortion is something to be taken likely.
Deleted User wrote: » Im delighted that it all worked out for you, my point is that I would in most circumstances work out for all mothers.
Deleted User wrote: » the only 100% foolproof way to avoid this is to avoid having sex.
Deleted User wrote: » If you do have sex then there should be a level of responsibility and that includes raising a child.
Deleted User wrote: » Yes Contraception fails, but if you are in a loving relationship you should be in a position to have the child.
Call me Al wrote: » Why are these pregnancies and babies ok to be murdered, going by your terminology, and not the others conceived using consensual legal sex? Why are they less worthy of life?
Deleted User wrote: » Yes Contraception fails, but if you are in a loving relationship you should be in a position to have the child. Sex is not a right for either partner, it is not a chore, it is not a requirement of a relationship. The act of Penatrive sex can result in a pregnancy, the only 100% foolproof way to avoid this is to avoid having sex. If you do have sex then there should be a level of responsibility and that includes raising a child.
kylith wrote: » Obviously not, since that's not what you said. Anyway, what does someone having a termination then choosing to subsequently have a baby have to do about anything? And how would that be worked? On achieving a conviction? That could take years. On filing a report? We'd see skyrocketing false rape accusations. On stating that she was raped? What's the difference between that and abortion on request? So rich women can travel, that's ok by you. If a woman can't afford to travel for an abortion how can she afford to take care of a baby?
Deleted User wrote: » When do you think life begins?
Deleted User wrote: » I guess choice is a limited thing.
Deleted User wrote: » Because rape is an evil thing, nobody should be made to suffer.
WhiteRoses wrote: » Who are you to dictate what every single couple should or should not be in a position to do? You have no idea of people's circumstances, mental state, finances, living situations, age, general health, genetic conditions, health of the baby... You can't assume to speak for every single situation by saying "if you are in a loving situation you should be in a position to have a child". You literally cannot account for every single variable life throws at us. Blanket statements like the above do your cause no good.
Deleted User wrote: » I have made my point clear if you want to continue to twist my words that is up to you. Many women who have low incomes make wonderful parents, it's ignorant to think that you have to be rich to raise and love a child.
[Deleted User] wrote: » Yes Contraception fails, but if you are in a loving relationship you should be in a position to have the child. Sex is not a right for either partner, it is not a chore, it is not a requirement of a relationship. The act of Penatrive sex can result in a pregnancy, the only 100% foolproof way to avoid this is to avoid having sex. If you do have sex then there should be a level of responsibility and that includes raising a child.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Why are embryos implanted as a result of rape or incest less deserving of life than those implanted as a result of contraception fail
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Depends what you mean by "Life". If you mean pure biology then that is one thing, but if you mean in terms of rights, morals, ethics, person hood and actual humanity that is different. "Life" is not one catch all term that you can switch definitions in and out to suit yourself. You have to be clear what you mean. Yes, it is limited to agents with the capacity to even REQUIRE a choice. We do not give rocks choice do we? Why give it to a fetus? What attribute does a fetus has that a spider does not that makes you suddenly concerns about it having "choice"? Yet you can not offer a way to allow such women to access abortion, which keeping it from others. You have not even TRIED to answer that in fact. Dodge much?
Deleted User wrote: » Then dont have Sex, its that easy. Sex is not a legal right, you have no demand for it as a partner. Do you think married couples/partners should have legal rights to sex? Sex is a choice, if you are so Pro-Choice then choose not to have sex instead of choosing to kill a child.
emo72 wrote: » Man I have to say, that's some ancient medieval thinking right there.
emo72 wrote: » Man I have to say, that's some ancient medieval thinking right there. Edit, and I'm not being personal, just had to reply to your statement.
baylah17 wrote: » And posted by one who clearly, pardon the phrase, has never had a good ride. Sex is as much a recreational activity as it is anything else.
The Straight Dope Fighting ignorance since 1973. (It's taking longer than we thought.)
Deleted User wrote: » 20 years ago a mother in Omagh was carrying a set of twins inside her womb, the IRA killed her and her unborn children. Were they children or just a fetus?