Da Boss wrote: » I don’t mean routinely not play safe in bed, I mean a tipsy drunken one night stand for example when they won’t really be thinking very hard about the future. Like also I think everybody knows a few “ accidents “ ( don’t mean it in derogatory way ) who, if it was legally possible, would have been aborted any denied their most fundamental right, the right to life. I myself being one such example of this
WhiteRoses wrote: » What kind of people do you associate with to say you think that someone about to get the ride wouldn’t bother with using contraception OR the morning after pill, because sure they can always just get an abortion? I honestly don’t know anyone who would do such a thing. I don’t know anyone that stupid, that would just repeatedly get endless abortions as a means of birth control. You are (once again) totally underestimating how serious of a procedure an abortion is, physically, mentally and emotionally. No person would put themselves through it unless they felt they had no other choice. No woman takes the decision lightly. You are talking about women having ‘fun’ and procuring abortions as if she were picking up a pint of milk on the way home from work in the shop.
kylith wrote: » So do you go around getting your teeth knocked out because you can just get implants?
Da Boss wrote: » Well if there’s the risk that a woman gets pregnant as a result of of a bit of “fun” and the risk isn’t guaranteed but in the case if does happen it can be reversed (abortion) then I’m pretty sure that it’s a risk many will be willing to take. Regards that I don’t think any reasonable person would dispute that
Da Boss wrote: » It’s rather obvious that this will be the case should unrestricted abortion to 12 weeks be possible.
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Except yes it is. It is the solution to being pregnant and not wanting to be pregnant for one. However I prefer the word "option" to "solution". Abortion is, and should be, an option. And just because OTHER options are available, that does not mean abortion should not be one. it is not a solution, IT INVOLVES KILLING A CHILD DENYING IT ITS ONLY LIFE . You Abortion is not a reasonable option, it would be morally and ethically unacceptable in these circumstances. I see nothing wrong with that. I see no moral or ethical problems with an early stage fetus with abnormalities or defects being terminated before they reach the stage of person-hood. Well that frightens me, the fact that you see no problem with With ending the life of another, the only one they have , just cos u can. Ur lack of morals frightens me. To put the above in more clear English, you are claiming that the availability of abortion on demand will increase the quantity of unplanned pregnancies. The first question is obvious then: Have you ANY data or citations from countries that have allowed abortion by choice that shows this has, or generally, actually happens? Or is it just a fantasy you are making up because you think it SOUNDS true, and useful to your agenda?
Da Boss wrote: » Abortion is not the solution to any issue, other solutions are available, abortion shouldn’t be the “solution “ to the problem, as abortion isn’t a “solution “ .
Da Boss wrote: » Abortion involves killing and ending the life of another, that’s no solution, I’ll tell u what it is , is morally wrong and is indefensible and inexcusable like murder or similar crimes.
Da Boss wrote: » Abortion will lead to a “designer-baby” culture, where babies with disabilities such as Down syndrome or abnormalities will be indiscriminately aborted , denied their only life.
Da Boss wrote: » Another issue is the fact it will lead to increased recklessness in bed and more “accidents “( I hate using that word) which will end up to increased abortions taking place. So yes, it is very clear to me abortion cannot and should not be allowed in a civilized society like Ireland, As abortion is a barbaric practice
Da Boss wrote: » Abortion is not the solution to any issue
Da Boss wrote: » Another issue is the fact it will lead to increased recklessness in bed and more “accidents“
Da Boss wrote: » Another issue is the fact it will lead to increased recklessness in bed
mariaalice wrote: » The only solution for midwives and those supporting women in giving birth, is to learn off a script so there can be no room for interpenetration of what their saying and after that body language coaches so there is no room for interpretation of their body language not sure how exactly their though processes could be policed for interpretation though. That is a joke and slightly tongue in cheek. Of course there are people who are terrible at their jobs and should be sent for retraining, but the vast majority are kind respectful and good at what they do.
CarlosHarpic wrote: » Sadly it is probably the worst time in history for this vote. Won't pass.
Whilst a case with a formal judgement such as this is unusual, AIMS Ireland are aware of many cases in which heavily pregnant women have been threatened “with the guards coming to get them” if they don’t turn up for their scheduled induction. In fact a cohort of women reported such statements are regular commentary at antenatal classes at one particular hospital. AIMSI can also confirm that there are other women who felt they had no other option than to be coerced into a section they did not freely consent to.The fear of being taken to the High Court and being sedated for forced obstetric procedures is usually enough to ensure that women comply with whatever the HCP may be suggesting whether it is evidenced based or not. AIMS Ireland are aware of these situations in a variety of settings and geographic locations. It is not limited to large tertiary referral hospitals or to smaller units. It is endemic and a result of article 40. 3. 3 which informs the HSE National Consent Policy, enabling High Court Actions to be taken against pregnant women who exercise their right to informed refusal of medical treatment. The ruling makes clear that the 8th amendment can be, and is used against women in continued pregnancy and birth. It finds in this particular instance that the threat to the baby’s life is not great enough to warrant forcibly sedating and sectioning a woman, but it gives us no examples of when that threat might be great enough. This leaves the door open to the HSE to continue to interpret this “risk” as they please. It enables women to be forced into processes and procedures such as CEFM (Continuous Electronic Fetal Monitoring) which the evidence base acknowledges does not improve outcomes for mothers or babies.
drkpower wrote: » The underlined is not accurate, but in fairness to you, it is a (mis)perception held by many, so its worth exploring it a little. The misperception applies across medicine, but seems to be more keenly felt in the maternity context. These are a few reasons for it: - there is more choice in routine/elective maternity care; if you have a medical/surgical illness, there is of course choice, but often there is one really good choice (yep, take my appendix out doc) and other bad ones (ah, sure ill take my chances.....); in maternity care there are far more areas of the process where multiple choices are available and there is usually a long time to think about various antenatal options, birth plans etc. Understandably then, people make those choices, and then understandably become very invested them. Those choices often define what the childbirth experience will be. - the 'problem' with that is that when something goes 'wrong', the time to consider new choices is usually very limited. And the consequences of the choice are very very significant for mother and baby. Communications are strained between the doc/midwife trying on the one hand to communicate significant risks in an often complex clinical situation, while trying not to freak mum out, as there is a clinical imperative in having a relatively calm labouring mum (and dad!). On the other side of the bed, mum is already reeling from the shock that 'there might be something wrong' and is understandably annoyed that the birth plan in which she had emotionally invested is being torn up before her eyes. She is being told complex clinical information, and told of life/health threatening consequences for herself and her baby. All this and she has already been in labour for 5 hours. - All this, and in many cases the decision needs to be made in small time windows, in extreme cases minutes. - So so when the doc/midwife communicates a choice in that context, it is completely understandable that often that is not perceived as a choice, but as being told what to do. Now, i would be the first to agree that many docs/midwives could be better at communications; it is a crucial area of practice which traditionally at least is not part of standard training for docs/midwives; im sure that has changed but i suspect it doesnt get the priority it should for professions where you spend 75% of your day communicating often difficult issues to patients.But, and this is the TL;DR bit, to say that docs/midwives simply tell patients what's going to happen and don't seek consent is nonsense. Consent is Medicine 101; not seeking it can get you sued and struck off. Every doc and midwife knows that, and to suggest that they are utterly cavalier with the issue is obviously a misperception. The bit in bold is just utter nonsense.
drkpower wrote: » But, and this is the TL;DR bit, to say that docs/midwives simply tell patients what's going to happen and don't seek consent is nonsense. Consent is Medicine 101; not seeking it can get you sued and struck off. Every doc and midwife knows that, and to suggest that they are utterly cavalier with the issue is obviously a misperception.
volchitsa wrote: » I get the feeling that the problem in Irish maternity care is that it isn't geared up to allowing patients to consent (or withhold consent) so instead of advising couples as to what the doctors think is best and then letting the couple choose, Irish hospitals still seem to take the authoritarian route of "this is what's going to happen", and in some cases threaten to call the guards of the woman is reluctant.
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Mr Thawley had googled ectopic pregnancy and had seen it could be treated with certain medicine, but counsel said he was told because the foetal sac had a heartbeat the only option was surgery.
drkpower wrote: » Kylith, where do you get the idea that i in any way am sympathetic to law as it currently stands; i am not. I fully support removal of the 8th as currently constituted and the Oirechtas commitee reccomendations. There is a disturbing narrative and mood out there i am sensing (and this isn't necessarily aimed at you) where if anyone counters any aspect of the pro-choice narrative, even if it is just to introduce facts to the picture, you are considered to be on the 'other side', regardless of what your actual views are. It is eerily similar to the type of reaction people get when they try and introduce any context to discussions around sexual harrassment allegations, or other hot topic issues of the moment. The ironic tragedy of it is that this is what happened to those who in 1983 and later who sought to raise genuine concerns about the 8th. They were shouted down and pilloried by the mass consensus.
kylith wrote: » Life threatening, yes, but not health threatening. This means that women can be denied medical treatment until they are progressed enough that their illness is killing them. Take a look at one of the women in your life. Would you be ok with telling her that if she were diagnosed with cancer during pregnancy you would deny her treatment until it becomes terminal?