Nick Park wrote: » It's like those who support the reintroduction of capital punishment getting upset at being called 'pro-death penalty'. After all, they don't want every criminal to be executed - they just want the judge to have a choice. So they should be called 'pro-choice' too. As for those of us who think slavery should be illegal - we're 'anti-choice' because we are so intolerant as to argue that people shouldn't have the choice whether to keep slaves or not.
bilbot79 wrote: » There you all go outsourcing your moral values again. Can you not make up your own mind?
smacl wrote: » You seem rather determined to establish an association with abortion and slavery there Nick, but if you think about it trying to force a woman to go through a pregnancy against her will, to suit your philosophical point of view, regardless of the untold suffering it may cause her, is actually far closer to enslavement. Perhaps 'pro-life' could be better termed 'pro-misogyny'.
J C wrote: » You will find it difficult to make that one stick, given the number of women in the pro-life movement ... and the number of women hurt by abortion.
smacl wrote: » The twelve weeks is the limit there JC. Unrestricted access to abortion within the first twelve weeks of pregnancy, and abortion under certain circumstances beyond that is what is being considered. Unlimited abortion implies unrestricted access to abortion services at any stage during the pregnancy. The title of your thread is misleading in this regard. If you mean within 12 weeks, you should maybe edit the title of the thread.
J C wrote: » Of course I can make up my own mind ... but I utilise basic principles when doing so. For a Christian, basic principles include the 10 Commandments ... although there are many more 'real world' reasons, including Human Rights, for limiting abortion than just the principle of 'thou shall not kill' ... although it is a good principle to live by whatever your religious persuasion ... or none.
Harika wrote: » There was an US slogan for Planned Parenthood, something like "Easy to access, hardly used" stating that if you want an abortion you can have it without any hassle, but there will be systems in place that will give you all support you need to get through the pregnancy and raise a child, so that you don't want one.
J C wrote: » If there isn't a God ... and it all ends when we die ... then is it not arguably more imortant that we don't kill other Human Beings, thereby depriving them of whatever time nature and fate would otherwise give them? At least a Christian woman can find some solace in their belief that their unborn child has gone to a better place. ... and I'm all for keeping out of other people's decisions, unless they are affecting other people.
smacl wrote: » I'm wouldn't be so sure. A man telling a woman that she must go through a pregnancy, regardless of the damage it does her, because he feels that abortion is immoral and goes against his religious beliefs, is about as misogynistic as it gets. Very easy to take the high moral ground when you're not actually the one who'll ever have to do any of the suffering or bear any of the hardship.
wrote: Originally Posted by J C If there isn't a God ... and it all ends when we die ... then is it not arguably more imortant that we don't kill other Human Beings, thereby depriving them of whatever time nature and fate would otherwise give them? At least a Christian woman can find some solace in their belief that their unborn child has gone to a better place. ... and I'm all for keeping out of other people's decisions, unless they are affecting other people.david75You’re contradicting yourself with that last line.
J C wrote: » How so? ... and I'd be interested in your answer to my post as well ... given that there are atheist pro-life advocates.
mrsoundie wrote: » However, the Ten Commandments were not written for Christians. They did not exist at the time that these were supposedly written.
david75 wrote: » By opposing a woman’s right to choose. For a million reasons she may not be able to raise a child or have the capacity within her life financially or structurally. Forcing a woman to have a child is damaging that woman’s life.
Katie Full Leak wrote: » There's plenty of childless couples looking to adopt!
J C wrote: » ... its nowhere near as damaging as killing her child would be to the child ... and if she cannot raise the child she can have it fostered or adopted ... and some time in the future she may even be re-united with her child. Abortion is a 'council of despair' ... unless there are serious reasons for aborting.
WhiteRoses wrote: » There is extremely limited domestic adoption in Ireland. We have long term fostering in its place. The option to adopt is only available after long term fostering of the child. That’s why when couples adopt in Ireland, it’s done internationally from countries such as India, Vietnam, Russia, etc.
koumi wrote: » I disagree. I was with you right up to here but as someone speaking from experience, it's not. It's actually just prolonged suffering and the affects on both the parent and childs health are compromised, and yes even up to and including death. In an ideal world I would wholeheartedly support your suggestion but mans inhumanity to man utterly knows no bounds and to force a life of suffering, poverty and in some cases abuse and trauma on a woman and her child because you believe it is a better alternative is just wrong.
end of the road wrote: » except nobody is opposing a woman’s right to choose.
J C wrote: » I don't understand ... how would fosterage or adoption cause these problems?
uptherebels wrote: » There ya go contradicting yourself again
J C wrote: » ... its nowhere near as damaging as killing her child would be to the child ... and if she cannot raise the child she can have it fostered or adopted ... and some time in the future she may even be re-united with her child. Abortion is a 'council of despair' ... unless there are serious reasons for aborting. ... and the reasons you cite above, occur after the child is born ... and adoption / fosterage is available to address these issues.
koumi wrote: » we had magdalen laundries which took care of these concerns years ago, the suggestion is hardly a new one. Do you still not consider the suffering involved for the mother, who with no other option must go through birth and then hand over her child and just be ok with that? Like, she just walks out of a place, job done and get on with life? It is inconceivable that you believe that to be more humane.
koumi wrote: » As for children who end up in either foster care or adopted in these circumstances, they are often left bearing the scars too and can have difficulty maneuvering through life dealing with issues of abandonment and rejection.
koumi wrote: » These are just the tip of the ice berg, the conditions which caused and brought about systemic abuse of women and children in state run institutions was born out the same principle.
J C wrote: » Demand for adopted children is vastly in excess of mothers wanting to put their children up for adoption. ... and if a mother reckons that fosterage is the way to go, that is available as well ... so there is absolutely no socio-economic reason for aborting.
J C wrote: » What he means is her right to choose to harm somebody else ... unless there are substantive reasons for doing so.
david75 wrote: » Adoption is a seriously flawed argument. It’s almost impossible to adopt in Ireland. Look it up. You’re also missing another point. So we force the mother to give birth and you don’t think giving the baby up won’t damage her mentally? We’re making flawed and uninformed arguments using broad strokes about women’s lives when every single scenario is totally different and ultimately none of our business.We won’t be there to help her raise a child she didn’t want. To pay for its upbringing. To be a guide and a parent to it.
david75 wrote: » So imposing a severely flawed morality from a great remove on a woman’s and all women’s lives is simply wrong. This is what the majority of people are thinking and those opposed to repealing the 8th haven’t seemed to realise. This is why the 8th will be repealed. In a modern society a redundant self appointed moral minority imposing their moral view on all society, just won’t fly. This is why I suggested pro life so called should look at changing tactics in my previous post.
uptherebels wrote: » Having an abortion at 12 weeks isn't harming somebody else either