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The 8th amendment(Mod warning in op)

RobertKK

The citizens assembly voted to replace or amend the 8th amendment.

50% voted to replace or amend
44% voted to repeal
Rest preferred to not state an opinion

Now deciding how it will be replaced or amended
: Let the Dail legislate on the rights of the unborn
: Amend the provision in the constitution.

Meltdown on twitter by Repealthe8th people.

Mod- This thread has descended in to petty name calling. We've tried to let this thread run without too much mod interference but now it's on our radar we will be watching. From here on the name calling stops. If you can't debate civilly we will remove your right to post.

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drkpower

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Someone i know who someone else told in the pub kindof thing....? You need to weigh up that kind of evidence against the other, you know, actual evidence out there.

What did the case in the newspaper report and what relevance does it have?

SusieBlue

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One of the people I know wasn't even told it could be medically managed by taking a tablet, as far as they were aware at the time of procedure, surgery was the only option.

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drkpower

WhiteRoses wrote: »

As far as I'm aware, and in purely personal experience, methotrexate wasn't offered or advised to 2 women I know (CUMH).
Both had the surgery rather than the tablet. Using the methotrexate is shaky ground because it technically terminates the pregnancy, which goes against the 8th, and could have the medical staff facing prosecution.
I've genuinely never heard of anyone being offered it or advised to use it to treat an ectopic pregnancy, but would be interested in seeing stats of it being used for sure.

As for the consent part, I stand by it. Permission isn't sought for breaking waters, performing sweeps, the list goes on...In my own experience, my opinion wasn't asked for regarding how I wanted to deliver. While the medical staff I dealt with were absolutely lovely, I have no doubt if I had refused something they would have done it anyway.

That 2 people you know didnt get methotrexate doesn't mean that it is illegal. The more obvious reason is that methotrexate was absolutely or relatively contraindicated in the scenario. Surgery ends a pregnancy as much as methotrexate does. Propogating what you are saying is dangerous. And irresponsible. Spreading irresponsible misinformation will do nothing to get this referendum to pass. Genuinely, go and look at the publically available guidelines on this issue. Its the least you should do.

As for the consent issue, it doesnt even make logical sense. How on earth would the breaking of waters (or not) touch upon the 8th? It is simply a procedure to advance the progress of labour. It has zero effect on the life of the foetus. I am not doubting, by the way, whether you were asked or not (you clearly should have been). Im simply saying that if you were not, it had zero to do with the 8th.

For what its worth, i was asked (well, my wife was) and we said yes.

nozzferrahhtoo

threescompany wrote: »

( obviously I’m referring only to pregnancies that result from failed / no contraception).

I think you mistyped there? I assume you are NOT talking about pregnancies from FAILED contraception. Because in those cases people did take full cautionary measures, but they failed on them. They can hardly be blamed for that.

There is two main problems with moral high horsing in this fashion however that are worthy of your consideration.

1) The first is we do not do this anywhere else. We do not stand over someone injured on the football field screaming at them that they brought it on themselves with their choice to play football, or their choice not to wear the correct protective gear, or that their protective gear was not used properly or failed them. We do not refuse medical help to those who did not put their seat belt on in the car. We help people FIRST and offer condemnation LATER.

2) Like what I wrote to you earlier about rape....... differentiating between people who did not bother to use contraception.... and those that did but were failed by it.......... is not really workable in practice. When a woman shows up seeking abortion, how do you propose to tell the difference between the two retrospectively?

People make mistakes in this world. I think the best approach is to work to minimize mistakes, rather than deny them options having made their mistakes.

Sexual ignorance is one example of this. We need better and more comprehensive and EARLIER sexual education in our schools for example. Despite people (well just one on this thread really) suggesting that education has no effect outside the classroom..... it has actually been shown to be one of (or even THE?) most effective factor in reducing unwanted pregnancy and abortion in a society.

SusieBlue

threescompany wrote: »

Do I prefer to live in a society where Women don’t have full bodily autonomy? Of course not! Full bodily autonomy is full responsibility for ones body, right?? That’s just it, I’m completely in favor of taking responsibility of ones body and making good choices.
It is other people that are not taking responsibility for their bodies & making poor choices when it comes to contraception, with a result of unwanted pregnancy? Please answer this as it would help me in understanding, but if full bodily autonomy is so important, why are people not using contraception with the result of an unwanted pregnancy? ( obviously I’m referring only to pregnancies that result from failed / no contraception).

Also, you say “their maternity treatment is not best practice”. I find this a vague sweeping statement.

This one is very simple. People are silly, people think they can beat the odds, people think they'll be grand, it'll never happen to them.

Of course they should take responsibility for their bodily autonomy, but we as humans make mistakes and misjudge situations every day.

Of course they should use contraception, but there'll always be the few with the "be grand" attitude.

SusieBlue

drkpower wrote: »

I am pro-choice and have written and lectured on the circumstances where the 8th has an impact on obstetric care.

But the above is simply incorrect, assuming the tablet you are talking about is methotrexate. There is nothing illegal about methotrexate and it is used for early ectopics in Ireland. It is part of numerous hospital guidelines on the management of ectopic pregnancy available online (including the Coombe and HSE hospitals). It is absolutely or relatively contraindicated in certain clinical scenarios, sure, so it certainly isn't used in all ectopic pregnancies. But that applies to its use in any jurisdiction.

The circumstances were the 8th impinges on obstetric care are all too real, but they are limited. Broad brush statements like 'in any circumstances, whatever a doctor decides to do or not do, a woman doesn't have the power to consent or withdraw consent' are both false and dangerous. And that type of approach will only be counter-productive in the debate that gathers pace over the next few months.

Genuine apologies if i picked you up wrong or misinterpreted something in that post.

As far as I'm aware, and in purely personal experience, methotrexate wasn't offered or advised to 2 women I know (CUMH).
Both had the surgery rather than the tablet. Using the methotrexate is shaky ground because it technically terminates the pregnancy, which goes against the 8th, and could have the medical staff facing prosecution.
I've genuinely never heard of anyone being offered it or advised to use it to treat an ectopic pregnancy, but would be interested in seeing stats of it being used for sure.

As for the consent part, I stand by it. Permission isn't sought for breaking waters, performing sweeps, the list goes on...In my own experience, my opinion wasn't asked for regarding how I wanted to deliver. While the medical staff I dealt with were absolutely lovely, I have no doubt if I had refused something they would have done it anyway.

threescompany

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Indeed - so do you prefer to be part of a society where women do not have full bodily autonomy and where their maternity treatment is not best practice because of the 8th Amendment and where women who do seek abortions are forced to do so in an unsafe manner by flying to a different jurisdiction or not?

There is not one positive outcome of the 8th Amendment. It doesnt even stop abortions (which some people might see as positive) because all the studies show that abortion bans dont stop abortions, they just make women seek unsafe abortions or force poorer women to carry to term and have unwanted children.

Do I prefer to live in a society where Women don’t have full bodily autonomy? Of course not! Full bodily autonomy is full responsibility for ones body, right?? That’s just it, I’m completely in favor of taking responsibility of ones body and making good choices.
It is other people that are not taking responsibility for their bodies & making poor choices when it comes to contraception, with a result of unwanted pregnancy? Please answer this as it would help me in understanding, but if full bodily autonomy is so important, why are people not using contraception with the result of an unwanted pregnancy? ( obviously I’m referring only to pregnancies that result from failed / no contraception).

Also, you say “their maternity treatment is not best practice”. I find this a vague sweeping statement.

drkpower

WhiteRoses wrote: »

It means in any circumstances, whatever a doctor decides to do or not do, a woman doesn't have the power to consent or withdraw consent. She has no control over her own body.

For example:
If a woman has an ectopic pregnancy (where the embryo develops in the fallopian tube rather than the womb), a simple tablet can be taken to cause miscarriage with little to no side effects for the woman. This tablet is available in pretty much every other progressive country.
Its worth noting that an ectopic pregnancy is not viable, it will never grow into a baby and is very dangerous for the woman.

However, because of the 8th amendment, this tablet is illegal because it technically causes miscarriage. So instead of taking a simple tablet, a woman has to undergo surgery to REMOVE part or all of her fallopian tube.
Not only does this affect future fertility rates, its extremely invasive and painful and more importantly, totally unnecessary when a tablet can do the same job..

I am pro-choice and have written and lectured on the circumstances where the 8th has an impact on obstetric care.

But the above is simply incorrect, assuming the tablet you are talking about is methotrexate. There is nothing illegal about methotrexate and it is used for early ectopics in Ireland. It is part of numerous hospital guidelines on the management of ectopic pregnancy available online (including the Coombe and HSE hospitals). It is absolutely or relatively contraindicated in certain clinical scenarios, sure, so it certainly isn't used in all ectopic pregnancies. But that applies to its use in any jurisdiction.

The circumstances were the 8th impinges on obstetric care are all too real, but they are limited. Broad brush statements like 'in any circumstances, whatever a doctor decides to do or not do, a woman doesn't have the power to consent or withdraw consent' are both false and dangerous. And that type of approach will only be counter-productive in the debate that gathers pace over the next few months.

Genuine apologies if i picked you up wrong or misinterpreted something in that post.

nozzferrahhtoo

thee glitz wrote: »

Would you agree that the sex of this no-one has already been determined?

Only in the same way as the size of your bathroom on a blue print has already been determined. That is, at the moment of conception you have a blue print for building a male or female person. But that does not make it a person any more than a blueprint is a house.

But yes sex is pretty much entirely determined from the moment of conception. What's your point?

thee glitz

nozzferrahhtoo wrote: »

There is no one there to HAVE a voice in the first place.

Would you agree that the sex of this no-one has already been determined?

threescompany

Thanks , I was nervous about posting as I felt very uninformed.
I agree, having a child with round the clock care, life limiting conditions, etc is an extremely difficult situation. My heart goes out to any parent in this situation. I have a DS sibling and thankfully they are living a very happy life to the full. I know that sadly, other DS children / adults do not have this privilege.
Its hard to walk in other people’s shoes but when people choose to abort DS pregnancies, I can’t help but feel sad & disappointed. I know, who am I to judge but still I can’t help thinking it’s wrong....... anyway thanks for your responses earlier.

NuMarvel

EirWatchr wrote: »

Sorry for delay - a bit busy.

Total fertility rate (TFR) is the usual figure used to discuss this, but for the purposes of relative comparison to the figure you cite:

Use the U.K. for comparison (note that the U.K. abortion rate is close to EU average, but that the Oireachtas Committee's recommendations are for an even less restrictive abortion law than the U.K.):

U.K. Abortion rate for 2016 = 0.003 per capita

(Population 65648100, 185596 Abortions, which excludes the 4810 abortions provided to non-residents)
https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/report-on-abortion-statistics-in-england-and-wales-for-2016

Estimated abortions that would have been performed in Ireland, under U.K. abortion conditions:

Ireland population 2016 = 4757976 (CSO)
Est. abortions = 14274 (4757976 * 0.003)

That's 14.8% of the birth rate in 2016.

That's a fairly average impact of abortion on fertility. Research in other countries has resulted in fall estimates of 8% - 20%.
e.g., http://www.nber.org/papers/w5615.pdf,http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12158052
And some EU countries have reported even higher.

Even if you allow for the estimated current abortion rate of people living in Ireland, it still points to an increase of over double - and percentages aside, that's thousands more lives yearly ended by the proposed Committee recommendations.

You have a big flaw in your calculations: how you express the abortion rate. It isn't expressed per capita, but per 1000 women and girls between 15 and 44. In other words, as a percentage of the part of the population most likely to become pregnant. That way you mitigate against variances in other demographics.

There's no basis for assuming that the population spread of Ireland is the same as other countries, especially when we have a higher birth rate than other EU countries. That means we're likely to have a higher percentage of people under 15 which skews the basis of your assumptions. And before you say it, our birth rate isn't a sign of the effectiveness of an abortion ban; France has the highest and they allow abortion. On the other hand, Malta's is below the EU average and they have a ban on abortion.

Also, I'd question if the UK's rate could be directly applied to Ireland, considering that countries in the UK have significant differences themselves. EG Scotland's rate is a third less than England's.

Finally, I notice you didn't provide current abortion statistics for Ireland. That's the most critical piece of information for your calculations. You can't arrive at a figure at how many more abortions a change will allow if you can't be sure how many abortions are happening in the first place.

Bannasidhe

threescompany wrote: »

That’s a lovely story. Delighted you’ve a grest relationship with your granddaughter & I respect everyone’s right to their opinion.
I think it’s great you aren’t a judgemental person. I TRY not to be, but of course, it’s hard not to judge sometimes.

Of course we all judge, and I am far from nonjudgmental (abuse or neglect a child or animal and my wrath knows no bounds) but just as I have made choices with my life that many many people have deeply disapproved of then equally whatever my personal feelings I believe I have to respect other's choices.

Sure, that whole thing wouldn't have even happened but for a choice I made that had other people's judgement coming out of the woodwork. I chose to have a child as an out lesbian and raise that child in a same-sex couple. That child grew into the man who fathered the accidental child and, as much as it may have pained him, was steadfast in his support for whatever decision his ex-girlfriend made. He's also turned out to be a very good father after a shaky start.

We need more respect in this country, not judgement.

threescompany

nozzferrahhtoo wrote: »

Ignorance requires no forgiveness, and awareness of where one's own ignorance lies deserves praise, never condemnation. Keep it up!

The first thing to be aware of is that "on demand" and "unrestricted" are massively different things. The first means that women be allowed have an abortion for reasons of their own choosing. The latter means there is no restrictions on that choice.

The vast majority of people who want women to have that choice, and countries that offer that choice, have restrictions. Most often in terms of the time limit by which abortion by choice can be sought.

Here in Ireland people who want abortion by choice usually aim for 12, 16 or 20 weeks as the cut off. Some, but much less, aim for 24 which I think is what the UK and parts of the US have.

I myself would be happy with 12, 16 or 20 really. 16 ideally. But I would lose no sleep over 12.

There are some places without such restriction. Canada for example. However it is interesting that EVEN IN a country with no restriction........ the rate at which abortions happen fall in line with where the restrictions would lie in other countries.

Take 2015 for example. There was apparently 100612 abortions in Canada in that year. The number of abortions that took place in or after week 21 was a HALF a %. A little over 500. In fact 91% of abortions in that year were complete by 12 weeks of gestation. Pretty much all of them by 16 weeks.

But a repeal of the 8th would, I am informed, allow us to legislate against abortion by choice, or for it. And if we were to legislate for it I strongly suspect that time limits would be included in that and we would have nothing like the Canadian system, and probably something with more stringent restrictions than the UK or US. But that is just my feeling, rather than anything I can evidence, given the recommendations of the Citizens Assembly.

So I see no reason for someone like yourself not to vote for repeal. But as others have said, more information is not really possible until we know EXACTLY what we will be asked to vote on.

Thanks for all that info.

SusieBlue

threescompany wrote: »

Fair enough, sorry I misunderstood what you meant.
I’ve alot of thinking to do on this topic. But there are other circumstances that I’m unconscious with ( Down’s syndrome abortions) anyway I’m just ploughing through this referendum myself. I will inform myself and make the right decision as I see fit.

When it comes to disability and fatal fetal abnormalities, I ask myself, could I bring up a child who will undoubtedly suffer and possibly be in pain? Who will never know independence, even as an adult?
Who may require round the clock care for the rest of his life?
Can I cope with the stress and pressure that comes with raising a child with special needs?
Would it effect my existing children/future children I'd like to have?
I'd have to give up my job to care for this child, am I prepared for having a lower standing of living for myself and my child, possibly relying on welfare, to get by?

I honestly don't know what I'd do. I'd like to think I would progress with the pregnancy, but who knows what my circumstances will be?
That's why the choice is so so important. Not everyone can cope. Not everyone can make the kinds of sacrifices necessary. Is it fair to force a child like this on unable/unwilling parents? Is that in the child's best interests?

Also, I just wanted to commend you on the questions you are asking. Its ok to be undecided, and when you do decide, at least you'll have all the information available to make an informed decision, whatever that may be.

threescompany

Thank you all for your comments & opinions. I must say boards has been a lot kinder than some of the Horrendous Facebook discussions I’ve seen online. It was actually depressing reading how some of the different sides were attacking each other.
I will read through all the posts & give this topic plenty of consideration before I vote.

Riskymove

threescompany wrote: »

Fair enough, sorry I misunderstood what you meant.

In fairness I should have been clearer when I said "what has it got to do with you"

good luck with your decision, whatever it is

nozzferrahhtoo

EirWatchr wrote: »

The exceptions to that are the preborn children who's lives were ended by termination - because in the absence of the law protecting them from force, they will never have a voice to claim anything.

The near totality of abortions by choice (often approaching figures like 96 and 98%) occur when the fetus is in the 0-16 weeks range of gestation. At that stage it is not that the fetus is being denied a voice. There is no one there to HAVE a voice in the first place. So a narrative discussing how they do not have a voice, is really a vicarious projection of one's own voice onto an entity that does not require one in the first place.

eviltwin

threescompany wrote: »

Fair enough, sorry I misunderstood what you meant.
I’ve alot of thinking to do on this topic. But there are other circumstances that I’m unconscious with ( Down’s syndrome abortions) anyway I’m just ploughing through this referendum myself. I will inform myself and make the right decision as I see fit.

The 12 week window will be too narrow to diagnose DS so that argument is moot.

threescompany

Riskymove wrote: »

I am not talking about your right to vote...I am talking about what you said about your friends and your reasons for your position on the matter

You felt your friends were irresponsible and as as a result perhaps they shouldn't be able to have an abortion here. I am just asking you to reflect on that idea.

Is that really a good enough reason for no one to be allowed to choose regardless of circumstances or reasons?

Is it less irresponsible to force your friends to choose to travel or have an unwanted child?

Fair enough, sorry I misunderstood what you meant.
I’ve alot of thinking to do on this topic. But there are other circumstances that I’m unconscious with ( Down’s syndrome abortions) anyway I’m just ploughing through this referendum myself. I will inform myself and make the right decision as I see fit.

nozzferrahhtoo

EirWatchr wrote: »

Everyone is free to ridicule based on their bias, or discuss sensibly. It's no skin off my nose, whichever they opt to do.

That seems a bit of random filler to just stick in there. Why did you feel the need to bring that up with me? Do you feel there was some level of ridicule in my post or something? Or were you using my post as a spring board to lash out at some other user? I genuinely see no reason for this sentence to be included in your response to me, to be honest.

EirWatchr wrote: »

It can be difficult to attribute what part of fertility rate drop is directly related to abortion

I am sure it can, but that is not the point I was making. I was making a general point about the selective application of "arguments from fertility". That is to say, if one wanted to oppose abortion on the grounds of wanting the fertility of a country to increase...... then there are many other things one should also be opposing on the same grounds. It seems a bit "both sides of the mouth" therefore to take issue with abortion on grounds of population replacement, but not to take issue with something like contraception which likely has a MUCH larger impact on it. I trust therefore you are also campaigning to have a roll back of social and legal attitudes to things like contraception?

But as other users have ALSO pointed out, I do not see wanting a higher fertility rate as a moral grounding for being against abortion. Because we get into "Handmaidens Tale" territory therefore of making it incumbent on women who do not want to have a child, to do so for the good of the society. And I think that is morally and ethically difficult position to justify.

EirWatchr wrote: »

It would be difficult to make the case that unrestricted abortion could ever contribute to increasing the fertility rate.

As above I feel you might be responding a point somewhat different to the one I am making, because certainly nothing I was writing was about INCREASING the fertility rate at all. The point I was making was that of all the things that COULD increase the fertility rate..... assuming the fertility rate actually is of concern rather than it merely being used to argue against abortion........ then the impact of abortion is pretty damn far down that list.

EirWatchr wrote: »

An avenue than would provide a more than 10% increase in the birth rate that prohibiting abortion already averts? Do tell - I'm sure we'd all like to know, particularly those who lives could be spared by it. You could look, for inspiration, to the costly birth incentives schemes that have had to be introduced by France, Canada, Denmark (to name some) who also hold low restrictions on abortion.

As we have seen however prohibiting abortion does not prevent abortion. People merely seek it in other jurisdictions or, worse, perform one on themselves using means physical or medical that are not validated or controlled by a medical professional. Your assumed figures are, just that, assumed.

But I would say the first step to BOTH reducing abortions AND increasing population replacement rates would be hollistic moves that not only reduce the number of people seeking abortions........ but also reduce the number of people seeking not to get pregnant in the first place. And such approaches would involve mediating for the reasons people seek abortions, and contraception in the first place. The economic, for example, reasons that people wish to have small families or no families at all.

There are further assumptions built into your assumed figures that are harmful too. To name but one, is the assumption that each abortion reduces our replacement rates. Take for example the very young girl who gets pregnant and seeks an abortion. She may do so to continue her college career and put off starting a family until later in her life when she is ready. A family that might number 2, 3 4 or how many kids. If she is DENIED an abortion however, this often results in dropping out of college and getting work to make ends meet and so forth. Meaning she may never get to a point where she feels capable or willing to have further children.

It is never a simplistic 1:1 narrative where each abortion results in a single reduction in our population replacement rate. Other narratives are possible to, including the narrative that autonomy over ones own reproduction process lends to a more promising overall contribution to the countries population in the long term.

A string of assumed figures, including the assumption that the abortion rate per capita in a country 13-14 times the population of our own can be validly transferred over when making such calculations.......... is not going to get us where you want to get to........ and as I said it still hits the moral conundrum of assuming each individual has some onus to go through with a pregnancy they do not want in order to feed our supposed need for population replacement.

BarryD2

Bannasidhe wrote: »

I am pro-choice not because I want women and girls to have abortions. I am pro-choice because I respect the rights of sentient human beings to determine what does and does not happen to their bodies. It's not my right to sit in judgement.

Thank you for your eloquent & honest opinion.That's exactly how and I think many other ordinary Irish citizens feel about the matter.

Will we get the chance to realise this for our wives and daughters? Hopefully but I don't know, the forces aligned behind the present position are much smaller in number, but powerful in positions they hold and willing to use any and I mean any tactics to force their views on all others.

We will see if our politicians have the guts to stand up and allow the people a real say. I wouldn't fancy being an elected representative in these times, they will be hounded. But let them be strong and give us a chance to get this monkey off our backs.

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SusieBlue

threescompany wrote: »

I don’t really understand what you mean... do you mean if there’s a life threatening situation for the mother? If so, i agree with abortion in this case so again it’s a hard one for me, who has genuine scenarios where abortion is ok sometimes but not others.

It means in any circumstances, whatever a doctor decides to do or not do, a woman doesn't have the power to consent or withdraw consent. She has no control over her own body.

For example:
If a woman has an ectopic pregnancy (where the embryo develops in the fallopian tube rather than the womb), a simple tablet can be taken to cause miscarriage with little to no side effects for the woman. This tablet is available in pretty much every other progressive country.
Its worth noting that an ectopic pregnancy is not viable, it will never grow into a baby and is very dangerous for the woman.

However, because of the 8th amendment, this tablet is illegal because it technically causes miscarriage. So instead of taking a simple tablet, a woman has to undergo surgery to REMOVE part or all of her fallopian tube.
Not only does this affect future fertility rates, its extremely invasive and painful and more importantly, totally unnecessary when a tablet can do the same job.

As recently as 2 years ago a woman in this country lost her life while undergoing the same operation, when she could have just taken a tablet.

There is also the case of Sheila Hodgers, a newlywed woman in her 20's who got cancer while pregnant. She was denied any and all treatment that could have saved her life, due to the fact that the treatment may have harmed her baby.
She and her husband begged for an abortion but were refused. She ended up dying a slow, painful death, in agony. Her daughter also died and her husband became a widower in her 20's.

These are just two stories but the effect the 8th has on the safety of pregnant women in this country is a national disgrace. This is so much more than just being about abortion.

Martina1991

threescompany wrote:

You see, thatâ€™s it, I know 3 people and all of them had abortions as it was an unwanted pregnancy resulting from the couples not using contraception. In this instance, Iâ€™m not comfortable with this. They made a choice not to use contraception and were irresponsible knowing it may result in an unwanted pregnancy. In an age when contraception is so available I cannot agree with abortion.

I would be of the same opinion as yourself in that situation. I don't agree with abortion being used when no other precautions were taken to prevent pregnancy.

But the point is, your friends still made the decision to go to England or wherever to have an abortion.

The 8th amendment didn't stop them. It just moved their situation to another country.

As it stands, the 8th affects those not wishing to continue a pregnancy. But it also affects women's maternity care.

I don't agree with the 8th as it stands so I would like to see it repealed and the wording of the legislation to be fair and considerate for the child and the mother.

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Riskymove

threescompany wrote: »

However, as an Irish citizen, i have a say on if I believe something can be legalized or not.... We all have the right to vote regardless of whether or not it affects us directly,

I am not talking about your right to vote...I am talking about what you said about your friends and your reasons for your position on the matter

You felt your friends were irresponsible and as as a result perhaps they shouldn't be able to have an abortion here. I am just asking you to reflect on that idea.

Is that really a good enough reason for no one to be allowed to choose regardless of circumstances or reasons?

Is it less irresponsible to force your friends to choose to travel or have an unwanted child?

threescompany

Bannasidhe wrote: »

Many years ago my son's ex-girlfriend contacted him to say she was pregnant. The contraception failed. To be perfectly honest at that point in their lives neither of them looked like they would excel in the parenting stakes.
I made an offer - I offered to raise the child if they wished but if she really wanted an abortion I would pay for them both to travel and the procedure. I made that offer because I am pro-choice not pro-abortion. As much as I would have been delighted to raise my grandchild the choice was not mine, it wasn't even my son's - and it was he who stated this. The only person who could make that choice was the very young woman who accidentally got pregnant and we had to accept her choice.

She decided to have the child, and for the first few years things were difficult and sometimes Granny read the riot act. Now, over a decade later my granddaughter is a lovely, intelligent, compassionate, girl on the verge of puberty and the light of my life. And yes, if she had been aborted I would always wonder but that does not change the fact that it was never my decision and I absolutely believe still that only one person had the right to decide because only one person was pregnant.

And should the day come that my granddaughter finds herself in the situation of having a crises pregnancy I will make her the same offer and I will respect what ever decision she makes.

I am pro-choice not because I want women and girls to have abortions. I am pro-choice because I respect the rights of sentient human beings to determine what does and does not happen to their bodies.
It's not my right to sit in judgement.

That’s a lovely story. Delighted you’ve a grest relationship with your granddaughter & I respect everyone’s right to their opinion.
I think it’s great you aren’t a judgemental person. I TRY not to be, but of course, it’s hard not to judge sometimes.

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