antiskeptic wrote: » I repent ☺
Katie Full Leak wrote: » I learned what good grammar was, something you obviously didn't! As for flying spaghetti, we know that spaghetti can't take to the air of its own volition:) How about answering my question ( not far above this post)
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » Don't you see any contradiction in the how you left the RCC strain of christianity you'd been indoctrinated into by (presumably) your parents once you were old enough to reason for yourself yet you in turn are indoctrinating your own kids into your preferred religion before they are old enough to reason for themselves? You don't see any problem with that?
antiskeptic wrote: » He's moved from a Ford Focus to an Audi. His parents taught him to drive.. is a way to see it. How would you deal with someone indoctrinated with a strain of athiest philosophy who becomes a Christian? Should parents avoid raising their kids with values they themselves hold sincerely. And how is this to be achieved?
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » We're all born athiests, that is a simple fact. How can a child be indoctrinated into not believing something?
Peregrinus wrote: » By being inculcated with an epistemology which will encourage him to reject or dismiss certain propositions, obviously.
Peregrinus wrote: » All parents indoctrinate their children. I don't see that it can be otherwise.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » Your assumption that athiest parents encourage their children to reject all gods and religions etc is absurd . . .
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » . . . and implies athiests would somehow invest time denigrating something they don't have an interest in.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » Your assumption that religion is somehow a special topic of relevance to everyone is quite arrogant.
Peregrinus wrote: » All parents indoctrinate their children. I don't see that it can be otherwise. I don't even see that it should be otherwise, frankly. The distinction is not between parents who indoctrinate and parents who don't; it's between parents who are aware of what they are doing and are somewhat intentional about it, and parents who are simply in denial.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » We're all born athiests, that is a simple fact. How can a child be indoctrinated into not believing something? Ref your second point. Parents should absolutely provide their children with info on the religious beliefs they hold dearly and allow them to freely embrace them once they are mature enough to decide for themselves. Another way to look at it is we would all (I assume) oppose the idea that a parent who is communist (for example) would enrol his 5 year old daughter in the communist party, play communist songs to the child daily, make the child chant a communist mantra before thing to bed each night and bring the child to communist meetings each weekend so that by the time the child is old enough to think for itself it is well and truly indoctrinated in the communist ideology and therefore much more likely to stay with the communist party than a child who is given info.on the range of political parties and is free to choose her own preference. Replace communism with religion and apparently everything changes. Why?
smacl wrote: » I'd suggest that a need to differentiate between indoctrination and education here, where to my mind the former involves providing hard information that is beyond dispute and the latter providing softer information that may be challenged and possibly rejected. e.g. if you tell a child they've done something wrong and they ask you why it is wrong there is a difference between saying 'because the bible says its wrong' and 'because it may cause hurt to another person'.
smacl wrote: » Yes, as parents we all indoctrinate as well as educate, but I'd suggest the relative levels of indoctrination versus education vary hugely. It is a bit like the difference between teaching by rote versus creating an environment where learning happens through exploration and experience. Of course we all pass our prejudices on to our progeny as a natural part of parenting, the variation comes with how readily we allow our kids to reject these prejudices.
antiskeptic wrote: » I'm on the phone so just a question. 4 and a half year old asks: "Daddy, what happens when you die?" An athiest lacks a belief in God/gods. But he does believe something else.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » Your assumption that athiest parents encourage their children to reject all gods and religions etc is absurd and implies athiests would somehow invest time denigrating something they don't have an interest in.
smacl wrote: » Apologies for being rather off topic. Regarding abortion, as an atheist I don't consider a 12 week old fetus to be a person or family member, though as above I can understand how a Christian or any other person might do. My understanding is that the Catholic hierarchy in Rome take the same view on the morning after pill. Personally, much like what happens after death, we're in the realm of belief and philosophy here rather than fact and should keep that in mind before dictating how other people should lead their lives.
Nick Park wrote: » And yet here you are, on the Christianity Forum of boards.ie, investing time denigrating something you claim to have no interest in.
Peregrinus wrote: » Your assumption is that if parents inculcate an epistemology which operates so as to to discourage the acceptance of certain classses of proposition, their motivation or intention must have been to get their children to reject propositions of that type. I made no assertion about their motivations or intentions. That's where you went wrong in your assessment of my position. If they simply raise their child to evaluate propositions in the way they themselves evaluation propositions, the likely outcome is that the children will reach similar conclusions to the parents about similar propositions. This will be the case whether or not the parents intend or wish this outcome.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » I think you are struggling with the concept of not "believing" anything.
"Daddy, what happens after you die?" Atheist Dad answers "Nothing son, when you're dead you're dead".
It may sound a bit candid but then if the 4.5 year old has been brought along to mass by an aunt or whatever he'll already be aware of the possibility that god may unleash his wrath on him, that he may burn in hell forever and he'll have seen a grown man drink blood.
Peregrinus wrote: » I disagree. When they reach the appropriate age, your kids will naturally start to critically scrutinise the preconceptions they have acquired from you. They may accept them; they may reject them or (and this is mostly what happens) they may modify them and accept the modified version. The extent to which you "readily allow them' to do this will have little effect on whether it happens or not, and will little effect on the outcome beyond securing some temporary outward show of conformity if you are sufficiently authoritarian. But intimidating your children into not openly confronting your expectations of them is not indoctrination.
smacl wrote: » Didn't get asked by mine until a few years later, and I gave the simple and honest answer, 'Nothing'. This didn't bother them in the least.
Christianity as a religion places a lot of emphasis on death and the potential of surviving it through an afterlife.
From my experience if you're not raised with these concepts they aren't really an issue. We had my father living with us before his death and I think the primary feeling in the household once he was gone was one of loss rather than any existentialist angst. He was also stoical right up until the point he died, watching snooker with me as it happens, and with all sorts of ailments knew there wasn't much left nor was too upset by it. The sense of loss was, and to a lesser extent still is, profound and I can fully understand how a Christian might be comforted through the belief that it hasn't actually happened. That said, in my opinion the loss will be no different.
Personally, much like what happens after death, we're in the realm of belief and philosophy here rather than fact and should keep that in mind before dictating how other people should lead their lives.
Nick Park wrote: » Some people believe that blacks are not fully human beings. They want to be able to keep black people as slaves. That is a matter of belief and philosophy. I believe that black people are human beings made in the image of God. That is a matter of belief and philosophy. Should I keep that in mind before dictating how other people should lead their lives?
Peregrinus wrote: » He does, but he does not have to answer this question by imparting a belief. He could simply answer "I have no idea", or words to that effect; this would not be indoctrination.
antiskeptic wrote: » Let's have a look see. You believe (for the reasons you do) that there's nothing after you die.
antiskeptic wrote: » Of course it does. Who am I, where have I come from, where am I going, why am I here are some of the biggest questions that can be asked. Atheism answers them one way, Christianity another. Since atheism offers comparatively little by way of answer, there is no need to focus overly on what it says.
I would disagree. There must be a difference between what is felt to be permanent loss and loss which is felt to be temporary. There is also the sense that the person is better off now than when they were alive, which too, diminishes the loss
Belief and philosophy lie at the root of how you view the child in the womb, I'm afraid. Science declares factually on the physical constituent parts of the foetus, your belief and philosophy declares that the physical constituent parts constitute the whole. Hold a different philosophy and you have no problem dictating how other people live their lives - to the extent they impact on lives that are not their own.
Nick Park wrote: » Some people believe that blacks are not fully human beings. They want to be able to keep black people as slaves. That is a matter of belief and philosophy.
Je_suis_Jean wrote: » I'm not denigrating a persons right to believe in whatever god they choose and the fact that that's all you are able to contribute says a lot. FWIW I'm absolutely not hear to troll. The OP asked a question which relates to a forthcoming referendum in which all citizens have an interest. If the question had been asked in the After Hours forum it would have equally attracted my interest.