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Music classes for a 14-month-old?

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Me and the girlfriend are babysitting her nephew today, and now, she has to take him to his first music class. He doesn't speak and can't sit still for more that 8 seconds.

Is this a normal thing to do? A friend did something similar a while back but I think his daughter was three or four so it seemed reasonable. Fourteen months seems ridiculously young and I don't see how a teacher could do more than just playing some songs at home.

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donegaLroad

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Me and the girlfriend are babysitting her nephew today, and now, she has to take him to his first music class. He doesn't speak and can't sit still for more that 8 seconds.

Is this a normal thing to do? A friend did something similar a while back but I think his daughter was three or four so it seemed reasonable. Fourteen months seems ridiculously young and I don't see how a teacher could do more than just playing some songs at home.

Yep, too young. Is the child showing any natural musical ability? Is there music already in the family? I am surprised that the music teacher hasnt said that 14 months is too young. They should know better.

[Deleted User]

donegaLroad wrote: »

Yep, too young imo. Is the child showing any natural musical ability? Is there music already in the family? I am surprised that the music teacher hasnt said that 14 months is too young. They should know better.

No music in the family and the closest he's come to showing musical talent is maybe drumming since he loves banging everything he gets a hold of off the ground.

My girlfriend thinks it's a bit mental as well. And I got it wrong, it's actually thirteen months.

What a spectacular waste of money. I hope it's all babies his age and they're just singing or something while they play.

s8n

The tiger is back lads !!

Music lessons for Tarquin and Finnean before they can walk !!

The_Valeyard

There are mother and baby music groups like 'clap handies' but they are designed for young babies, you know shaking rattlers and stuff.

iamwhoiam

I don't think the child will be learing to play the violin on his first day ! It's probably little kids banging drums and shaking rattles to music .
The libraries do toddler music mornings for free and the kids love clapping and dancing along

[Deleted User]

He's gone a year with no drum therapy? Monsters.

andekwarhola

Too young but i guess those unique Facebook statuses won't write themselves.

whiskeyman

The kid isn't going to be handed sheet music and told to learn...
It's a kid's music class.
There'll be fun songs, and muscial instruments.
My little fella loved it since we brought him at 6months.
It's a good excuse for parents to have a focus to get out of the house and have a goal for the day, and to meet other parents.

Noveight

First things first, he’s a year old. He’s 1. This craic of 14 months, 16 months etc must be stopped.

Way too early in the week for mental maths.

Sue Pa Key Pa

Don't let him near a bass guitar. Poor lad will be a virgin for life

[Deleted User]

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Is this a normal thing to do? A friend did something similar a while back but I think his daughter was three or four so it seemed reasonable. Fourteen months seems ridiculously young and I don't see how a teacher could do more than just playing some songs at home.

I tend not to think in terms of "too young". As long as a child is _capable_ of doing a thing - there is generally no reason they are "too young" to begin being exposed to it. I triggered (pun) someone the other day on here when I informed them I teach my 7 year old daughter to fire a rifle for example.

You can instil things like appreciation of Rhythm in children that young. And explore different acoustic ranges with different instruments.

There is also time at that age to make it fun - and build a mental connection between music learning and fun for them - which is an association that can be beneficial later.

Sure there are some people who even believe playing classical music to the baby in the womb is meant to be beneficial.

There is also the fact that when we are born and our brains develop - they often develop _not_ by creating more and new connections as you might imagine - but by pruning and deleting connections the brain was born with. What is not used in the brain is removed.

As a random example it has been shown that children can tell the difference between monkey and ape faces better than adults but we lose that ability because we never use it. But children constantly shown pictures of them retain the ability.

So perhaps teaching music at some level very early on helps maintain neurological connections in the brain that might otherwise be pruned away.

The same is true of language. There are sounds in different languages that children can clearly hear and learn to pronounce. If they never hear it they lose that ability. So maybe exposing them early to different notes and tones gives them the ability to hear that later in life. How many world famous musicians have back stories of growing up with music being a big thing in their family for example.

BrokenArrows

I think you need to clarify what music class he is being sent to.

If theyre trying to teach him piano then thats insane.
If theyre having fun banging a drum, triangle or rattle then thats fine.

WoollyRedHat

If he can't play Beethoven's Symphony No. 9. by the time he's 3, he'll be mocked by the other children mercilessly.

Birneybau

The epitome of 'notions'

cantdecide

s8n wrote: »

The tiger is back lads !!

Music lessons for Tarquin and Finnean before they can walk !!

I'm picturing toddlers with hipster beards

iamwhoiam

I dont know why anyone would pay for it , the libraries all do toddler morning free . I used to visit three libraries on different mornings with a toddler .

whoopsadoodles

Yeh he's not off learning the violin. He's banging drums and dinging triangles.

Fairly normal I think.

Gymboree are one crowd that run them here.

[Deleted User]

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

Yeh he's not off learning the violin. He's banging drums and dinging triangles.

Smug little bastard.

donegaLroad

As another poster said OP, getting out and meeting other parents and having the child socialise in a learning environment can only be a good thing.

Its just that I have never heard of children that young going to music lessons. I always have music on in the house, my young lad is really musical and he wanted to start music lessons at 4 years old.

pickarooney

donegaLroad wrote: »

As another poster said OP, getting out and meeting other parents and having the child socialise in a learning environment can only be a good thing.

Its just that I have never heard of children that young going to music lessons. I always have music on in the house, my young lad is really musical and he wanted to start music lessons at 4 years old.

The parents aren't even bringing him though.

andekwarhola

Don't kids just bash tins and other stuff at home these days?

Gaia Mother Earth

Music classes at that age are great. I bring my 17 month and they use tambourines, drums, shakers etc.

It's mostly familiar rhymes and songs.

The lady who runs the class is amazing with the children and brings out bubbles, teddies and the parachute for them to play with too.

He absolutely has the time of his life dancing around.

Great for their language and socialising them.

darkdubh

iamwhoiam wrote: »

I dont know why anyone would pay for it , the libraries all do toddler morning free . I used to visit three libraries on different mornings with a toddler .

So parents can waffle on about it to anyone who'll listen, one of the big conversation points being the cost.

rekluse

Rich Asians always do this kinda mad **** with their kids. In 3 months he will probably be sent to an English class, where they will be paying 200 dollars a week to some academy, in which a poor hapless foreign 'teacher' will spend two hours trying to stop him and the other 'students' eating the crayons.

no.8

So playing songs for toddlers, clapping hands and having fun is seen as ridiculous because the OP deems a 14 month old to be too young (sorry Noveight but there is a hell of a difference between a child who has just turned 1 and another not far off 2). Tbh, you can't be believing that the child is being handed notes and being asked to recite Bach in 3 months!
My wife and child attend baby music classes, mostly with older kids. They are sing-song related (like baby swimming, which is not about swimming lengths

....my 1st thought).
The wife finds it great, a chance to meet friends / new people and have a little joy in life. Shes not keen on singing in front of others bar our child so its a confidence builder that way. My toddler was just crawling around/walking about for a while but gradually grew more attentive and likes to hmm/sing. Nothing unusual in that I'd say.
For the person who mentioned the Celtic tiger is back or some other carry on...........ABSOLUTE NONSENSE, libraries, kids groups and Kindergarten / Creches around the world host 'music classes' for toddlers/young children (again don't take the term 'music classes' literally, its about rhythm and fun as taxAHcruel noted). That's from first hand experience.
Tip for the next time OP: Ask, don't assume.

Solomon Pleasant

I’m not sure why there’s been such a negative reaction to this. Surely it only shows that the parents are committed to the child and already willing to invest in the child’s education?

I read an article a few months ago and it detailed the 2 best ways to help your child become intellectually more capable. The first was learning a foreign language.

The second? Learning to play a musical instrument.

[Deleted User]

Muppetry.

[Deleted User]

I think it's lovely, kids apparently love it. I'd be all over that if i had one.

no.8

JayZeus wrote: »

Muppetry.

Wonderful comment. Care to elaborate?

ThisRegard

I think the 14 month old may have a better understanding of what's involved in the 'music class' than some posters. It sounds like it's something like Gymboree, https://www.playandmusic.ie/b2c/playschools.shtml Kids love it.