January wrote: » Nope. Because I didn't kill anything. If they ever ask me if I had an abortion I'll be honest with them but right now they're too young to explain it to (although the eldest two do know about the concept of abortion). You don't have a problem with abortion though do you eotr? If I was able to afford to go to England you'd have been fine with that.
captbarnacles wrote: » 1. You have no idea what a crisis pregnancy is. 2. No, they don't. You are imagining this.
kylith wrote: » And there we have it. "THE UNBORN'S RIGHT TO LIFE HAS TO BE PROTECTED (unless abortion happens somewhere I can't see it, so I can pretend it's not a thing)"
kylith wrote: » Unless she can afford airfare, right?
end of the road wrote: » no, extreme circumstances such as a threat of life or disability upon the mother, or the baby not being viable to be caried to term. if she wishes to have an abortion by choice for non-extreme circumstances then there is a facility to allow that to happen.
end of the road wrote: » wrong, full trust of women in my posts, i trust them to make their own decisians. they just cannot kill the unborn within the state unless there is an extreme situation that requires it. just like i can't kill someone unless it is an absolute last resort. try again. that is why we have a wellfare system. abortion is not needed or required in this country for those cases. yes and i have said that where abortion is necessary to save the mother's life or to prevent disability or where the baby cannot be caried to term that it should be provided.
kylith wrote: » That's exactly my point. You're perfectly OK with women travelling to have abortions. You say that it's because there's nothing can be done, but you're not picketing airports. You're not demanding that the right to travel be repealed. If a woman has the means to go to the UK for an abortion then that's ok with you. If anything you are in favour of more extreme abortions that any pro-choice person. By denying women abortions locally and telling them to travel what you're saying is 'I want you to have a more traumatic abortion with a fetus that is later term and more developed than it would have been if you could have gone to your GP when you first decided to terminate, since this way you have to arrange travel and save up to afford it'. The abortion you support is closer to 'killing babies' than the abortion I support, since it occurs closer to viability.
kylith wrote: » That's exactly my point. You're perfectly OK with women travelling to have abortions. You say that it's because there's nothing can be done, but you're not picketing airports. You're not demanding that the right to travel be repealed. If a woman has the means to go to the UK for an abortion then that's ok with you.
kylith wrote: » If anything you are in favour of more extreme abortions that any pro-choice person. By denying women abortions locally and telling them to travel what you're saying is 'I want you to have a more traumatic abortion with a fetus that is later term and more developed than it would have been if you could have gone to your GP when you first decided to terminate, since this way you have to arrange travel and save up to afford it'. The abortion you support is closer to 'killing babies' than the abortion I support, since it occurs closer to viability.
end of the road wrote: » i'm not in favour of abortion outside the extreme circumstances that i mentioned. however i do believe that the current situation does stop some abortions from happening which is a good thing for society.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » There is no trust. You simply do not trust women to make the right decisions for themselves.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » Your idea that the welfare state provides sufficient protection to bring everyone completely out of poverty is simply laughable too.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » Frankly all of your posts on this are just complete nonsensical and full of contradictions. You say you trust women but you have demonstrated you dont - you dont trust them to decide what is right for them. You say that abortion shouldnt be available but you are perfectly fine with it being available for women who travel You claim you dont support abortion abroad really but you are unwilling to really do anything about it. You refuse for example to campaign for reversing the 13th amendment.
kylith wrote: » More children born to unwilling parents who can't afford them is good for society?
end of the road wrote: » nope wrong. my posts are factual and there are no contradictions. i trust women in my posts, i trust them to make their own decisians.
end of the road wrote: » they will grow up and will contribute to society and will make this country better.
end of the road wrote: » there is full trust of women in my posts, i trust them to make their own decisians. they just cannot kill the unborn within the state unless there is an extreme situation that requires it. i never made such a claim. however the wellfare state can be improved. my posts are factual and there are no contradictions. i trust women in my posts, i trust them to make their own decisians. they just cannot kill the unborn within the irish state and i believe that to be just. i cannot stop abortion from being availible in other countries or people traveling to them to procure one. there would be no point in campaigning to try and stop it as the burdin of proof to show that an abortion took place would be impossible to provide and it would be an unreasonable expectation to try and provide it. they will grow up and will contribute to society and will make this country better.
Rose Swift Marlin wrote: » What about unwilling fathers who have no choice at all but could be left financially obligated. I would love to see the male abortion debated as well, where men can opt out up to a stage.
Dre as in Dray wrote: Yet pro abortion movement seems to think cancer, MRSA , child cancer, lack of hospital beds comes in a distant second when it comes to abortion.
end of the road wrote: you are happy to explain to them that you killed it though.
Da Boss wrote: » I just hold the belief that nobody has the right to end the life of another
end of the road wrote: » you are happy to explain to them that you killed it though.
kylith wrote: » Men already can and do simply walk away, and there’s not much can be done about it. I know more than one family where ‘dad’ has simply vanished. Of course, we could always turn a common trope in these threads on its head: if a man isn’t willing to pay for the child he helped to create he shouldn’t be having sex in the first place. He knows that contraception can fail and he shouldn’t have sex if he’s not willing to deal with the consequences. If the woman can’t walk away, then the man shouldn’t be able to either.
Rose Swift Marlin wrote: » Well you could use the same argument for women:(your logic) if she isnt willing to raise a child she helped to create, then she shouldnt be having sex in the first place. She knows that contraception can fail and she shouldnt have sex if shes not willing to deal with the consequences.. Or should only men be held responsible for there actions in your world?
bubblypop wrote: » I notice the anti-repealers had nothing to say about the fact that women, like me, have to undergo unnecessary operations because of the 8th amendment. That really shows their lack of empathy for 'life'
volchitsa wrote: » In fact the forced use of someone's organs while they are still alive is a well known analogy for pregnancy (the "famous violinist" thought experiment), one which I've not seen convincingly debunked.
end of the road wrote: » it's still their organs. theft is theft. they didn't give permission to take, therefore theft has taken place.
Deleted User wrote: » If I have kidney failure and you are a match, can you be forced to donate a kidney to save my life? It won't kill you, just put your body under a bit of strain. But you have the right to refuse, and ultimately let me die. But what about my right to life? It is immoral to suggest that a woman has no right to refuse use of her organs, then.
Da Boss wrote: » Well I’ll tell you my side of the story. As you know everyone only has one life on this earth therefore life is sacred. An abortion ends a life and the one chance that baby had of a life is gone. That baby will never have a life, this as a result of an abortion (which I personally consider a selfish oact). This is all personal to me as I was informed I would have me aborted should the law have allowed. Therefore the eight amendment saved my life, the life I currently enjoy that only for the eighth I wouldn’t never have seen. Surely you see where I’m coming from and why the eighth is so important to me
Edward M wrote: » The eighth needs to go no doubt on that and a clear circumstance with the health and wellbeing of the mother being put foremost in any pregnancy. But most anti abortion on demand supporters would be trying to protect against unnecessary abortions really.
kylith wrote: » But a huge proportion of those abortions are going to happen anyway, whether the woman goes to the UK, or buys pills online, or has some other remedy. Isn't it better that they happen sooner, where she can have proper medical help if something goes wrong?
kylith wrote: » If the woman can’t walk away, then the man shouldn’t be able to either.
Deleted User wrote: » Yet pro abortion movement seems to think cancer, MRSA , child cancer, lack of hospital beds comes in a distant second when it comes to abortion. Yes you can get a 2 hour boat to liverpool to get an abortion yet you cant get a hospital bed for a Brain Tumor in Ireland. Children having to travel to the US for cancer treatment as we dont have it here. Who is marching for them. How about we put abortion on the back burner for a few years and lets get the more important things sorted first.