AwareWolf wrote: » Did you presume I'm a man? Sorry should have said....I'm a mum.
Fourier wrote: » All three of ye should get together at the other lads place and have a go at Mario Kart 64, it's sixteen courses and just good clean fun. It'll work out all those urges.
Deleted User wrote: » Well, actually we just have the op telling us after the initial post that he accepts it.
professore wrote: » Whaddya think, chore sex guy?
policy75 wrote: » I suggest you grow up. Dump your boyfriend. Have sex with somebody else. But can you please not have us to put up with your guilt writings. Please do or dont do but please leave us alone. Grow up
Malayalam wrote: » If you are genuine, OP... first of all I don't know what is with all the shock here about people having affairs. Affairs seem to be blooming de rigeur. People are regularly being unfaithful to each other. It's not like OP would be doing something ''special''. And OP, that is the crux. It's not all that special at all, although you are using it to make yourself feel special. It's not something new, it's very basic biology and psychology. I would imagine you are bored, somewhere inside, in spite of protestations about happy love. Most of sex - the very very most - is what happens between our ears. The consensual contact between any normalish penis and any normalish vagina is generally within a fairly limited, albeit pleasant, possible range of sensation. It's just physics. It's not like some people have special c0cks or anything, that cause electrical explosions upon contact, etc. So, what you have is not so much physical chemistry with this guy, as mental and emotional chemistry/projection. It is the mind that makes sex sizzle most. And the mind is super powerful. Most people in long marriages go through periods of lusting after others. Maybe not all, but most, I reckon. And I mean real intense obsessive longing - after all the desire for mind-altering erotic bliss and self-forgetfulness in the body is a very strong one. It can last the space of a thought, or it can be incubated to last for a very long time. It depends what you choose to do with it. It depends how aware you are of yourself. You are a willing participant in the process. Understanding and accepting your instinctive drives, but then disciplining yourself because you recognise the fundamental fallacies upon which the projection rests and becoming a mature human being is the remedy IF you wish to pursue monogamy. If you don't wish to pursue monogamy and respect your faithful partner, then do whatever you want. You are your own moral boss. Own yourself like a grown up. Nobody else much cares what people do with their bits and pieces, except those directly involved. My inclination would be to cultivate the long-time love and sexual relationship that is already there.
suicide_circus wrote: » You'll feel like a degraded filth bag about 15 seconds after the act.
worded wrote: » Mammy is so 2017 We have the morals of the Roman Empire but as a lot of single parents find out Society was built around two parents funding the upbringing of their off spring. So for those who can’t keep their nickers up, enjoy the short lived fun, but when the bills drop in the letter box, that new love will be out the window probably. And to think that people put their genitalia beofre their own childerens mental health is astounding. People willing to break up a family for a few orgasms. If you favour sexual pleaseure versus raising your childeren you are a flawed human being in my opinion. It’s child cruelty. You could have got a puppy instead of bringing a child into the world but a lot of people are not even fit to look after an animal let alone their own off spring Raise you childeren you hoe
AwareWolf wrote: » That is incredibly backward. I'm a great mother and just because your morals are different to mine doesn't give you the right to type up an abusive message like that. Go off and have a think about your abusive message and why you felt the need to write that because i certainly don't deserve that. I'm a great mother with a great bond and love for my children. They will always come first no matter what but I am a woman a human being I'm allowed have feelings or lust or what ever you call it. I'm allowed feel like a sexual being for the first time in my life. Im Allowed live and experience things make choices and ask for opinions. Don't berate me like that again. Not further engaging with you.
Deleted User wrote: » I could agree with everything else you said, but what do you mean by this?
Motivator wrote: » If this is genuine, I honestly do think I know who the OP is. It could just be a coincidence but I’ve read through all of “her” posts and I would be utterly astounded if it isn’t who I think it is. I got a phone call yesterday evening to alert me to this thread and although I don’t know the person too well, I was filled in pretty quickly and was able to join the dots. I’ve a feeling Christmas Day is going to be VERY interesting as the husband may not be as clueless as everyone, including OP, presumes....
AwareWolf wrote: » I presume hitting the thumbs up sign means I approve of your post which I've done to some there and am grateful for the interesting comments or responses. It's made me think and look at things i hadn't thought about. I'm presuming I feel like this because I lead a very introvert life until I met my husband. I lost my virginity to him. He has changed my world and I will love him until I die. I will never be dishonest lie or cheat on him so all of that doesn't come into it. I suppose I'm just trying to put this in context here ..... I suddenly feel like a sexual being like some thing has awoken inside of me. Do I go to the grave wondering what if? Or do I experience things now once with this one person and be rid of the wondering? The cart came a little before the horse in my life I suppose. I've lost my sexual inhibitions and my sex life with husband has even improved.... And he knows why that is the case I've already talked to him about that. When you get your confidence back in life you must ooze some thing as guys were never attracted to me and two have been in the last year, which of course is flattering. I was never the girl who lads were attracted to. My husband knows I feel that way too. So I suppose this was some thing I wanted views on...in case there wasn't some thing I was seeing. The one main thing I'm now seeing from this thread is...if I did go ahead with this once off..... My husband may feel differently after...even though he's given me permission....and the thought of it being some thing he'd find difficult afterwards is scary and I wouldn't want that. I wouldn't want him scared or for ever changed in a negative way as a result. Quite astounding the amount of you who think this is some kind of wind up.
BorneTobyWilde wrote: Seems you have a lot of love and passion to give, I say go for it. To share your love and passion with another is fine as long as it's not something you feel guilty about. You should not feel guilt if it's all done with love.
Motivator wrote: If this is genuine, I honestly do think I know who the OP is. It could just be a coincidence but I’ve read through all of “her†posts and I would be utterly astounded if it isn’t who I think it is.
Motivator wrote: I got a phone call yesterday evening to alert me to this thread and although I don’t know the person too well, I was filled in pretty quickly and was able to join the dots.
Motivator wrote: I’ve a feeling Christmas Day is going to be VERY interesting as the husband may not be as clueless as everyone, including OP, presumes....
JiminyRickets wrote: » Even if it was some great session that lasted a few hours (unlikely), just weigh those two hours against the impact on THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Worth it?
Fr_Dougal wrote: I miss the good old days when the ‘husband’ would register and call her out.
JiminyRickets wrote: Even if it was some great session that lasted a few hours (unlikely), just weigh those two hours against the impact on THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Alerium wrote: » Hello new user. Are you the husband?
ardinn wrote: » Why unlikely - I can ride for days! Cant everyone??
the slut wife wrote: » hello sir
JiminyRickets wrote: » Riding a horse across the Mongolian plains in your imagination doesn't count
ardinn wrote: » No - I was talking about riding the OP - No-one here has any faith whatsoever you can manage it
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