Roger Hassenforder wrote: » So there we were last night in a late bar/nightclub establishment proximal to the GPO in Cork, on our Christmas night out. No one really drunk, except at the end of the night one of our group was rather suddenly in very poor shape, and i dont recall her knocking back the gat like some of us. (Maybe her drink might have been spiked, maybe she was just wasted, i dunno). Anyway, while we were minding her and formulating a plan to get her home, over come the bouncers, rather forcibly push us out of the way, lift her outside and deposit her on some kegs. And walk off. I was struck by how little they seemed to give a sh1t, and if we werent with her, (not that they knew who we were, and whether we were with her), she was in serious trouble. In fairness, a lot of patrons were asking if she was ok, which is appreciated. Notwithstanding the whole "responsible drinking" and personal reaponsibility for owns own actions, have such bars/clubs any duty of care or responsibility towards their customers. In 30 years of drinking, i never someone so wasted treated this badly. Thoughts?
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » So there we were last night in a late bar/nightclub establishment proximal to the GPO in Cork, on our Christmas night out. No one really drunk, except at the end of the night one of our group was rather suddenly in very poor shape, and i dont recall her knocking back the gat like some of us. (Maybe her drink might have been spiked, maybe she was just wasted, i dunno).Anyway, while we were minding her and formulating a plan to get her home, over come the bouncers, rather forcibly push us out of the way, lift her outside and deposit her on some kegs. And walk off. .
corner of hells wrote: » Are you still drunk , now ?
Yamileth Sticky Romance wrote: » Sounds like a complete spoof. But it won't deter the usual crap talk about bouncers being assholes who can't get a real job etc.. So I'll start it. Bouncers are assholes who can't get a real job (and power trips too, don't forget that one).
SEPT 23 1989 wrote: » Must have been some kip if they keep kegs at the door
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » Youre a bit offside here chief. It happened. I havent suggested theyre arseholes or have limited employment options. Its a job. A lot of us have them. When we do our jobs we usually have some degree of care/interest for the people our jobs take us into contact with. Seeing as ive triggered something i wonder are you a bouncer, and if so I'd really appreciate your view. But If thats beyond you, feel free from participating; or else cop yourself on.
Yamileth Sticky Romance wrote: » A few subjects I rarely spend too much time on here, cyclists, bouncers, Israel and taxi drivers. I've no doubt your story has an element of truth, but I find it hard to believe your friend was lifted up and thrown onto some kegs, I think that part is a spoof. There ya go, my final say on the matter. Hope your friends hangover isn't too bad.
Fr_Dougal wrote: » Your friend was too drunk to remain on the premises. You read of similar instances where drunk people fall over and successfully sue for mucho 💶💶💶💶. They were right to remove her.
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » I dont necessarily disagree with you re our ridiculous compo culture, and possibly they were right to remove her. However, have they/their employer a duty of care for someone getting into this state as a result of their service?
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » However, have they/their employer a duty of care for someone getting into this state as a result of their service?
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » Maybe her drink might have been spiked, maybe she was just wasted, i dunno
soups05 wrote: » Many years ago, due to the increase is allegations of spiking, some government body undertook a study. The results were startling, out of something like 613 reported times when young "ladies" reported to A&E having been spiked, there was not one single time where blood tests revealed anything other than alcohol in their systems. some reported having one or two drinks while the tests showed twice the legal limit. I have often been in the company of people who down many drinks, then swear they were spiked when it goes sideways. before spiking, it was called having a bad pint. tough guy puking? last pint was sour, that's what done it. do clubs/pubs have a duty of care, fk no. its called personal responsibility.
Verpiss dich wrote: » You stuck to the 7up free no doubt.;)
Fr_Dougal wrote: » Your friend was too drunk to remain on the premises. You read of similar instances where drunk people fall over and successfully sue for mucho 💶💶💶💶. They were right to remove her.
WhiteRoses wrote: » There's a lot to be said for personal responsibility. If someone is in a condition where they are a danger to themselves or to others, they have a right to remove them from the premises. They are open to all sorts of liabilities by keeping the person in there. While the establishment are obliged not to serve anyone who is severely intoxicated, they can't be expected to know every single punters tolerance - in a lot of cases, people are fine and the next minute they're blotto. Staff can't be expected to know where the tipping point is. People being worse for wear and needing to be asked to leave is a regular occurrence and if they spent the night babysitting every person they threw out, they'd spend their whole nights outside minding people. I'm guessing the bouncers saw that you and other friends were with her and thought ye were minding her and she was ok. If not, I wouldn't be darkening their door again for abandoning a woman in that condition again. Either way you can't blame them for removing her from the premises when she was in no fit state to be there.
Roger Hassenforder wrote: » Cant really disagree with anything there , shes responsible for her state. Its the actual removal itself, but chiefly the post removal abandonment thats leaving a sour taste. I doubt they knew she was with us. If a clubs staff did that to my daughter, it would be closed a few months for rebuilding. Youre correct also. I wont be back.