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Falling in love with another man

JupiterKid

There’s a guy doing the same yoga classes as me. We seem to have a lot in common and he’s well fit. We have gone for a coffee afterwards and talked a lot. I haven’t been in a long term relationship in years. Haven’t even had nookie in almost a year. I was eyeing him up today and he did likewise with me.

I think I’m falling for him but I don’t know if this is reciprocated. I fear rejection.

What should I do?

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Mongfinder General

suicide_circus wrote: »

Wow. Have a word with yourself OP.

Busted!

suicide_circus

sabat wrote: »

That moment when you realise a poster is a mental fantasist...

https://touch.boards.ie/thread/2057582212/17

Wow. Have a word with yourself OP.

Avatar MIA

_Dara_ wrote: »

No? Black coffee with a splash of milk and dash of sugar - no more than 60 kcals.

And studies have shown that coffee and exercise combined improved calorie burn off. I'd leave out the sugar though.

_Dara_

SuperSean11 wrote: »

Does having coffee after a yoga class not defeat the purpose?

No? Black coffee with a splash of milk and dash of sugar - no more than 60 kcals.

wakka12

If you're single why did you phrase the title that way?

Dakota Dan

Mongfinder General wrote: »

Yes, it does appear that homosexual activities may be engaged in by he op. This has in fact been legal in Ireland for quite some time now.

Thanks for the heads up but I already knew that.

andekwarhola

Yoga and other people's romantic dilemmas. Two of the most boring things on the planet.

Don Kiddick

riffmongous wrote: »

And 'nookie', where does that word even come from? Irish people should only say 'de ride'

Ride him sideways is still acceptable?

[Deleted User]

vicwatson wrote: »

Lost interest at “well fit”:o

And 'nookie', where does that word even come from? Irish people should only say 'de ride'

anewme

mad muffin wrote: »

Are you going to have him over for dinner with a nice Chianti?

I misread that as ...are you going to have him over dinner...

Ohhh matron :eek:

mad muffin

Are you going to have him over for dinner with a nice Chianti?

MadDog76

Malayalam wrote: »

Is he even a kid? Or from Jupiter? :rolleyes:
I dunno, I thought the really weird thing was someone trawling back through another boardsies posts to try and make a liar out of them. I know which one I would prefer to have over to dinner. (Spoiler - and it ain't the trawler.)

You prefer liars??? Odd.

server down

I assumed “other man” meant he was thinking about cheating.

Of course being gay it could have been another man, as in not himself. But that would be weird terminology.

As for searching. I do that if I think someone is being a hypocrite or has contradicted himself. Generally I would have had to had noticed that beforehand though, and the search is therefore proof.

The_Valeyard

Mongfinder General wrote: »

Yes, it does appear that homosexual activities may be engaged in by he op. This has in fact been legal in Ireland for quite some time now.

I hear that two men can even marry now

[Deleted User]

Malayalam wrote: »

It isn't but what does it matter? Anecdotes are a mutable kind of thing, people could choose to reframe a more distant experience in the present or near past. What's the big deal? And even if people lie about silly things for amusement's sake, so what? Meh.

It does matter though. If someone spends time crafting a response in good faith (I know it's AH, but still), they deserve to know if the OP is only having the lolz with them.

The_Valeyard

corner of hells wrote: »

Can we not just have a thread about travellers, homelessness, unemployed for a change ?

They all got free holidays to a Euripean nudist resort after completing their 10 week yoga class. They celebrated with coffee

Mongfinder General

Dakota Dan wrote: »

How do you mean another man? Unless you are a man?

Yes, it does appear that homosexual activities may be engaged in by he op. This has in fact been legal in Ireland for quite some time now.

Dakota Dan

JupiterKid wrote: »

There’s a guy doing the same yoga classes as me. We seem to have a lot in common and he’s well fit. We have gone for a coffee afterwards and talked a lot. I haven’t been in a long term relationship in years. Haven’t even had nookie in almost a year. I was eyeing him up today and he did likewise with me.

I think I’m falling for him but I don’t know if this is reciprocated. I fear rejection.

What should I do? :o

How do you mean another man? Unless you are a man?

Only saw your second post now, now I get it.

Avatar MIA

mr_edge_to_you wrote: »

And Barry’s or Lyons?

That’s pretty much it all wrapped up now.

Seeing as Barry's remains an Irish company. Barry's FTW.

PeterParker957

JupiterKid... go for it.

Life is way too short and if he's straight then no worries. You tried!

Good luck!

mr_edge_to_you

HandsomeBob wrote: »

You forgot religion and abortion ffs

And Barry’s or Lyons?

That’s pretty much it all wrapped up now.

begbysback

vicwatson wrote: »

Lost interest at “well fit”:o

Well he is doing yoga

Avatar MIA

The OP mentions "another" man, although no fumble for a year sounds... more like a hetro marriage

HandsomeBob

Sounds like you've the hard part done already.

All things considered, you haven't got a whole lot to lose by asking him. This is how it should be done.

corner of hells wrote: »

Can we not just have a thread about travellers, homelessness, unemployed for a change ?

You forgot religion and abortion ffs

Malayalam

corner of hells wrote: »

Can we not just have a thread about travellers, homelessness, unemployed for a change ?

vicwatson

JupiterKid wrote: »

There’s a guy doing the same yoga classes as me. We seem to have a lot in common and he’s well fit. We have gone for a coffee afterwards and talked a lot. I haven’t been in a long term relationship in years. Haven’t even had nookie in almost a year. I was eyeing him up today and he did likewise with me.

I think I’m falling for him but I don’t know if this is reciprocated. I fear rejection.

What should I do? :o

Lost interest at “well fit”:o

corner of hells

Can we not just have a thread about travellers, homelessness, unemployed for a change ?

[Deleted User]

Malayalam wrote: »

Uh? Two threads, one about enjoying nudity, one about asking a guy from a yoga class out, and someone has to explain ''apparent contradictions''. It's a fecking board on the internet, not a court of law.

The apparent contradiction is that one refers to not having a partner for a long time, and the other is from a few weeks back and refers to a partner in the present tense.

You are correct, it's not a Court of Law, it's only an internet board, and that applies to you questioning the relevance and motives of sabat's observation.

Malayalam

The Fake Sheikh wrote: »

Oh right. I’m on the touch site and it says 2 years ago above the post.

I would often say ‘years ago’ when talking about something 1-2 years ago.

Yep. My old writing mentor used to say we become writers (ie storytellers) the first time we tell a lie. Lie meaning all the variations including exaggeration, time dilation, changing characters, and so on and so forth. While I generally tell the truth about what I am prepared to share here (or else I don't share), I certainly don't feel bound by any charter or code of honour to be meticulously honest about every detail of every scintillating observation I make :rolleyes: on an anonymous internet board.

Will I Am Not

Malayalam wrote: »

It isn't but what does it matter? Anecdotes are a mutable kind of thing, people could choose to reframe a more distant experience in the present or near past. What's the big deal? And even if people lie about silly things for amusement's sake, so what? Meh.

Oh right. I’m on the touch site and it says 2 years ago above the post.

I would often say ‘years ago’ when talking about something 1-2 years ago.