RayM wrote: » Your penis has touched something that their penis has touched. Which essentially means you've touched their penis... with your penis. If that's not gay, then I don't know what is.
One eyed Jack wrote: » You appear to think it should be acceptable to exploit people for any reason you can use to justify your own prejudices against them.
JackTaylorFan wrote: » Her prejudice was based solely on the fact he had previously engaged in homosexual behavior. That's pretty homophobic sounding to me.
major bill wrote: » You created this Garbage pile tbf
suicide_circus wrote: » Once sex is a business and business is covered by legislation the lines become blurred, do they not.
Wibbs wrote: » In this case and for a nice change the term "homophobic" may actually be somewhat accurate. A "fear" of. Fact: Penetrative sex between homosexual men as a group is statistically the most risky sexual behaviour as far as the transmission of the HIV virus goes. Fact: women during heterosexual penetrative sex are more vulnerable to infection than men are. Fact: a woman who choses to not sleep with men who have has penetrative sex with men is lowering her risk of contracting HIV. Ergo it makes perfect logical sense that a woman when presented with this choice chooses to turn down such a man. Would you take issue if she had turned down sexual intercourse with an intravenous drug user? Would you have accused her of being "phobic", or would you have regarded this as reasonable? Even though the risks are lower with that demographic.
Wibbs wrote: » Would you take issue if she had turned down sexual intercourse with an intravenous drug user? Would you have accused her of being "phobic", or would you have regarded this as reasonable? Even though the risks are lower with that demographic.
JackTaylorFan wrote: » If they were tested and cleared. It is reasonable to suggest prejudice. Yes. It's the job. Again she can refuse, but don't go mouthing off like a brat on twitter
Candie wrote: » Of course this is horrific, but since it only happened over the course of a few days I would imagine that the poor girl was in a bad place to begin with and this tipped her over the edge. You don't go from complete wellness to suicidal in the space of days, even with vicious bullying. None of which excuses any of it.
TerrorFirmer wrote: » I suppose from the tweet, the internet moral police decided it was because she was homophobic and loathe to work with someone who is gay rather than it being a valid health concern with logical reasoning behind it.
JackTaylorFan wrote: » Fact: She worked in Porn. Fact: Her job was high risk either way
DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: » You'd be surprised how quickly a person can be driven to it. Especially if they've been publicly shamed or embarrassed. An eg would be the nurse who killed herself after she`unwittingly put through a radio prank call to Kate Middleton's hospital room in 2012. A mother, a wife and devout Christian (very relevant) shamed into ending her own life. Other egs would people who suffer sudden catastrophic financial loss, the crash of 1929 for instance led to many people ending their lives in a matter of hours. Some even threw themselves off the stock exchange.
anna080 wrote: » JackTaylorFan wrote: » It's a sad day when you are looking to the porn industry for ethical and moral compasses - but that's where we are. This is the long goodbye, somebody tell me why...
JackTaylorFan wrote: » It's a sad day when you are looking to the porn industry for ethical and moral compasses - but that's where we are.
Candie wrote: » Perhaps, but she was known to suffer from depression and had confided in her friends, so in this case at least, it's likely to be a last straw scenario if she was already fragile. It's just desperately sad.
Gijoseph wrote: » You've posted enough crap in this thread already. Stop victim blaming and move on.
Rory28 wrote: » How is what Candie said victim blaming? She clearly showed compassion for her.
Vihaan Rancid Muck wrote: » IMO you take a person as you find them. If you choose to bully a fragile person then yes, it is your fault if they can't take it and they kill themselves. Would that level of online bullying affect a reasonable man or woman in a negative manner? Yes, it would.
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PeterParker957 wrote: » This. Saying "oh but she had depression so it was kind of inevitable" may not be victim blaming per se. It's certainly bully-forgiving though.
professore wrote: » Oh please. So if Kevin Spacey drops the hand on me I'm supposed to let him as anything else is homophobic? There is so much frighteningly wrong with your reasoning. I think not wanting to have sex with a gay man is valid for health and safety reasons, for the same reasons you might consider not having sex with a heroin addict ... the risk of HIV is higher.
Gijoseph wrote: » Yes of course I have an agenda I want to shoehorn. Its with people trying to belittle the face that this young woman was the victim of a bullying campaign and all you can say is "oh but she had depression".
Candie wrote: » Gijoseph wrote: » Yes of course I have an agenda I want to shoehorn. Its with people trying to belittle the face that this young woman was the victim of a bullying campaign and all you can say is "oh but she had depression". Nobody belittled it, you're imagining that. I'd wonder why, but then it seems obvious enough.
PeterParker957 wrote: » Given you effectively bullied me on another page this week till told to stop, you can see why your defence of bullying holds water.
Deleted User wrote: » I thought you were going off to celebrate your victory?
TheDavester wrote: » I can actually see sjw morons soon saying stuff like don’t be homophobic If a gay lad wants a shag with ya even if your straight
Candie wrote: » PeterParker957 wrote: » Given you effectively bullied me on another page this week till told to stop, you can see why your defence of bullying holds water. I think you're seriously out of line here. I'd appreciate it if you didn't misrepresent my posts again, but it seems to be your stock in trade.