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Steviesol

Hi,

Kids are in primary school, not baptised, not religious, the school intend on going to local church next week, and should you not want your kids to go you need as parents to mind them during the mass. I wonder has anyone else experience with this. Surely it is up to the school to mind the kids regardless of their religious beliefs.

Thanks in advance.

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evolving_doors wrote: »

So you don't want then to go to the church.
Ok.... so what do you want the school to do with them?
When your kids started school first what did the school tell you would happen? Did you ask?

Mind them of course...that's what schools are there for according to the OP ...duh...

evolving_doors

Steviesol wrote: »

Yes they can go to the church if they like . It is during school hours. I am just curious how they can force parents to come and mind the kids if parents don't want them to go to church.

So you don't want then to go to the church.
Ok.... so what do you want the school to do with them?
When your kids started school first what did the school tell you would happen? Did you ask?

Zebra3

I thought the idea of schools was to educate children not fill their heads with utter nonsense.

kenmc

School shouldn't be wasting valuable teaching hours promoting bloody fantasy sky fairies. If parents want to fill the kids heads with nonsense do so in their own time.

Steviesol

Yes the whole school are going

Oldtree

Steviesol wrote: »

Hi,

Kids are in primary school, not baptised, not religious, the school intend on going to local church next week, and should you not want your kids to go you need as parents to mind them during the mass. I wonder has anyone else experience with this. Surely it is up to the school to mind the kids regardless of their religious beliefs.

Thanks in advance.

Is the whole school going?

If not they shouldn't have a problem with your kids staying behind in the school in another class.

If the whole school is going, then unless they are prepared to leave a teacher behind to supervise you will may well have to do the supervision.

My kids school was always accommadating and considerate, and this was never an issue.

freshpopcorn

Steviesol wrote: »

Yes they can go to the church if they like . It is during school hours. I am just curious how they can force parents to come and mind the kids if parents don't want them to go to church.

I think part of school might be you've to attend school activities at times. If you could opt out of activities because a parent doesn't want a child to attend The school would never do anything.

byhookorbycrook

Schools don't have "spare" staff to stay in school -and due to child protection issues, it would mean 2 teachers have to stay with the children. In most cases, parents choose to let the child go to the rehershals but not participate.

wirelessdude01

Steviesol wrote:

Yes they can go to the church if they like . It is during school hours. I am just curious how they can force parents to come and mind the kids if parents don't want them to go to church.

Ever think that maybe the school doesn't have the resources to mind kids while the rest are gone off site?

eviltwin

Steviesol wrote: »

Yes they can go to the church if they like . It is during school hours. I am just curious how they can force parents to come and mind the kids if parents don't want them to go to church.

They probably don't have staff available to mind them.

Steviesol

Yes they can go to the church if they like . It is during school hours. I am just curious how they can force parents to come and mind the kids if parents don't want them to go to church.

freshpopcorn

I know lots of school's who have no issue with unbaptised kids/etc/colouring in during religion. However when the school has a Christmas mass/etc on in the local church and the parents don't want to them to attend the only option generally is for the kids to be brought home. The other teachers/sna's are generally busy minding their own class!

Ipso

SEPT 23 1989 wrote: »

Sure what harm would it do them

What harm would it do to have the parents take their own children at the weekend?

SEPT 23 1989

Sure what harm would it do them

McTigs

Ficheall wrote: »

I'm trying to remember what happened to kids in our school who didn't come on the school tour to the farm, or the box-making factory, or whatever.. Hmm..

ludacris analogy......you are comparing farming and box making with religious indoctrination? Seriously?

evolving_doors

Steviesol wrote: »

Hi,

Kids are in primary school, not baptised, not religious, the school intend on going to local church next week, and should you not want your kids to go you need as parents to mind them during the mass. I wonder has anyone else experience with this. Surely it is up to the school to mind the kids regardless of their religious beliefs.

Thanks in advance.

There's a lot of ambiguity in this presentation at the mo.

Maybe clear up before pot shots begin.

Is the church visit DURING school hours?

Can the kid go but not participate in the ceremony practice .... But still be under the supervision of the teacher?

Are the school refusing to let your child go if they're not of the school religion?

But yes... I'd agree if it's DURING school hours then they have a duty of care. Like if there were some kids playing a match DURING school hours do the other kids have to go home?

But during religious ceremonies in our school everyone is expected to attend. Fine if students aren't participating but as long as they don't mess there's no big deal... But the school don't want to set a precedent by letting them abstain themselves to a supervised room, half the kids would end up not going just for the sake of being different/rebelling etc.
In the end kids of different religions or none might just stay home that day. Not possible for everyone though.

Ten of Swords

Well I guess any parents that are against 'religious indoctrination' by schools now have a chance to show the school that they are willing to take action to back up their stance by minding their child during this field trip.

My money would be on "can't be arsed - let them go to the mass" every time.

dotsman

bee06 wrote: »

If it’s one with a religious ethos then fair enough.

That's only "fair enough" if they don't receive state funding and pay huge reparations for the countless children they have destroyed since the foundation of the state.

Ficheall

I'm trying to remember what happened to kids in our school who didn't come on the school tour to the farm, or the box-making factory, or whatever.. Hmm..

bee06

Depends on the school. If it’s one with a religious ethos then fair enough. You are choosing for them to not participate in a school activity. If it’s an Educate Together (which I assume it’s not) then it would be ridiculous.