pilly wrote: » Now get off the stage, coffee is not going to pay the deposit for a house no matter what way you look at it. I could do the maths but I know you're just being facetious.
draiochtanois wrote: » Sorry but actually it is .... It's not just the takeaway coffee (365*2*3), it's the couple of music festivals per year (2*750), the eating out for breakfast & lunch, the takeaways, the cigarettes, the vinyl collection (Vinyl may in theory sound better but it doesn't make up for the lack of skill mixing or your poor taste in music) the drugs they will snort or ingest on the multiple nights out at the weekend.
pilly wrote: » Just bugs me the way people judge others all the time. Same thing about the bottled water, you're out in the car, dying of the thirst, what do you do? Run into someone's house and ask can you have a sup of water? No, you go into a shop and buy a bottle of water. It's a hell of lot better than buying some sugar filled drink. People always bought drinks for in a car or when walking or whatever, it's just changed toward water, which is a good thing. There's an awful of lot of older people looking down on the younger generation with the attitude of "it's all your own fault". It's patronising. And I'm an "older" person.
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pilly wrote: » I get all that, I went from a salary of 70k to zero back in 2008 when things crashed and it has caused to me to be more careful alright. But to state that it's a choice between coffee or a house is definitely over simplifying the issues as you've outlined above. Just bugs me the way people judge others all the time. Same thing about the bottled water, you're out in the car, dying of the thirst, what do you do? Run into someone's house and ask can you have a sup of water? No, you go into a shop and buy a bottle of water. It's a hell of lot better than buying some sugar filled drink. People always bought drinks for in a car or when walking or whatever, it's just changed toward water, which is a good thing. There's an awful of lot of older people looking down on the younger generation with the attitude of "it's all your own fault". It's patronising. And I'm an "older" person.
grahambo wrote: » This is par for the course all over the country and indeed the world. I'm just out of a long term relationship (had a kid and mortgage with the other person) I ended up moving out, and I'm living back at home because I literally cannot afford to rent a place.... I'm 34 years old with a very good Job.... 15 years ago I'd have been able to at least get somewhere to rent at a decent price. It's pathetic. There needs to be a world war to force the distribution of wealth away from the 1%'ers to the average Joe. IE a massive destruction of wealth Look at the US in the 50's, 60's, 70's and 80's. The quality of life they had at the time was the "American Dream", no one has that now.
pilly wrote: » Just bugs me the way people judge others all the time. Same thing about the bottled water, you're out in the car, dying of the thirst, what do you do? Run into someone's house and ask can you have a sup of water? No, you go into a shop and buy a bottle of water. It's a hell of lot better than buying some sugar filled drink.
pilly wrote: » There's an awful of lot of older people looking down on the younger generation with the attitude of "it's all your own fault". It's patronising.
Shenshen wrote: » No, but I did experience how much the little things actually do add up to not too long ago. We used to be on two incomes, mortgage, two cars, perfectly normal life. And as many people here said, I struggled trying to have a bit left over at the end of the month. Then we unexpectedly went down to 1 income when my husband lost his job. All of a sudden, the income I had previously had nothing over from at the end of the month had to cover all bills and the mortgage every month. So I sat down and drew up a budget. And guess what? Not only did it stretch to cover all this, I am now actually saving money on top of it. My income has increased by about 3% in that time, and I now drive an electric car rather than a petrol one, but other than that it was changing the small things that mattered. Not doing a big weekly shop (you always end up throwing stuff out), shopping in Lidl and only going to Tesco for the odd item I can't get in Lidl (yeast, for example), takeaways only every other week rather than twice a week, bring home-made lunches to work, buy clothes/comic books/other luxury items only once a month as a treat, etc. Each of these items is ridiculously small looked at in isolation, but taken together and over a month, they add up significantly. I supposed I previously just didn't have the motivation, thinking we'd always be comfortable. Now, I do worry that we may run out of money, so I really, really make sure to put money aside each month.
draiochtanois wrote: » Buying 2 of those every day for 5 years = €16790
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Shenshen wrote: » It's all about choices. You choose coffee, others choose home ownership. And yes, some people from rich families or with fantastic incomes can actually choose both. But the way I understand it, we just cannot all come from rich families, the world just doesn't work that way.
DivingDuck wrote: » Some people get great value out of a feeling of safety, though, or the knowledge that their death will bring something positive to their loved ones as well as just pain.
NinetyTwoTeam wrote: » If I hear another person tell me the reason most of my generation will never afford a house is takeaway coffee I'm gonna smack them with my avocado toast. The economy has been stacked in such a way that if you don't come from a family with money, you're going to be scraping by all your life. Wages are dreadful, rents and house prices are sky high. Let me drink my mother flipping coffee so I can summon the will to live in this late stage capitalist dystopia, thanks.