padohaodha wrote: » I really can't think of any culture as hung up about nudity as Ireland, England and USA. (no doubt, there's are some, though)
the beer revolu wrote: » Ammm.. .the entire Islamic world?
padohaodha wrote: » Ever been in a hamam? Mixed nudity, no. Same sex nudity, no problem.
the beer revolu wrote: » Why are quotes behaving so strangely?
Prune Tracy wrote: » "Hang up" implies uptight, repressed. It's a thinly veiled insult. If a person isn't into anything else, it's not viewed as uptight, just a personal preference. But when it comes to the naked body, oh all the big guns about repression have to get trotted out tediously. Yeah the out of shape naked body of a stranger is not beautiful to everyone.
the beer revolu wrote: » If someone has a strong aversion to seeing another person's naked body, then I genuinely think that there is a level of uptightness and repression. I genuinely do. It seems to be quite common in our society.
Prune Tracy wrote: » I think the aversion to it in the anglophone world today is more to do with out of shape naked bodies rather than just naked bodies. I think people would be more receptive to firm, toned nudity - because there is an emphasis on the body beautiful via media saturation in anglophone culture (despite high levels of obesity also!) I would obviously enjoy the sight very much of a naked man who's toned and muscular. I'd even like the sight of a naked woman who's in great shape too. But most people (including me) aren't that way built and the sight of flabby, saggy, droopy bits? Put em away!
the beer revolu wrote: » Yes, I find that a bikini or a pair of briefs does a great job of covering up flabby, saggy, droopy bits! It seems that your body issues go much deeper than being hung up about nudity.
Prune Tracy wrote: » And you need to work on your tendency to throw insults. Not wanting to see lardy naked people (which most people don't - you're the minority) - must mean deep body issues, obv. I know you think you're SO enlightened - but your views actually come across as quite bigoted. And extremely judgemental. But that's OK because it's the "right" kind of judgemental. And I don't think you actually want to see naked out of shape people either.
Prune Tracy wrote: » So you and others keep saying but I think you actually do get it really. Not everyone wants to see others in the nip. It's not being hung up and it's not just Irish and English people. It's just not something people want to see unless it's their partner. Some people prefer to keep it private and intimate, which is no better or worse than enjoying naturism.
You are so much more sophisticated and better than others obviously. Where are the attitudes you're talking about anyway? In these discussions people are so feverishly anticipating "immature" attitudes that they see them when they aren't there.
DamagedTrax wrote: » too many willies for my liking.. but do what makes you smile
The Raptor wrote: » Do men go around with boners all the time?
recylingbin wrote: » I'm Irish. With Irish skin. 2 minutes in a well lit room can give me 2nd degree burns. So I think I'll spare my goolies that little horror if its all the same with you.
seamus wrote: » In all honesty the sheer newness of it and the gentle breeze across your special place means that you'd probably end up at full mast in full view of everyone else.
Candie wrote: » I wouldn't get into a pool after my cousin was in there with his junk on the loose. I don't want to be hillbilly pregnant by his pool sperms. I know how these things work, you know. .
Prune Tracy wrote: » Not wanting to see lardy naked people (which most people don't - you're the minority) - must mean deep body issues, obv. And I don't think you actually want to see naked out of shape people either.
Pac1Man wrote: » The novelty of constantly dodging a swinging panther tale who had suddenly developed a personality of it's own wears thin too.
the beer revolu wrote: » Point out one insult. You may have taken much offense, but where did I use an insult. Uptight, is not an insult. Repressed is not an insult. Saying someone has a hang up is not an insult. Saying someone has body issues is not an insult. Referring to someone as lardy, is rather insulting, though. And it's about wanting to see naked people (in or out of shape), it's about not caring. They are just people's bodied. No big deal.
the beer revolu wrote: » Prude Tracy
Princess Consuela Bananahammock wrote: » And as for PacMan here, I have nooooo idea what he's talking about, what he thinks saunas are or how he thinks the experience "wears thin".
Prune Tracy wrote: » People who talk about how brilliant they are for being nudists are always so insufferable in that regard tbh. And so predictable. Always with the completed bingo card of "prude", "repressed", "uptight", "hang-up", "catholic guilt", "Irish". Change the formula folks - really. You're as stuck in a mindset as those you enjoy calling (and feeling so superior to) prudes.
Pac1Man wrote: » Just that a simple pair of togs saves a lot of eye appointments.
Princess Consuela Bananahammock wrote: » ... still no idea: are you sure you're posting in the right thread??