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LadyMacBeth_

So, my fellow AHers, I am on the move, off to England after Christmas. Not exactly a big leap, but I am already considering some important cultural differences. Have ye ever lived abroad and do ye have any tips for me? Bear in mind that I'm a Corkonian as well so the culture shock will be doubled. How did you survive without Barry's tea and Taytos? Will the bus driver look at me funny when I thank him/her? Will anyone be able to pronounce my Irish name? Do I have to stop interrogating people into drinking tea/coffee/having some food when they come to my house?

I have already decided that I will staunchly refer to the hotpress as the hotpress, and there will be no airing cupboard in my house I tell you.

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rekluse

Open a bank account with Lloyds you only need a passport.

jacksie66

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LadyMacBeth_

anna080 wrote: »

Tae = brew
Sangich = sarnie

That's all you need to know.

Oh and you'll love their sausages, they're really big :pac:

Sausage sarnie anyone?

dd972

If you're going to Reading OP, avoid Whitley on the far south of the town, full of scobes, and the Oxford Rd area heading out west from the town centre, a seedy place full of bedsits and takeaways, apart from that it's quite a thriving, prosperous town with stuff going on a lot of the time, good shops, and well connected as well, fast trains to London Paddington or Ealing, Oxford or Birmingham in another direction and Bristol and Cardiff, as well as a frequent Coach link to Heathrow. Zero Degrees is a good brewpub there worth a visit.

On the local train line to Paddington avoid Slough, West Drayton, Hayes and Southall, they're all s**tholes.

Take note, though that it's the South of England and doesn't really have much of a personality or the sort of craic and banter you'd get the further north you go in England, the Irish are 'Northern' in a similar way that Nordies have that Scottish aspect about them.

G.G.G.

The biggest thing that got me overseas was changing my entire pattern of communication, just sooo many mistaken moments of 'rudeness' (given and received) that were just down to cultural differences.

gozunda

Oldtree wrote: »

Dint worry about the crisps, kerrygold and cidona, there are many "Irish" shops over there, just find them. Was one around tooting somewhere from what I remember.

Don't dwell on the homesickness, just get out there. Plenty if clubs with similar interests to your own.

I would guess thar Skype and the like will make everything seem less further away than in my day.

Have a ball, it's a place for young people.

Definitely not a place for old crusties such as yourseself then

Oldtree

Probably not, but beats being on a chicken farm I suppose.

gozunda

Oldtree wrote: »

Probably not, but beats being on a chicken farm I suppose.

You live on a chicken farm in the UK?. Did the smell not get to you?

Oldtree

gozunda wrote: »

You live on a chicken farm in the UK. Did the smell not get to you?

Your grammer needs work... and no I don't live on a chicken farm, you do by your own admission. Do you find the smell bad, is that why you are asking?

gozunda

Oldtree wrote: »

Your grammer needs work... and no I don't live on a chicken farm, you do by your own admission. Do you find the smell bad, is that why you are asking?

What's wrong with your granma? You said it beat being on a chicken farm. Sounds like you have experience there. Does she live on the chicken farm then? I presume she would know what the smell was alright

Oldtree

gozunda wrote: »

What's wrong with your granma? Does she live on the chicken farm then? I presume she would know what the smell was alright

I think you need to take a break from the chicken farm, clearly the fumes have gotten to you. So much so that you are no longer able to read the content of a post correctly. It might explain the grammer issues too.

gozunda

Oldtree wrote: »

I think you need to take a break from the chicken farm, clearly the fumes have gotten to you. So much so that you are no longer able to read the content of a post correctly. It might explain the grammer issues too.

I think it was the spelling and lack of pronouns / adjectives in that last post of yours. Stop barking about it - ok.

Oldtree

gozunda wrote: »

Stop barking about it - ok.

Very good

aviva el pollo...

Buford T. Justice XIX

Mod note: Oldtree and gozunda, let it go, gentlemen, before I have to 'encourage' you to let it go!

Thanks in advance,

Buford T. Justice

con___manx1

I lived in canada and oz for nearly 4 years.

JupiterKid

I lived in San Francisco for a year in my early 20s just after college. Was a little homesick at first but made a load of friends, some of which I'm still friendly with today. Ended up absolutely loving it. Missed Tayto crisps, chipper chips and proper tea but a friend of a friend brought over two huge bags of Lyons a few times so that was nice.

In comparison to most other countries, England should be a doddle. We are very alike culturally.

One thing though is not to do the Mrs Doyle "ah you will, you will!" when offering a visitor tea/biccies or a drink. When the English say "no thank you" they really mean no thank you. They don't do that "polite refusal" lark us Irish do when offered something, when we say we are fine but would really like to take the host up on the offer. Likewise, if you are offered something and say "no thanks" you won't be offered again.

And who under the age of 60 uses the term "messages" for groceries these days? My grannies certainly did, but my mum didn't and neither did anyone I grew up with. But then I'm a Dub (of Nordie extraction) and maybe it's still a term used widely in Cork.

Estrellita

LadyMacBeth_ wrote: »

So, my fellow AHers, I am on the move, off to England after Christmas.

New year, fresh start eh?

Delighted for you. I've a lot of family over there and have been plenty of times. I nearly moved myself at one stage.

As others have said about doing your ground work first, in terms of proof of address etc. you'll be fine. Bring some tea with you. For every second cup have one of theirs to transition you slowly. You don't want the cold turkey to set in

So have you ditched most of your worldly goods, or are you going by ferry with all your things?

Sephiroth_dude

jester77 wrote: »

You'll quickly discover how over rated Barry's.

Take that back! :mad:

:pac:

LordSutch

Lived in England for many years.

A few tips for you; Don't call the airing cupboard the "Hot press" as this will cause no end of amusement & bewilderment!

If you've overslept, don't say "I've slept it out" as you may be asked "What did you sleep out???

Never call sandwiches 'Sambos', just don't!

Other words & phrases to be aware of include the river Thames (silent h), Thailand (silent h) also. Don't call the Police " Guards" don't call crisps 'Taytos'. Trams are trams (not the LUAS)

Oh yeah, when in London don't even try to thank the bus driver as you disembark, remembering that you exit by the middle doors (NOT BY THE FRONT DOORS), hence you can't thank the driver unless you shout up to the front!

England is very regional, so depending on what part you live in, different customs & words may be used differently too. Different dialects in different parts.

PS when in England I used to notice many Irish people mixing of interchanging the term UK with England, be sure to note the difference or people will be quick to correct you.

Finally, have a great time in Blighty, its s great and interesting country with much to see and do.

(A loaf of bread is not a Pan, it is a loaf of bread).

Bonfire night is the 5th of November (not Halloween).

Tally-ho . . . .

marvin80

LadyMacBeth_ wrote: »

So, my fellow AHers, I am on the move, off to England after Christmas. Not exactly a big leap, but I am already considering some important cultural differences. Have ye ever lived abroad and do ye have any tips for me? Bear in mind that I'm a Corkonian as well so the culture shock will be doubled. How did you survive without Barry's tea and Taytos? Will the bus driver look at me funny when I thank him/her? Will anyone be able to pronounce my Irish name? Do I have to stop interrogating people into drinking tea/coffee/having some food when they come to my house?

I have already decided that I will staunchly refer to the hotpress as the hotpress, and there will be no airing cupboard in my house I tell you.

This is exactly how it'll play out for you OP:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_euK9aKLEw

Baron Kurtz

Oldtree wrote: »

I think you need to take a break from the chicken farm, clearly the fumes have gotten to you. So much so that you are no longer able to read the content of a post correctly. It might explain the grammer issues too.

You've gone there twice now! Have another look at the last line. There are some issues here, as you put it.

lemmno

I always thanked the driver. The middle of the bus isn’t that far back. And he or she would often wave back at me in acknowledgment. Others also thank the driver, not just the Irish! Maybe I just lived in a civilised part of London!

Join a few teams. You’ll meet a lot of people. More Irish accents over there now than there was in the 70s, or so they say.

Enjoy!

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lemmno wrote: »

I always thanked the driver. The middle of the bus isn’t that far back. And he or she would often wave back at me in acknowledgment. Others also thank the driver, not just the Irish! Maybe I just lived in a civilised part of London!

Join a few teams. You’ll meet a lot of people. More Irish accents over there now than there was in the 70s, or so they say.

Enjoy!

yeh, English people thank the driver. Not all buses in England exit in the centre either. The First range of buses don't have centre doors.

c_man

There are some cultural and linguistic differences of course, you'll get them in time. Maybe just me, but people swear a lot less over here and I've changed to match that. Greggs is rubbish and the people there just accept that you can end up with a cold sausage roll (their counters aren't heated). Council tax is a bit strange coming from the land of rage over paying for water. Societal norms and expectations are a bit strange like I was shocked the first time the Queen showed up on my doorstep, I didn't have the correct tea pot etc on hand but she made do with a mug and a kitkat. The local Lord will sleep with your wife on the first night of your marriage, it's an ancient rite. After a few months I found myself locked up for a bombing I had nothing to do with. The police beat me into a confession and I'm now serving a 20 year sentence at HM Prison Belmarsh. You'll have a great time.

silvervixen84

I don't know anything about Reading, but I've been living in London for 7 years.

I don't have a hot press in my flat!

Regarding bank accounts, when I moved over, Lloyds were the only ones who gave me an account without much hassle, so try them before going around the houses. You can always open an account at a different bank when you settle in.

Like moving to anywhere new, just spend some time exploring the area and go out and meet people. It can be a bit overwhelming and lonely otherwise. I posted on the Boards London forum asking if anyone was interested in going to a pub quiz, and have made great friends that way.

80% of the time when someone asks if you're Irish, they'll assume you're from Dublin, so you'll have to explain where Cork is

Best of luck with the move!

Permabear

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deisemum

I lived in London for over 12 years. People avoid making contact on public transport.

Over there press means print media, I still call presses cupboards after moving back over 20 years ago. Pronounce three with the h as pronouncing it as tree amuses the English. When offered a cup of tea or coffee don't expect biscuits or cake with it, you usually just get what's offered and nothing more and I agree with the previous poster you wont be offered a second time if you politely decline.

beans

Setting your Facebook status to "I'd murder a sambo right about now" will land you in prison.

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beans wrote: »

Setting your Facebook status to "I'd murder a sambo right about now" will land you in prison.

My first week in England I said to my newfound course friends "I'd murder a sambo". Spoken in an angry nordie accent. They all looked at me like I was mental.

Thankfully one of them had an Irish dad, realised what I meant and told me what sambo meant there.

LadyMacBeth_

beans wrote: »

Setting your Facebook status to "I'd murder a sambo right about now" will land you in prison.

circadian wrote: »

My first week in England I said to my newfound course friends "I'd murder a sambo". Spoken in an angry nordie accent. They all looked at me like I was mental.

Thankfully one of them had an Irish dad, realised what I meant and told me what sambo meant there.

So what does sambo mean there? Ye are leaving me in suspense here.