nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » People in sports wear protective gear. They still sometimes get injured. People on fishing boats often wear life jackets. Many of them still drown. Police wear stab jackets but sometimes still get injured in the line of duty. The list goes on. It is possible to take many precautions and still end up in a situation where you need medical or other intervention or help. And at that point the help should be offered, rather than sanctimonious admonishments from an imaginary pedestal on how they got there in the first place. How many people who died from their nut allergy, do you think, did so because they were not trying hard enough to avoid nuts? Or do you think, maybe just maybe, that some people despite all their efforts, manage to get exposed to nuts all the same? And would we stand over them with the epi-pen in hand and say "tut tut tut you clearly were not trying hard enough" or would we simply give them the procedure they need and leave the sanctimonious judgmental clap trap at home where it belongs? Not sure what the whatiffery achieves other than to allow you to make up a narrative on how you imagine they would behave had things been other than they are. The fact is on the abortion issue many people have concerns about one, the other, or BOTH of the things you mention. That is they are concerned about allowing abortions in cases of medical or emotional need (FFA, Rape and so forth) and/OR they are concerned about allowing abortion entirely by choice for people who wish it, at stages when there is no reason to hold moral and ethical concern for the fetus. Neither are mutually exclusive, and support of either does not mean you are actually cloak and dagger in support of the other and do not wish to admit it, or whatever your dark imaginary narrative is today. It is perfectly possible, moral, and ok to argue for one in one context and the other in another. Not only can they, they SHOULD do so. It is the right thing to do. Much as you might wish to spin it to seem otherwise.
January wrote: » Women are having abortions every day in Ireland, women travel every day to England to have abortions. Why should we be forced to continue to travel. Abortion is happening already, whether any of you like it or not. Why shouldn't it become legal here?
SafeSurfer wrote: » There are ways to avoid getting pregnant if it may kill you.
SafeSurfer wrote: » There are completely foolproof ways to avoid becoming pregnant.
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Not really short of sterilisations or complete chastity. And even the latter does not work when you are raped. Otherwise all you have are ways to modify the probabilities of getting pregnant. Even people using MULTIPLE contraceptive methodologies still get pregnant sometimes. If everyone in the world tomorrow started combining condoms, the pill, and the withdrawl method..... you will still get SOME statistical quantity of people getting pregnant. So lording their choices and responsibilities over them is just judgemental nonsense from an imaginary pedastal. People get pregnant despite doing many things to avoid it. But aside from chastity and sterilisation by all means list the "completely foolproof ways to avoid becoming pregnant." and maybe also cite the statistics you have access to on the efficacy of each methodology. I suspect you will not find many that are 100%, but by all means list them if you do.
SafeSurfer wrote: » So basically you want me to list a third method of avoiding pregnancy if it could kill you?
Akrasia wrote: » There was a priest on a radio show recently talking about why he believes abortion is wrong He basically said that Life begins at conception and that only god has the right to choose who lives and who dies. This got me thinking about the free will debate and the problem of evil. Whenever a christian talks about why god allows people to do evil, they always say it's because god wants people to have free will. If people were prevented by god from making immoral choices, they would not be able to freely choose to be good. They extend this argument to the murder of innocents. God chooses to not protect innocent people from murderers because to do so, would restrict the freedom of choice of the murderer (yes i know it's a stupid argument) So the next time a christian tells you that abortion should be illegal, ask them about god's position on free will. If god exists and an embryo is a fully actualised person, aborting that pregnancy is the best thing that could possibly happen to that 'person'. It is a guaranteed one way ticket to paradise (unless you believe in limbo in which case god is a monster) So the 'baby' is not harmed, and the person who had the abortion was exercising her free will as god itself intended her to do.
SafeSurfer wrote: » Your arguments are so persuasive. You are surely winning over voters to the pro choosing abortion position. Can I use the same argument the next time a christian tells me that murder should be illegal? You say the "baby" is not harmed. Having your brains sucked out with a vacuum could be considered "harmed". But by all means defend your position by any means necessary. I am sure there are some straws that have yet to be grasped.
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » I basically want you to list the things YOU just said exist. Because aside from calling them "foolproof" you are entirely unclear on what you are talking about at all.
Akrasia wrote: » This isn't the main reason I support a womans right to choose, it is more of an aside regarding the inconsistency of the christian position against abortion.
SafeSurfer wrote: » You do know there is a difference between chastity and abstinence? But of course you use the term chastity as a quasi religious insult to a method of avoiding pregnancy. If pregnancy could kill me I would be on the pill after both myself and my partner were sterilised, use condoms, spermicide and the withdrawal method and probably drastically reduce the frequency of sex to birthdays and anniversaries. But of course thats not the solution. Abortion is the solution. Abortion is always the solution and we wont be a free and functioning society until anyone can get a free abortion whenever they want for whatever reason they want.
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rainbow kirby wrote: » If you're a hardcore enough RC, "chastity" for married couples involves making babies, not avoiding them :pac:The concept of abstinence in a healthy, happy marriage or long term relationship is completely unrealistic and if you think it is then you're on another planet.
SafeSurfer wrote: » Are you serious? Do you think there are zero happy, fulfilled, contented relationships that are non sexual?
SafeSurfer wrote: » You do know there is a difference between chastity and abstinence?
SafeSurfer wrote: » But of course thats not the solution. Abortion is the solution. Abortion is always the solution
Tigger wrote: » should it be in private or public care
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » To be honest I do not know. I also have not fully thought out how it should be financed. Some people want it to be free. Which in some ways would be nice, especially given many people seek abortion BECAUSE they are in financially bad situations. But on the other hand I see the argument that abortion is, in the cases you are talking about, an entirely ELECTIVE procedure. So there are arguments that come with that too. The only thing I can really answer your question with therefore is another question. Why the "or"? Are there not already many medical things in Ireland that are done in BOTH? Why would it need to be one or the other?
GritBiscuit wrote: » Are you serious? How many of those non-sexual relationships are reliant on contraception and thus relevant to this discussion?
SafeSurfer wrote: » Are you serious? Do you think there are zero happy, fulfilled, contented relationships that are non sexual? It used to be the church that were obsessed with sex, now it is their opponents.
gctest50 wrote: » Would you like if these "happy, fulfilled, contented relationships that are non sexual" were more common ?
Tigger wrote: » the two toer health system ? it will of course be in private if its innpublic so i suppose i should have said should it be private only or should it also be also public .
SafeSurfer wrote: » But of course you use the term chastity as a quasi religious insult to a method of avoiding pregnancy...........
SafeSurfer wrote: » It makes no difference to me, but I understand your implication, that because I am not in favour of abortion I must be a knuckle dragging, veil wearing catholic who only approves of sex on the first full moon of every second month.
gctest50 wrote: » What's with the sense of persecution ? Would you like if these "happy, fulfilled, contented relationships that are non sexual" were more common ?