MrMorooka wrote: » It might be that all right. A couple of years back I ran into a Polish girl I used to work with, and the first thing she said to me was "oh, you have gotten fat". I was a bit taken aback, but she was right. Then a few weeks ago I met a Polish wife of a coworker for the first time in a few years, and the first thing she said to me was "schudnąłeś"('you have lost weight'). Definitely other countries seem more open about these things.
LirW wrote: » Your diet is crucial to your success in dropping weight, much more than exercising is.
keeponhurling wrote: » Its cultural as well though. If you are no more fat than the rest of your friends or people around you, then it's probably not a priority to lose weight.
LirW wrote: » What's not entirely Irish is the taboo to point out a person is overweight. You simply don't say to a person that they're obese and it can have bad consequences.
Wildcard7 wrote: » I was a bit confused when I went to the freezer section in Tesco, and the "vegetable" aisle was filled with 75% potatoes. That part is unique to Ireland, IMHO. Where I'm from, potatoes (/pasta/rice) is a "Sättigungsbeilage", a heavy side dish to fill you up. Here in Ireland people seem to think potatoes are a vegetable like broccoli or asparagus (yes I know potatoes are a vegetable, but there's a difference between eating a plate of chips and a plate of cauliflower).
Stonedpilot wrote: » You mean the carbs?. Doens't every country have spuds too!.
seamus wrote: » "If I just throw random statisticish mathematical words in here, they mightn't realise that I haven't a fncking clue what I'm talking about."
RoisinClare6 wrote: » I'm fat. Am I proud? No Am I working on fixing it. Yes In the process of losing it at the moment. So I'm working on it yet you could see me on the street and start calling me a manatee or what ever when in reality I'm eating quite healthy and walking every day. When you see a fatter person yes some maybe lazy ass scratchers. Some may have thyroid issues, your weight in some thyroid cases can fluctuate by 20lbs some days. Or they are actually in the process of slimming down. So how do you choose which one it is OK to make fun of? From a outside perspective you don't know which one is which. I'm not proud of how big I became to be, honestly I'm not but I'm sure as hell going to get rid of it.
Stonedpilot wrote: » Yep, we are far worse, in terms of median average head of population. Like random 100 people in America and 100 Irish picked at random Irish will be far fatter.
LirW wrote: » I said the same thing to my man when I moved here, that it really stands out that there are plenty of obese people around, especially young women and it's sad really. The awareness regarding healthy food and cooking seems to be quite bad here. Knowledge about cooking isn't passed on to kids like other European countries do that, I had long talks about that with my man's family because it fascinated me. What's not entirely Irish is the taboo to point out a person is overweight. You simply don't say to a person that they're obese and it can have bad consequences. While it's okay to bash people for being skinny (especially when their body is their main capital, models for example) you can't point obesity out. I remember watching Project Runway where I think 2 seasons ago a morbidly obese woman won. A lot because of the fact that she designed for plus-size and sent a statement. It was impossible reasoning with her because everything that was said she took as an offence because "I know I'm fat and I was bullied for it my entire life" and this is simply wrong. When you're a cnut it has nothing to do with your weight. I do see though a lot of action that's being taken against obesity. Especially in disadvantaged schools food is a BIG topic. My son attended one and there are a few campaigns for healthy eating also involving the parents. They are encouraged to attend cooking classes to learn how to cook from scratch. Also in his new school food and sports is certainly a topic. It's just the body positivity movement that makes it problematic. Yes we all come in different shapes and sizes. Some people struggle with health problems so they don't really lose weight, we get this, that happens. But there is a certain point where weight isn't healthy anymore, that goes both ways. It's not healthy being so skinny you're not having your period anymore, but neither is being so heavy that you can't stand for 5 minutes nevermind walk. As someone who struggled with an eating disorder I don't get it how you can embrace this without reflecting that it can have permanent effects on your body.
Stonedpilot wrote: » A genuine question.
Boom_Bap wrote: » You're pretty much answering my question with your smart reply. Nobody knows what any body is going through to lead to their appearance which society is hung up about commenting or reacting to.