jeanjolie wrote: » It's a bit of an emotionally charged debate in this new gender liberation movement but I suppose it's good for AH. Generally in the West, women can't crossdress (used to with jeans) compared to men or at least not to any obvious degree. You're probably thinking of a man in a dress/skirt and/or high heels which you've never seen on the streets of Dublin. But even then, I don't think I've seen a man who was a bit 'feminine' in his dressing style. It all seems to be very overt and extreme like drag. The reason I brought this up was because I went through my old classmates Facebook profile and saw him dressed in light blue skinny jeans, ugg boots, and earrings. Now I have no problem with men being as feminine as they want, hell I'd even date both genders of varying heights and spectrums of gender expression. Open to LGBT, The point is although I didn't have a problem with him looking feminine he....didn't look good tbh. Not because he looked 'gay' or they were not fitting well but..I can't really explain it. That's the thing I get with a lot of cross-dressing men. They just look a bit out of place. Do you agree?
jeanjolie wrote: » Generally in the West, women can't crossdress (used to with jeans) compared to men or at least not to any obvious degree. You're probably thinking of a man in a dress/skirt and/or high heels which you've never seen on the streets of Dublin. The reason I brought this up was because I went through my old classmates Facebook profile and saw him dressed in light blue skinny jeans, ugg boots, and earrings. Now I have no problem with men being as feminine as they want, hell I'd even date both genders of varying heights and spectrums of gender expression. Open to LGBT,
[jeanjolie;103760675]It's a bit of an emotionally charged debate in this new gender liberation movement but I suppose it's good for AH
Generally in the West, women can't crossdress (used to with jeans) compared to men or at least not to any obvious degree. You're probably thinking of a man in a dress/skirt and/or high heels which you've never seen on the streets of Dublin.
But even then, I don't think I've seen a man who was a bit 'feminine' in his dressing style. It all seems to be very overt and extreme like drag.
The reason I brought this up was because I went through my old classmates Facebook profile and saw him dressed in light blue skinny jeans, ugg boots, and earrings. Now I have no problem with men being as feminine as they want, hell I'd even date both genders of varying heights and spectrums of gender expression. Open to LGBT The point is although I didn't have a problem with him looking feminine he....didn't look good tbh. Not because he looked 'gay' or they were not fitting well but..I can't really explain it. That's the thing I get with a lot of cross-dressing men. They just look a bit out of place. Do you agree?
_Brian wrote: » Their just being themselves. They're hardly any more out of place than any poorly dressed man, probably myself included a large proportion of the time. When I was younger it took me back a bit to see a cross dressed man, I just wasn't used to things outside the Irish "norm". Honestly I couldn't give a rats ass now, whatever yer happy with, I judge people on many things, but how they look isn't one.
spurious wrote: » We have all seen them, we just don't realise it.
gumbo1 wrote: » Well, there was a few times where I was almost fooled into thinking that I was looking at a very good looking woman....
Samaris wrote: » Conchita Wurst is oddly beautiful. The beard with the long hair and dress is a bit mind-throwing, but sure eh. Known a couple of guys that could wear a dress and it actually suit them - the first time this happened it was a friend of mine and I was a bit taken aback at how well one of the dresses worked for him, especially since the guy was six foot-ish and reasonably solidly built. The main issues with dresses on guys is that they tend to be made to accommodate what blokes don't have and don't accommodate what they do have very well (usually the wider torso between chest and waist). I assume someone somewhere's gotten into the male dress market though to make up for that.
_Brian wrote: » I judge people on many things, but how they look isn't one.
JaCrispy wrote: » Complete and utter rubbish. Those two statements cannot be separated.