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When life throws you a curveball..

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Picture the scene... It's a sunny morning in Dublin and you wake up excited as a virgin in a brothel. It's holiday time! You've the time booked off work, your boarding pass tucked safely away in your suitcase and money in your pocket.

Your friends are messaging you equally as excited. You've so many things planned for this trip, including tickets to see Depeche Mode in the Olympic Stadium. Life is SWEET!!!

You've been counting down the days to this for what seems like forever. Being a huge Depeche Mode fan, this will be a trip of a lifetime.

Just as you're about to walk out the door, you double check you have everything. You glance at your passport and the date seems wrong.

Expires February 2017? That can't be right. You slowly walk out the door and ignore your steadily increasing heartrate. February 2017? Hang on, what year is this... no, that can't be right, they must have made a mistake. Wait, is this 2017 or 2016? Ah, it's fine...it has to be fine... there's no way it isn't fine....is this a leap year? That's what it must be cos the thing on the thing..says.. OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Que the penny dropping and a mad cap dash to the Passport Office. After floods of tears and life threatening negotiations, you realise that they won't back down. Emergency passports are only issued in the case of a family death or serious illness. Dave Gahan singing Enjoy the Silence, despite meaning the world to you, is not an emergency. Letting all of your friends down, also not an emergency. Not getting to go on your highly anticipated holiday, well you bet your ass that's not an emergency either.

This happened to me yesterday. It felt like the world was out to get me. Everything went wrong. I spent the day wandering around in a daze of tears. It felt like the worst thing that had ever happened to me.

However, this morning I woke up to a message from a good friend who I called in absolute bits yesterday. The message said - Cheer up, I got us tickets to see DM in November. Another friend called me and said if you're not going to Munich, lets go to Kilkenny for a spa weekend! So now we're booked into a lovely hotel in Kilkenny. I'm gonna go clothes shopping today and get my hair done and accept that it wasn't meant to be.

Has life ever thrown you a massive curveball that felt like the end of the world that somehow turned out to be a positive? Also, do you believe everything happens for a reason, like if I'd gone maybe my plane would have crashed (it clearly didn't). I can't realy see any reason that all happened. I'm down about 1,000 euro from hotels being non refundable, flights, trips etc and I'm sorely disappointed. Maybe I was meant to learn some lesson or maybe it's just a big pile of sh*t...

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gramar

Dead Tribute Banned wrote: »

Maybe I was meant to learn some lesson or maybe it's just a big pile of sh*t...

The lesson is to renew your passport. You mention spa weekends and Depeche Mode but no mention of getting that sorted!

Boom_Bap

There was this one time, at band camp

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You've got great friends

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Kimbot

Boom_Bap wrote: »

There was this one time, at band camp

Speaking of which, did they ever remove the trombone mouthpiece? :pac:

tea and coffee

Is Olympic stadium in the Uk? You don't need a passport to fly to the Uk with aer lingus

GetWithIt

You won't want to hear this but you don't need a passport to fly to the UK. On Aer Lingus anyway. Ryanair might be d1cks about it.

gramar

GetWithIt wrote: »

You won't want to hear this but you don't need a passport to fly to the UK. On Aer Lingus anyway. Ryanair might be d1cks about it.

I think it was Munich the OP was going to.

frag420

Jaysus op if you spend the night in a brothel and still wake up a virgin...you have more issues than remembering to renew a passport!!

biko

"Throw a curveball", is that cricket terminology?

Dead Tribute Banned

tea and coffee wrote: »

Is Olympic stadium in the Uk? You don't need a passport to fly to the Uk with aer lingus

No, it's in Munich!

Dead Tribute Banned

gramar wrote: »

The lesson is to renew your passport. You mention spa weekends and Depeche Mode but no mention of getting that sorted!

I did that afterwards. My new passport photo is hideous cos I'd been crying so much. Puffy face, red eyes. Still, every time I look at it I'll learn a lesson... or become very very bitter

Boom_Bap

jonnycivic wrote: »

Speaking of which, did they ever remove the trombone mouthpiece? :pac:

No. It's gone rusty now.

TPD

Dead Tribute Banned wrote: »

I did that afterwards. My new passport photo is hideous cos I'd been crying so much. Puffy face, red eyes. Still, every time I look at it I'll learn a lesson... or become very very bitter

The problem this time was not looking at your passport early enough... Not sure how effective a lesson it'll be

Pac1Man

Hector Savage

This is a first world problem.

Joeseph Balls

My wife's grandmother flew Poland to Dublin and back on a national I'd?? Thought in the EU it's fine? Maybe you have to declare it or something but pretty sure she has no passport

taytobreath

i doubt they rarely even check the date on passports anymore, just the name and the picture likeness. i would of took a chance.

gramar

Hector Savage wrote: »

This is a first world problem.

Yes it is Hector but the OP has probably been listening and following this band for 30 odd years. They organise a trip to Germany to see the band maybe for the first time and spend a few days away with friends. Looking forward for months to a concert that in years to come they could look back on as one of the outstanding moments in their life and not to mention it costing a thousand odd quid. Then to see all those plans nay dreams implode through a simple yet unresolveable oversight. That stings Hector no matter what world you live in.

sbsquarepants

Could be worse OP. You could have had to endure a depeche mode concert, I mean holy personal jesus. At least you dodged that bullet!

andekwarhola

Is a curveball like a gigantic wall of text that makes you feel tired?

ChikiChiki

You've learned that you've some friends you can count on. Thats more valuable than any concert tickets.

Glenster

TLDR:

Waaaaahhhhhh, I messed up my business and I expect other people to fix it for me.

sbsquarepants

taytobreath wrote: »

i doubt they rarely even check the date on passports anymore, just the name and the picture likeness. i would of took a chance.

I'd have done the same - worst thing that can happen is they cop it and say no. There's a decent chance you'd have gotten through. I've flown before with the wrong surname on the ticket!

Potential Underachiever

biko wrote: »

"Throw a curveball", is that cricket terminology?

Baseball.

gramar

sbsquarepants wrote: »

I'd have done the same - worst thing that can happen is they cop it and say no. There's a decent chance you'd have gotten through. I've flown before with the wrong surname on the ticket!

It was worth a shot. You might well get there but if they spotted it coming back you'd be stranded.

Dead Tribute Banned

gramar wrote: »

Yes it is Hector but the OP has probably been listening and following this band for 30 odd years. They organise a trip to Germany to see the band maybe for the first time and spend a few days away with friends. Looking forward for months to a concert that in years to come they could look back on as one of the outstanding moments in their life and not to mention it costing a thousand odd quid. Then to see all those plans nay dreams implode through a simple yet unresolveable oversight. That stings Hector no matter what world you live in.

The concert is on tonight and my sister, who I haven't seen in months cos she lives in Berlin, was fying over for it too. We grew up on this music and are die hard fans. I miss her and was dying to see her.

It's all relative. I kept saying to myself yesterday, it could be worse, at least you have your health etc but there was no escaping the fact that I was devastated. I was walking through town bawling crying, I didn't care who looked at me. Disappointment is an understatement.

Your post sums up how I felt / feel so well. I'm still a touch emotional today and your post made me well up a little. Such kind and understanding words. Thank you gramar, I really mean that.

Dead Tribute Banned

Glenster wrote: »

TLDR:

Waaaaahhhhhh, I messed up my business and I expect other people to fix it for me.

Way to be a jerk, hope it never happens to you or that any oversight ever happens to you.

I'm down 1,000 euro, don't get to go on my holiday or get to see my sister. Pretty upsetting. I didn't expect anybody to fix it for me, I was trying to fix it myself. I went to the Gaurds, got the forms stamped, legged it to the passport office, pleaded my case and was willing to pay any amount to get there.

I wanted more than anything to see my sister. I let her down too. She was looking forward to seeing Depeche Mode with me cos we grew up on them. Letting someone else down is a horrible feeling.

Empathy, you should look it up.

MarcusP12

sbsquarepants wrote: »

taytobreath wrote: »

i doubt they rarely even check the date on passports anymore, just the name and the picture likeness. i would of took a chance.

I'd have done the same - worst thing that can happen is they cop it and say no. There's a decent chance you'd have gotten through. I've flown before with the wrong surname on the ticket!

But just cuz some dozy yoke doesn't cop it in Dublin airport (unlikely since there are a few checks) doesn't mean they'll get away with it for the flight home or get through passport control the other side....id imagine the Germans are very thorough on these things and then they'd be rightly screwed!!

Shame to miss out all the same...was them when they were here in '13 and thought it was epic...at least the op has the gig in November to look forward to....u can go to Munich anytime (as long as your passport is valid!!).....

Glenster

Dead Tribute Banned wrote: »

Way to be a jerk, hope it never happens to you or that any oversight ever happens to you.

I'm down 1,000 euro, don't get to go on my holiday or get to see my sister. Pretty upsetting. I didn't expect anybody to fix it for me, I was trying to fix it myself. I went to the Gaurds, got the forms stamped, legged it to the passport office, pleaded my case and was willing to pay any amount to get there.

I wanted more than anything to see my sister. I let her down too. She was looking forward to seeing Depeche Mode with me cos we grew up on them. Letting someone else down is a horrible feeling.

Empathy, you should look it up.

Sort your own life out mate.

I really feel for the staff in the passport office, every day a hysterical sob story, every day disappointed kids waved in their face as though its their fault. It must be a grim job.