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'Shallow' dealbreakers in a relationship?

jeanjolie

What deal-breakers do you have before you began any romantic relationship or even friendship that most people would consider shallow?

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Ash.J.Williams

Eircom_Sucks wrote: »

Anal

She won't wear the strap-on?

Cloudio9

jeanjolie wrote: »

3.) Height - I'm 5ft 5in and don't want a girl who is below too much. Nothing to do with femininity or masculinity rather its simply attraction. I tend to find shorter women (with a fair number of exceptions) do not portray a look of seriousness. Height is the main focus in a negative fashion.

Did you mean to say you're 6ft 5 ?

At 5ft 5 you're not going to find many girls much shorter than you.

jeanjolie

Cloudio9 wrote: »

Did you mean to say you're 6ft 5 ?

At 5ft 5 you're not going to find many girls much shorter than you.

No, I'm 5ft 5in.

Really, is it true there are few girls shorter?

keeponhurling

addicted to their smartphone

Boom_Bap

If she doesn't like A Tribe Called Quest.

Ultimate Seduction

jeanjolie wrote:

1.) Accent - can be the most pretty and/or sexy girl but if she has that thick Dublin accent or any other thick Irish accent.....

jeanjolie wrote:

2.) 'Traditional beliefs' - Can't really deal with people who believe in a 'tough love' mentality in parenting (even though don't want kids), discipline, advice. This also includes believing in traditional gender dynamics. Should at least be nurturing and open minded.

jeanjolie wrote:

3.) Height - I'm 5ft 5in and don't want a girl who is below too much. Nothing to do with femininity or masculinity rather its simply attraction. I tend to find shorter women (with a fair number of exceptions) do not portray a look of seriousness. Height is the main focus in a negative fashion.

You sound like a dealbreaker for any woman.

OldNotWIse

Smoking. Eugh. The smell of stale smoke everywhere, shortened life expectancy and literally burning your money.

Cloudio9

kylith wrote: »

Aye, when you actually like someone the 'dealbreakers' don't matter. If someone had told me a year ago I'd be going out with a tone-deaf practically vegan who can't cook I'd have laughed at them.

At least the deaf vegan can't hear you laugh.

BetsyEllen

A feminine laugh
Uses the word 'ye' instead of you
Makes lots of noise when they eat

Glenster

BetsyEllen wrote: »

A feminine laugh
Uses the word 'ye' instead of you
Makes lots of noise when they eat

You can just say boggers.

Its ok.

Lorelli!

I would also say a man wearing jewellery and if someone is a bit too flashy.

Riddle101

I wonder how many people on this thread are Seinfeld fans. A lot of Jerry Seinfelds on here.

wakka12

jeanjolie wrote: »

No, I'm 5ft 5in.

Really, is it true there are few girls shorter?

Well the average girl is about that height so there would be plenty who are below 5'5 as well.

andekwarhola

Nervous Wreck wrote: »

Once ended a thing because she had a stupid looking coat. /dope

In a relationship, that's no reason to jacket in.

Winterlong

Bad breath and/or bad teeth. No way could I be putting up with either.

Boom_Bap

Riddle101 wrote: »

I wonder how many people on this thread are Seinfeld fans. A lot of Jerry Seinfelds on here.

Varik

jeanjolie wrote: »

No, I'm 5ft 5in.

Really, is it true there are few girls shorter?

Quick google says you're taller than 61.2% of adult women here, but that doesn't really account for the shrinking elderly.

BetsyEllen

Lorelli! wrote: »

I would also say a man wearing jewellery and if someone is a bit too flashy.

Oh yes, this too. Jewellery on a man is hugely off-putting for me.
A watch is fine but nothing else at all.

osarusan

Not understanding the life and mentality of a LOI fan.

Lorelli!

BetsyEllen wrote: »

Oh yes, this too. Jewellery on a man is hugely off-putting for me.
A watch is fine but nothing else at all.

Yea a watch is nice but anytime I see a necklace or bracelet on a man, even if it's subtle, I just think of a 1970s Medallion Man

kirk buttercup

When I was alot younger I broke up with a girl because she went to see wheatus. I stand by my decision.

fg1406

We are a petty bunch! But I find myself agreeing with a lot of what is said: smoking, jewellery on men, bad teeth, bad accent and I know I wouldn't be compatible with someone with conservative religious views. I went on 1 date with someone years ago when I was living in Dublin. We had no real spark but it wasn't a horrible date, I just knew we'd go our separate ways at the end and wish each other well. However, at the end of the date he pipes up and said "you're a lovely lady but I'm sorry, I simply wouldn't be able to bring you home to meet my parents. They wouldn't approve of someone as unorthodox as me"...after 1 date.

topper75

Matt.ie wrote: »

If the person is a liberal,I'm out of there.

Did you not learn about gender dynamics in college like that shorty lad above?

BetsyEllen

Oh I have another one; ungroomed pubic hair.
Guys need to trim too.
I really don't think I could sleep with a guy that didn't keep it trim, it would be an instant turn off for me.
Nothing worse than a bush, bleurgh

topper75

Glenster wrote: »

You can just say boggers.

Its ok.

Hey man! A heavy day stacking sods and you'd also end up with a feminine laugh like us.

Depp

Matt.ie wrote: »

If the person is a liberal,I'm out of there.

Its all fun and games till the repeal jumper comes out, thats quite enough for me!

kittensmittens

If they are "The life and soul of the party".........you know the ones?
They always seem to announce themselves as "Sure I'm just MAD, so I am" :mad:

jeanjolie

BetsyEllen wrote: »

A feminine laugh
Uses the word 'ye' instead of you
Makes lots of noise when they eat

You a woman talking about a man?

Could you elaborate on what a feminine laugh is? Link to a video...seriously don't know.

rorokenny

Women who don't tolerate another persons nationality, heritage and culture..

Dutch People.. :P

jeanjolie

BetsyEllen wrote: »

Oh yes, this too. Jewellery on a man is hugely off-putting for me.
A watch is fine but nothing else at all.

Hmm....do you mean like trashy jewelry or just any jewelry in general?