Calhoun wrote: » It is an outlier actually
Absolam wrote: » people (to a large degree) are not legally obliged to intervene in those circumstances, even if they arguably have a moral obligation.
B_Wayne wrote: » In terms of her being from or not from Ireland, I don't think it remotely matters.
RobertKK wrote: » But when there is an abortion, is the woman terminating her life, or that of a human life within her body?
Outlaw Pete wrote: » All you're trying to do really is get people to say that they agree with women being restrained so that yet more martyrdom can be injected into the debate, as if there wasn't enough of it already.
volchitsa wrote: » And since we don't, isn't that evidence that the majority of our society doesn't actually see the unborn as being the equivalent to a born person in the way you have tried to present it?
If I came at you now with a knife, a bystander would presumably be entitled to hold me down, tie me down if necessary, to stop me, right? Should we do the same to a pregnant woman who is determined to abort her pregnancy?
Calhoun wrote: » I am accepting that they both are in dire situations and both should be serviced from Ireland. I am arguing the point that if you put one on a pedestal over another holes can be picked in it. In fact in both cases you could pick holes in them, that is exactly what the pro-life side will do. This convoluted back and forth we have been doing is just a drop in the ocean of what i see coming. The side that can talk it our rationally has a better shot than the side that goes heavy on the rhetoric.
Consonata wrote: » I haven't touched the refugee topic. You are not accepting that her situation (in that she could not leave due to her immigration status) is not similar to other Irish women's status (in that they can't afford to/whatever their reasons may be).
Calhoun wrote: » Not really under the terms of what has been provided in this thread, we are saying that Ms X case is so important because she was a refugee and was vulnerable in a number of ways. As folk are focusing on the fact she is a refugee they are differentiating her from the women who cannot afford it. If we start to dig into the refugee question questions will be asked.
B_Wayne wrote: » If somebody got to make decisions on the behalf of your body, would you be fine with that?
Consonata wrote: » Loving these goalpost moves. Great target practice.
Consonata wrote: » I take it from that that your opinion is that the Pro-Gay Marriage side was not rational.
Calhoun wrote: » I think it matters where she is from, maybe not to you or I but to general population it might. The Mrs Y case is horrible but it is an outlier case and we don't really want to bring up the rabbit warren of refugees applying to Ireland even though we share no land border with Europe.
Calhoun wrote: » I am not treating it as an outlier, the folk who are pushing this as a sign that Ireland needs to change are doing that.
Consonata wrote: » But her case is not an outlier, you are only framing it so. Both women couldn't leave the country to have an abortion. There reasons are separate, the important point is that they couldn't have the abortion here. It isn't some other-worldly scenario, as frequently women can't just go away to the UK for a weekend to have an abortion. There's waiting lists, time off, familial circumstances, etc.
RobertKK wrote: » A referendum based on the CA recommendations would be hard to pass.
Calhoun wrote: » It would be folly to believe however that their is consensus for everything the citizens assembly has advised on. What will win the day is what ever side is more rational and speak to the Irish people. If we go down the identity politic route again like we did with the marriage referendum, it might not go the right way.
Calhoun wrote: » The case of socio-economic problem is something that i would say happens on a regular occurence there for it is common. Ms Y's case as i said is an outlier, meaning it is unique and the chances of it happening again are slim when we compare it to the former problem.
Consonata wrote: » The point is that it isn't law though. People aren't after keeping the status quo in this situation, in fact as far as I'm aware, retain in its entirety is only at like 15% polling wise. That suggests less a split, and more a consensus that something needs to change somewhere.
RobertKK wrote: » Society is split, things being law doesn't mean it is right, in the past many things that were wrong were legal.
Consonata wrote: » How does it remotely relate to identity politics though? You have the case of the refugee, who can't leave due to her status in the country, and you have the lady who can't afford to leave due to socio-economic reasons. Both women have an impediment to leaving the country which they cannot control, unless you are going to defer to some "bootstrap" logic. You have accepted that the case in terms of Mrs. Y was a terrible situation, yet do not accept that this situation is not unique. You are not being consistent with your outrage. Due to the fact you referred to pro-choice supporters as "self righteous know it all pro-choice folk who look down on the little people in scorn." and then went on to comment that people should "lose the condescending attitudes we might have an actual discussion."
Due to the fact you referred to pro-choice supporters as "self righteous know it all pro-choice folk who look down on the little people in scorn." and then went on to comment that people should "lose the condescending attitudes we might have an actual discussion.
volchitsa wrote: » If I came at you now with a knife, a bystander would presumably be entitled to hold me down, tie me down if necessary, to stop me, right? Should we do the same to a pregnant woman who is determined to abort her pregnancy? And since we don't, isn't that evidence that the majority of our society doesn't actually see the unborn as being the equivalent to a born person in the way you have tried to present it?
freshpopcorn wrote: » Can somebody answer this for me. Should we see a referendum on this in the next few years?
Calhoun wrote: » Let me break it down for you, what happened to her in terms of the rape ect was terrible, if the reason she couldnt have an abortion abroad was because our authorities wouldnt allow her to leave the country that should not have happened. However her being allowed to leave the country but not doing so because she might not get back in changes the dynamic. I wasn't aware if this was the case i was going on what you said. I am not giving you the poor discriminated right wing rubbish, i have been arguing that identity politics shouldnt play a part in this conversation at all. This then became a case of holding the pro-choice to more account than we are pro-lifers. There are crazy folk on both sides as far as i am concerned but for the purposes of today we are only talking about the one that came up. So again ill ask how is it Ironic? or is it just that you don't agree with what i am saying? Ok thought police tell the good folk of after-hours what they should think.
So again ill ask how is it Ironic?
Consonata wrote: » So on the one hand and on the other hand we have I can't keep track of these goalposts. Is her situation bad or is it not? You are simultaneously dismissing her plight out of hand (on what basis I don't even want to know) and then saying that "The Mrs Y case is horrible". You are changing your point to fit your argument, plainly arguing in bad faith. Oh don't give me the poor discriminated right wing rubbish. Either argue with class or don't bother.
Calhoun wrote: » If your telling me her only reason for not going abroad was that she wasnt sure she would be allowed back into her country of choice for refugee status, its ridiculous. If she wanted the abortion so badly that she was suicidal surely she would have done anything possible to get rid of it.
Calhoun wrote: » No i am saying its not wise to build an argument on abortion based upon a refugee. Its a mess of a topic and allot of hard questions not related to the abortion will come out of it.
Calhoun wrote: » Why so because you disagree with what i am saying?
Consonata wrote: » The Irony here is pretty strong.
Consonata wrote: » This implies that shes like a customer in a shop and is picking out her favourite from the EU 27 which is faintly ridiculous. You think after coming all that way she is going to jeopardize her status?