Mr Arrior wrote: » Well theres nothing local, town is dead but I'm gonna try moving to a bigger city. Couple that with toning up and I'm hoping it will help.
maregal wrote: » I predict a lot of women posters will chime in with helpful advice but how many will practice what they preach and actually go on a date with you? Talk is cheap. At the end of the day, looks are everything. A rich 6ft well-built rugby player will win over the nerdy shy guy without a car every time. You're making yourself miserable by chasing the impossible. My advice is find something you enjoy (video games, movies, camping) and focus your energy on that instead.
maregal wrote: » At the end of the day, looks are everything. A rich 6ft well-built rugby player will win over the nerdy shy guy without a car every time. You're making yourself miserable by chasing the impossible. My advice is find something you enjoy (video games, movies, camping) and focus your energy on that instead.
maregal wrote: » The young man is asking for help. Is nobody willing to go out with him, maybe offer some genuine advice?@Mr Arrior, are you living near Dublin?
Mr Arrior wrote: » Im not overly far from Dublin ha The irony if I meet my future wife from this thread
PucaMama wrote: » Trust me stay away from MGTOW you will not meet anyone by meeting up with them
maregal wrote: » I'm not offering to meet up with the chap. I'm asking his location to help in setting him up on a date. Why don't you personally go out with him. Let him know what he's doing wrong as something is obviously not right if he's never had a gf by age 22. He doesn't need to hear "just be yourself" for the 100th time from a dismissive online stranger.
maregal wrote: » I'm fed up reading the same meaningless platitudes anytime a desperate guy comes onto the forum asking for help with women.Just be yourself!There is someone for everyone!Join meetup.com (this is the worst one. It's reaching meme status) The young man is asking for help. Is nobody willing to go out with him, maybe offer some genuine advice?@Mr Arrior, are you living near Dublin?
RDM_83 again wrote: » What your saying is harsh but I sort of agree that a lot of advice isn't very constructive. My 2 cents (which I am very under qualified to give) - Be more chatty, maybe your a quiet person but you can be chatty without being loud - Start smoking (or maybe vaping), sounds terrible but if your in a busy pub it will be one of the times you can actually engage in conversation - Go out with some female friends if you can, women seem to presume your at least an ok person/not a creep if your hanging around with a few girl (hopefully this doesn't sound creepy I mean go out with people you actually enjoy being around platonically!) - Seem like your having fun/are interesting, nobody wants to hang around somebody with somebody who doesnt want to be there, enthusiasm matters no matter the subject of conversation. - If your a messy/agro drunk don't get completely wrecked, if your not fire away - Confidence is literally everything for guys, I know its useless advice but don't be unconfident, don't presume women don't find you attractive, on that note don't also presume that all women find you attractive either many many won't or are just wanting a fun night out with their friends - Don't treat your interactions with women on a night out as having a goal of scoring them, just have fun and be relaxed. - Try to go to places you feel comfortable in and like the atmosphere off, e,g if your not too preppy head to a rock/indie bar - If you can't dance/ not amazing looking don't be downhearted about no success in nightclub/meat market type places Its all very vague and as I said not exactly that qualified to lecure on this but I think these things would help.
FloatingVoter wrote: » Quoted For Truth. Oh, and Humphrey Bogart encompasses all of the above. You will never see him dancing.
tomwaterford wrote: » What????
PucaMama wrote: » He was an actor
FloatingVoter wrote: » @ evil, a lot of modern dating works off Tinder. Basically post a pic, swipe left or right to say yes/no for a nearby shag. It is looks based. Put this way, William Shakespeare would not be seeing much action. Ted Bundy would.
RDM_83 again wrote: » I know Tinder is incredibly popular in terms of having a lot of users but I'm not sure how much use it actually gets, isn't it an ego trip/window shopping for a lot of people?
eviltwin wrote: » He's only 22, most of my mates were single at 22. He has time. Telling him he's basically a lost cause because he's not an Adonis is not helpful. I hope he ignores that.
eeguy wrote: » So much bitterness from the OP, so much resentment, then so much confusion as to why women don't automatically find you attractive.
FloatingVoter wrote: » I've seen two hook-ups occur since September. Mine end was knowing the ladies. One in her thirties paired off with a 20something Italian potter (), the other with a lad up from Mayo for da match. All four would be 8 or 9 out of 10 if we're doing looks ratings. But yeah, a lot of it is probably bull**** - I hope to God we haven't de-evolved to the point where we're swiping left / right. That is literally back to monkeydom.
