I'm living where I am now for about 3 years, well almost exactly 3 years. I live in a small town where there is a real sense of community with a small few cracks in the surface that you see after a while.
You can't go to the shop without meeting someone and having a chat but I like that and my local pub is almost like The Woolpack from Emmerdale, in a good way and not as much drama.

Prior to that I lived in an apartment for a few years after leaving home where I don't think I ever saw my neighbours. I definitely didn't know their names.
I do like my privacy and miss the availability and frequency of public transport but I love where I live now too.