Im just wondering if anyone has any advice on this situtation.
My wife gave birth to our first child during the summer,everything ok and fine but its been 6 months and we still havnt had sex.
Iv brought it up lately as i was always been aware it would be a while after until we did make love and did everything i could to make sure she was happy and taken care of during and after the pregnancy.
Things of course were difficult finding our rhythm as new parents but we seem to have everything settled and are in the swing of things but we still havnt made love.
The days are a standerd routine of feeding the baby when i get home,changeing,cleaning up,watch a bit of tv and then into bed. Our baby sleeps with us but iv been trying to have our baby sleep in the cot next to our bed and when she does agree if i try to and cuddle and possibly lead to sex she will say she is tired.
I know we need time to our selves and their have been a couple of occasions were we have had the house to ourselves but stil lthe same scenario she feels tired and if i suggest maybe a trip she wont leave the babys side other than have her parents have the baby for the night but we cant rely on them as the other times they have taken the baby.
When i bring up i think we may have issues with this she says im just being like a teenager who just wants his bit and it will happen when it happens.
I dont think she has any post natal depression as she is happy and loves our baby abd cant get enough of her so im not sure whats going on.
Is 6 months or longer and average time frame people have waited to make love after having their first baby?