Originally Posted by Kimia
Op, I love the way the only thing you heard when your wife spoke to you was the fact that you won't get to have sex again.
That's quite clearly not true because you mentioned the other problems which he stated.
OP of course, if you're wife follows through, and never
has sex with you again it's going to cause stress and doom your realtionship to failure. That is presuming you like having sex? If you think you can manage the next 40 odd years without having sex then you might be alright but I'm guessing that is unlikely.
You got married quite young (IMO at least) and there could be any number of reasons for the breakdown in your relationship at the moment. I would strongly urge you to speak to your wife about your problems. I would also suggest couselling is the way to go for the both of you. It's very hard for us to tell you much more without anymore info.
How seriously related to the fighting this lack of intimacy your wife feels is hard to judge if we don't know what you fight about and how frequently. It could be a huge part of it or, unfortunately, it could be an excuse for feelings that have died off in a more organic manner not related to the fights you have. It's almost impossible to tell.
All I'll say is that your relationship is 99.9% unlikely to survive as a sexless but faithful one given both your ages.