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Being stalked, kinda.

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  • 01-07-2010 6:06pm
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    dlofnep
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭


    I don't want to be overly descriptive here, as he might be reading... I was sitting in a waiting room last week, things were moving slowly - so I was chatting to some random guy while I waited to be called. He seemed friendly enough - Said he was new in town and didn't really know anyone yet. So being the friendly dlofnep that I am, I invited him along for a few pints with some of my friends.

    That's when everything started to get weird. He started randomly putting his head in his hands, ripping at his hair for no apparent reason. He kept getting paranoid about everything. I just figured it was a bad day. I wish I could go in into detail to the weird stuff he was saying, but I'm genuinely weary incase he reads this thread. Let's just say, he's as crazy as codshít.

    He asked me to text him the next time we were heading out for pints. I was a bit hesitant - and didn't have my phone with me, so I said to text his number onto me and I'd save it. Terrible move!!!!

    Ever since then, he has been ringing me and texting me everyday. I haven't answered the phone. It's getting to the point where he's having conversations with himself through text messages.

    For example, he will text me asking how I am - I don't respond, but he sends me another text saying "I'm doing great, thanks!" - as if I had actually responded to his text. It's getting really freaky. He rang me at 4am the other night, texting me straight afterwards saying that some girl is annoying him with random texts, and that it's getting on his nerves. Why would I care - I barely knew the guy from 20 minutes! Why text send me annoying texts, about someone sending you annoying texts?

    I dunno what to do with this guy. I'm genuinely a friendly person, probably too friendly. I hate being an arsehole to people - but I need to seriously cut ties with this guy. He knows where my local pub is, and will definately pop in. I can see this all going downhill from here..


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    mink_man
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    kick him in the face


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    KeithM89_old
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    Kill Him!!!












    Or just tell him to Fupp Off


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    mink_man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,454 ✭✭✭mink_man


    no, but being serious....






















    KICK HIM IN THE FACE


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    keithg89
    Registered Users Posts: 222 ✭✭keithg89


    Say you'll meet him. Wear tight pants and put a sock down them. If that dont scare him off your f*cked!


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    Biggins
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Time to change number. For the sake of a tenner for a new number, it is the qickest route to finding peace of mind.


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    easyeason3
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    Tell him you have tickets to the next Jedward/ Crystal Swing concert ( I use the word concert in the loosest way possible)

    If that doesn't shake him off your back then it's time for the men in the white coats.


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    tinkerbell
    Registered Users Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    If he's constantly ringing you the whole time, just text him and say "please stop calling me". He sounds like a right freak tbh. Otherwise just ignore the calls and hope he just gives up ringing you!


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    CrackisWhack
    Registered Users Posts: 852 ✭✭✭CrackisWhack


    WHT WON'T YOU ANSWER MY TEXTS!!!!!!:mad::mad::mad:


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    PeterIanStaker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    Change your number - get them to copy the SIM so you dont have to go around like an eejit getting all your friends numbers. Seriously. Then if you see him just ignore or avoid. Hopefully he'll latch onto someone else.


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    starbelgrade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    dlofnep wrote: »
    I don't want to be overly descriptive here, as he might be reading... I was sitting in a waiting room last week, things were moving slowly - so I was chatting to some random guy while I waited to be called.

    That's the problem with meeting people at the STD clinic.


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    deep1
    Registered Users Posts: 1,169 ✭✭✭deep1


    Invite him again for drinks with your friends, and introduce 1 of your male friend to him as your Boy friend.
    That should stop him harassing you, if not change the number.


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    [Deleted User]
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    Change number, get local scummers to threaten him in the pub, sorted. He'll fear looking for you and he can have his little self-text conversations without annoying you.


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    dlofnep
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    I've had the same number for 11 years. My f*ck am I changing it now. As for kicking him, he looks like the kind of guy that would burn your house down in revenge. need alternative strategies!


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    dlofnep
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    That's the problem with meeting people at the STD clinic.

    Speaking from experience?


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    Biggins
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    dlofnep wrote: »
    I've had the same number for 11 years. My f*ck am I changing it now. As for kicking him, he looks like the kind of guy that would burn your house down in revenge. need alternative strategies!
    Gardi? Report as nuisance calls?


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    xoxyx
    Registered Users Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Have you said it to him yet that he's being a bit full on and it's weirding you out a bit? I'd say that's the first step to take. Don't be too mean, but make sure he gets the point that you find his behaviour odd.


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    mink_man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,454 ✭✭✭mink_man


    tell him you're riddled with aids!


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    Micilin Muc
    Registered Users Posts: 2,842 ✭✭✭Micilin Muc


    Respond in another language and pretend you don't have English. He'll be very confused and won't want to have anything to do with you.


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    zuroph
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    I'm doing great thanks! So we still on for beers sunday?


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    #21
    Flojo
    Registered Users Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    I wanna be stalked... I'm bored, no fair you get to have all the fun! :(


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    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Flojo wrote: »
    I wanna be stalked... I'm bored, no fair you get to have all the fun! :(

    Careful what you wish for!


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    Biggins
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Flojo wrote: »
    I wanna be stalked... I'm bored, no fair you get to have all the fun! :(
    Been stalked before three times.
    Believe me - its NO fun. :(


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    #24
    Flojo
    Registered Users Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    Larianne wrote: »
    Careful what you wish for!

    I'm stuck down the midlands... how much worse could it get? :p


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    #25
    Flojo
    Registered Users Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    Biggins wrote: »
    Been stalked before three times.
    Believe me - its NO fun. :(

    Ouch.. I was only pulling the piss really! Would be funny to have someone to text random ****e back to like. Any funny stories you'd like to share?


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    #26
    Pittens
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭Pittens


    I'm stuck down the midlands... how much worse could it get?

    You could be stalked by someone from the midlands.


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    starbelgrade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    Flojo wrote: »
    I'm stuck down the midlands... how much worse could it get? :p

    Antrim


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    #28
    Pittens
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭Pittens


    OP, why do you think he reads boards?


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    #29
    Flojo
    Registered Users Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    Pittens wrote: »
    You could be stalked by someone from the midlands.


    Good point.. :eek:


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    liah
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    Ask him out. Or ask him if he'd like to go with you to a gangbang.

    Then again, that could turn pretty awkward if he agrees..


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    #31
    Flojo
    Registered Users Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭Flojo


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    Antrim

    Hehe never been so I can't slag :(


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