I'm in a bit of a quandry.
a bit of background.
My 13yr old has his own pc, we have broadband, I've installed cyber patrol pc is totally locked down. I also get a report of sites he accesses from the firewall (i've worked in computers for years so I know what I'm doing)
Anyway he asked could he set up a bebo site on saturday so I said yeah (with the warning that no personal details, phone numbers etc go up).
Anyway that was fine he got in touch with a mate of his and all was good.
Then yesterday I connected to his pic to install a couple of games patches and he was browsing his school pages. I then realised he got the bebo site set up very quickly and knew his way around it totally. Some of the pages within the school section were not what a 13 yr old should be getting into (hardcore club).
Anyway I done a bit of digging and found one of his mates pages and seen that my son had at least another 3 bebo accounts set up. one with porn pictures in the account.
Now I'm not naive enough to think he's not looking at porn etc but there are limits.
When I spoke to him about his bebo and asked howmany accounts he has he said 1. I asked him at least 6 times about this specific account and he denied it so I showed him the list of friends and then he admitted it was him.
He had been accessing the porn etc in an internet cafe and posting on the bebo site.
For me the porn isnt the huge issue it is the fact that he lied multiple times eventhough he new I could prove it was him.
We have a very open relationship where hes can and does ask questions (very awkward ones especially over dinner).
Any advice? I don't to come down on hime too hard but then again some of what was on his site was not appropriate for a 13 yr old.
Thanks for listening....