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'Legitimate Rape'

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Colmustard wrote: »
    Its not so much that they block the pregnancy, the egg has to be in place, the conditions have to be right for the sperm to travel to the egg. But it does happen and the senator is a loon.

    Couples wanting to have a child it usually takes a while, I know one couple it took a year for their first, they now have 4 kids proving there was nothing wrong with either's baby making departments.
    I'm even more interested in hearing the details of batsh!t crazy pseudo science beliefs than I am in hearing actual science tbh :)


  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,945 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    batistuta9 wrote: »
    look it's terrible what happened to your friend, as the guy would seem to know what he was doing even if she did consent to it in her drunken state, he took advantage

    but there's women who claim they've been sexually assault when in fact they haven't & they'll be women looking to have abortions too when they don't want the child
    batistuta9 wrote: »
    yeah he means when they were actually raped by legitimate

    and the other type is just people getting out of having a baby by making up they were raped

    another molehill turned into a mountain on boards.ie



    everyone knows that happens



    mod:

    Same deal. Please quit with this nonsense. Don't post in this thread again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,951 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    batistuta9 wrote: »
    look it's terrible what happened to your friend, as the guy would seem to know what he was doing even if she did consent to it in her drunken state, he took advantage

    but there's women who claim they've been sexually assault when in fact they haven't & they'll be women looking to have abortions too when they don't want the child

    She wanted to go home. She woke up in his bed. She consented to nothing.

    Do you have any clue whatsoever about what is involved in bringing a rape change against someone? It's not a quick phonecall and the poor guy is locked up forever. Intimate physical exams happen, the victim's statement is taken, and she is questioned extensively. if it proceeds to court, the prosecution is allowed to bring up her past sexual history, personal habits and morality to undermine her credibility.

    Also no woman should have to continue with a pregnancy if she does not want to. The very idea that someone would be forced to lie about being suicidal, or having been assaulted to get one is totally abhorrent.

    Edit: sorry, did not mean to continue derail :)


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,170 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Really my main reaction to this is interest in how the female body might block pregnancy from rape. Any info going on that?
    If such a mechanism existed I would imagine it would be down to lack of vaginal secretions whch would otherwise help the sperm travel. Then again, without such secretions more internal damage would occur due to lack of lubrication. Quite a few women report localised arousal when they were being raped, even though they were in a state of abject fcuking terror. Afterwards they can feel incredibly confused, guilty and traumatised by that. Understandable on the face of it, but they really really bloody well shouldn't. It was her own body protecting herself from even further physical damage.







    PS any knuckle dragging mouthbreather that has any confusion over some women's "rape fantasies" and the reality of rape needs a fcuking reality check, an education, or a kick up the fundament, whichever works.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    B0jangles wrote: »
    She wanted to go home. She woke up in his bed. She consented to nothing.

    Do you have any clue whatsoever about what is involved in bringing a rape change against someone? It's not a quick phonecall and the poor guy is locked up forever. Intimate physical exams happen, the victim's statement is taken, and she is questioned extensively. if it proceeds to court, the prosecution is allowed to bring up her past sexual history, personal habits and morality to undermine her credibility.

    Also no woman should have to continue with a pregnancy if she does not want to. The very idea that someone would be forced to lie about being suicidal, or having been assaulted to get one is totally abhorrent.

    Edit: sorry, did not mean to continue derail :)

    Its dreadful, but she should have reported it, they are better with dealing with this now. This maybe a terrible thing to say, but in effect she left a unreported rapist out there.

    If she had rohypnol in her system there is at least a case for your man to answer, even if it does not go to court people at least find out what that cnut is.

    I know its not that simple.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,951 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    Colmustard wrote: »
    Its dreadful, but she should have reported it, they are better with dealing with this now. This maybe a terrible thing to say, but in effect she left a unreported rapist out there.

    If she had rohypnol in her system there is at least a case for your man to answer, even if it does not go to court people at least find out what that cnut is.

    I know its not that simple.

    God, I know it now, but it was about 10 years ago and we were a lot younger and more timid than we'd be these days :(


  • Registered Users Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    The only good I can see coming out of that statement is that attention is now being drawn to the ignorent and messed up attitudes people have towards rape.
    This man is a repulsive human being and I am filled with hope that people are outraged by his statement.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    The only good I can see coming out of that statement is that attention is now being drawn to the ignorent and messed up attitudes people have towards rape.
    This man is a repulsive human being and I am filled with hope that people are outraged by his statement.

    Amen.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,951 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    The only good I can see coming out of that statement is that attention is now being drawn to the ignorent and messed up attitudes people have towards rape.
    This man is a repulsive human being and I am filled with hope that people are outraged by his statement.

    His own party are treating him like a fart in a crowded elevator and the National GOP has pulled all funding from his campaign.

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/with-todd-akins-rape-comments-abortion-is-back-in-the-campaign-spotlight/2012/08/20/c497bae4-eac7-11e1-a80b-9f898562d010_story.html


  • Registered Users Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    B0jangles wrote: »
    His own party are treating him like a fart in a crowded elevator and the National GOP has pulled all funding from his campaign.

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/with-todd-akins-rape-comments-abortion-is-back-in-the-campaign-spotlight/2012/08/20/c497bae4-eac7-11e1-a80b-9f898562d010_story.html

    The best twitter response I saw was "The female body also has ways of shutting down your campaign".
    :cool:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,299 ✭✭✭✭later12


    Wibbs wrote: »
    That's interesting. You would think evolution would have adapted the other way? If it didn't the either rape wasn't enough of a selection pressure in the first place or it was and it was an advantageous one at some time in the past. Fcuk knows why though? Possibly one reason why rapes go up massively in conflicts? The genetic replacement factor? Though again hat would have selected for women not to get pregnant. Very odd. :confused:
    Actually I don't know an awful lot about this, never having thought to research it before, but there is quite a voluminous body of research & opinion on the internet about this. This article was particularly interesting.

    http://www.toddkshackelford.com/downloads/McKibbin-et-al-RGP-2008.pdf

    It reviews various research publications on the evolutionary background to rape, and notes that rape occurs in many different species (as owners of hens & pheasants will attest), but I thought their reference to primates who rape, in this case orang utans, was especially interesting.

    Anyway, in terms of the higher pregnancy rate amongst rape victims relative to consensural partners, this aspect of the paper might help to explain that in some way.
    Specifically, a rapist might be more successful reproductively by maximizing the chance that a one-time forced copulation will result in preg- nancy. According to this hypothesis, a would-be rapist may be more likely to target a highly fertile woman than a woman who is less fertile (Thornhill & Palmer, 2000). Human female fertility (current likelihood of conception per cop- ulation) peaks in the early to mid-20s. Therefore, if women in this age range are overrepresented in reports of rape, it is possible that this reflects a male adaptation that leads to raping fertile women more often than nonfertile women. Numerous studies have documented that young women are most often targeted by rapists, and that women of peak fertility are overrepresented in reported and unreported rapes (Ghiglieri, 2000; Greenfield, 1997; Kil- patrick et al., 1992; Shields & Shields, 1983, Thornhill & Palmer, 2000; Thornhill & Thorn- hill, 1983).

    Just to go back to one point, in relation to the risk of pregnancy following on from rape. I was initially skeptical that the politician in question was being 'absurd', as some people seemed to claim. I thought it made evolutionary sense that a female's body might have been an inhospitable environment to fertilisation during a period of aggressive, co-ercive sex. We shouldn't dismiss these possibilities out of hand

    But the really shocking thing is that it is incredibly easy to find the information on google scholar.

    A very immature teenager could do this. Why on Earth is a lawmaker, a man with influence in shaping the legislation that affects an entire nation of women, not taking 5 minutes out of his day, to inform himself of the facts surrounding rape and pregnancy.

    I find that genuinely staggering, pretty much to the point where he is neglecting the responsibility with which he has been honoured with by his peers.

    That sort of disdain for decision making based on factual evidence is unjustifiable in a public representative.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    later12 wrote: »
    ...Why on Earth is a lawmaker, a man with influence in shaping the legislation that affects an entire nation of women, not taking 5 minutes out of his day, to inform himself of the facts surrounding rape and pregnancy.

    I suspect he's very aware of a lot of facts - however he might be willing to ignore some facts - well those that don't suit his point of view.

    He wouldn't be the first religious person to do this.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,565 ✭✭✭southsiderosie


    B0jangles wrote: »
    His own party are treating him like a fart in a crowded elevator and the National GOP has pulled all funding from his campaign.

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/with-todd-akins-rape-comments-abortion-is-back-in-the-campaign-spotlight/2012/08/20/c497bae4-eac7-11e1-a80b-9f898562d010_story.html

    I'm clearly not a fan, but I hope he stays in the race as he will be easier to beat than some of the other candidates. :pac: But he will probably bow out soon. :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    batistuta9 wrote: »
    but there's women who claim they've been sexually assault when in fact they haven't & they'll be women looking to have abortions too when they don't want the child

    If a woman wants an abortion, she should be allowed the bodily autonomy to make that decision for herself, regardless of the context of conception.
    As for the false rape accusations, they are a tiny tiny percentage of the overall statistics on rape, of which we only know about because they were brought to the attention of the authorities in the first place. The statistics on sexual assault in Ireland are particularly shocking: 42% of women and 28% of men experience sexual abuse or assault in their lifetime; 10% of women and 3% of men penetrative assault. Only 1% of men and 7.8% of women report these assaults to the Gardai, and only 1% of these reported incidents will end in conviction with over 95% of these cases falling out of the system before prosecution. [Rape Statistics Ireland http://www.rcni.ie/national-statistics.aspx]

    Anyway, it is not surprising that so many cases fail in court, the adversarial nature of our criminal justice system makes it particularly onerous on the victim in these types of prosecutions, and indeed, many report the process as being almost as equally traumatising as the event itself. So even to report an incident of assault requires a great deal of courage to begin with.

    As for Todd 'legitimate rape' Akin, he claims that he 'misspoke' and was 'off-the-cuff' in the interview. Too late to backpeddle now Todd, even the GOP don't want you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,299 ✭✭✭✭later12


    Biggins wrote: »
    I suspect he's very aware of a lot of facts - however he might be willing to ignore some facts - well those that don't suit his point of view.
    I don't know Biggins. My guess would be that he genuinely didn't bother to do a quick search, or ask the people whom he knew could give him reliable answers based on cold hard facts.

    People often mock 'civil war politics in Ireland. And whilst our politicians are not always the most informed policymakers we might wish for, instances like this actually make me quite thankful that we do not have the same deeply ideological political divide in Irish politics.

    If a fact is wrong,a poltician will be pulled up on it quite rapidly. He will more than likely be forced to stop repeating that untruth.

    Not so in the US, where 'facts' seem to carry a far deeper ideological significance, regardless of whether they are correct or incorrect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,427 ✭✭✭Morag


    Wibbs wrote: »
    That's interesting. You would think evolution would have adapted the other way? If it didn't the either rape wasn't enough of a selection pressure in the first place or it was and it was an advantageous one at some time in the past. Fcuk knows why though? Possibly one reason why rapes go up massively in conflicts? The genetic replacement factor? Though again hat would have selected for women not to get pregnant. Very odd. :confused:

    It's not odd, it's a survival instinct. The aggressive male may become less aggressive once the pheromones start letting him know she is pregnant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,778 ✭✭✭up for anything


    Apparently men shoot more junk in a one-off encounter (in order to maximise the possibility of impregnation, from a biological standpoint).
    Men shoot less with a regular partner (again to maximise the possibility for impregnation - conservative spending of love juice means more shots of it).

    For an articulate poster who uses a phrase like 'maximise the possibility of impregnation' why on earth do you use words like junk, shoot and the most cringe-makingly awful - love juice? :D

    Ejaculate
    Sperm
    More sperm


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    I'm clearly not a fan, but I hope he stays in the race as he will be easier to beat than some of the other candidates. :pac: But he will probably bow out soon. :mad:

    The damage is done now, it seems a good bet for Democrat Claire McCaskill in Missouri, no other GOP candidate can override the PR catastrophe Todd Akin has unleashed in this state. Really fed into the Democrat's hands here, all they have to is sit back and bask in the stupidity.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    Colmustard wrote: »
    Pro/life is moronic, what the hell does it mean, the 2 positions are either pro abortion or anti abortion. And what part of my post was sexist.

    PS I am a man.

    Your gender is irrelevant. And your post is moronic because (a) you're reducing an argument that is literally about life and death to a semantic distinction; (b) your post is sexist because you state that men have no say in a decision taken to abort a fetus.

    You can't just dismiss the opinions and feelings of HALF THE PLANET because it suits you.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    later12 wrote: »
    I don't know Biggins. My guess would be that he genuinely didn't bother to do a quick search, or ask the people whom he knew could give him reliable answers based on cold hard facts.

    People often mock 'civil war politics in Ireland. And whilst our politicians are not always the most informed policymakers we might wish for, instances like this actually make me quite thankful that we do not have the same deeply ideological political divide in Irish politics.

    If a fact is wrong,a poltician will be pulled up on it quite rapidly. He will more than likely be forced to stop repeating that untruth.

    Not so in the US, where 'facts' seem to carry a far deeper ideological significance, regardless of whether they are correct or incorrect.

    The problem with US politics is exactly that divide, and the fact that Republicans have courted the religious vote from the late 1960s onwards; siding with organisations such as the Christian Voice, Jerry Falwell's Moral Majority and Focus on the Family for easy votes in the increasingly conservative counter-cultural christian south, and now they don't know how to wean themselves off that particular tit. Shoulda stuck to the fiscal conservatism. The ridiculous thing is is that it makes of every polarising ideological issue a party political one, and of course, two uncompromising extremes don't make a right.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,951 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    Your gender is irrelevant. And your post is moronic because (a) you're reducing an argument that is literally about life and death to a semantic distinction; (b) your post is sexist because you state that men have no say in a decision taken to abort a fetus.

    You can't just dismiss the opinions and feelings of HALF THE PLANET because it suits you.

    But it's a black and white situation : either the pregnancy is aborted or it is not.

    Woman says abort. Man says do not abort (or vice versa)

    Whose opinion/feelings take precedence?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    Your gender is irrelevant. And your post is moronic because (a) you're reducing an argument that is literally about life and death to a semantic distinction; (b) your post is sexist because you state that men have no say in a decision taken to abort a fetus.

    You can't just dismiss the opinions and feelings of HALF THE PLANET because it suits you.

    A. All generalised arguments are based on 'semantic distinctions', even yours, because they are necessarily based on abstraction.
    B. 'Sexism' is a red herring in this argument. A woman carries the pregnancy to full-term for 9 months. Her body, her choice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    To be fair to Dangerous Man, I'm not sure how literally his "have no say" should be taken. He may not be referring to men having the legal right to prevent abortion, but rather having the basic right to object to an abortion taking place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,778 ✭✭✭up for anything


    You can't just dismiss the opinions and feelings of HALF THE PLANET because it suits you.

    Half the planet did just that for far too many years. What's sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    To be fair to Dangerous Man, I'm not sure how literally his "have no say" should be taken. He may not be referring to men having the legal right to prevent abortion, but rather having the basic right to object to an abortion taking place.

    And how exactly would that operate in practice? Force a woman against her will to end of term? Not have 'the legal right to prevent abortion' but to 'object'? What does the 'basic right' [note: basic rights are not what you think they are] to 'object' to an abortion [but not legally prevent] practicably mean?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    later12 wrote: »
    I don't know Biggins. My guess would be that he genuinely didn't bother to do a quick search, or ask the people whom he knew could give him reliable answers based on cold hard facts.

    You could be right but seeing at he is member of the House Committee on Science - something he got to be due to his knowledge in some fields I assume (not just his earned Masters in Divinity - whatever the hell that is), I'm assuming that he's brainy enough when he wants to be, to see things more clearer and is capable to work things out better than maybe a good few!

    I suspect he's wiling to negate some facts and trying others so that this agenda is forefront with his ideology on the subject of abortion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    And how exactly would that operate in practice? Force a woman against her will to end of term? Not have 'the legal right to prevent abortion' but to 'object'? What does the 'basic right' [note: basic rights are not what you think they are] to 'object' to an abortion [but not legally prevent] practicably mean?

    I was thinking more along the line of "How dare you abort my child...", etc, etc...

    When it's suggested men should "have no say in the matter", I think it's quite an odd way of phrasing things and it unsurprisingly riles many men.

    And do tell me what I think basic rights are, I'm curious now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    Biggins wrote: »
    You could be right but seeing at he is member of the House Committee on Science - something he got to be due to his knowledge in some fields I assume (not just his earned Masters in Divinity - whatever the hell that is), I'm assuming that he's brainy enough when he wants to be, to see things more clearer and is capable to work things out better than maybe a good few!

    I suspect he's wiling to negate some facts and trying others so that this agenda is forefront with his ideology on the subject of abortion.

    Wow. Masters in Divinity. In 1984 Todd Akin earned a Master of Divinity degree at Covenant Theological Seminary in St. Louis. Amazing. A masters in theology from the Covenant Theological Seminary.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Wow. Masters in Divinity. In 1984 Todd Akin earned a Master of Divinity degree at Covenant Theological Seminary in St. Louis. Amazing. A masters in theology from the Covenant Theological Seminary.

    Yep - so he's obviously got brains to burn.
    That or they are burned out, only to be replaced by daftness!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    I was thinking more along the line of "How dare you abort my child...", etc, etc...

    When it's suggested men should "have no say in the matter", I think it's quite an odd way of phrasing things and it unsurprisingly riles many men.

    And do tell me what I think basic rights are, I'm curious now.

    The Universal Declaration of Human Rights: http://www.un.org/en/documents/udhr/ (Though, really, how on earth would I know what curious you thinks? Male autonomy over female bodies, is not, however a basic right.)

    You are just caught up in knots with assuming what another poster had to say on the matter. Unless you share the same IP address.

    There is no reconciliation with cannot 'legally prevent' and must have the the ability to 'object' to an abortion in practice. 'How dare you abort my child' is in the nature of something that cannot be legislated for. In any case we have not reached the maturity of that argument in this country. Even today, women have had to go the European Courts in order to ensure their constitutional rights regarding their limited abortion rights in this country, where in theory, abortion is legal if it threatens the life of the woman. We are still awaiting the legislation on this limited right.

    Forget about 'the odd way of phrasing'. As it stands we have many routes to circle before those arguments even precipitate in this country.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    The Universal Declaration of Human Rights: http://www.un.org/en/documents/udhr/

    You told me basic rights weren't what I thought they were - I asked you what I thought they were...now you've given me the universal declaration of human rights. I'm confused.
    You are just caught up in knots with assuming what another poster had to say on the matter. Unless you share the same IP address.

    With respect - likewise.
    There is no reconciliation with cannot 'legally prevent' and must have the the ability to 'object' to an abortion in practice. 'How dare you abort my child' is in the nature of something that cannot be legislated for. In any case we have not reached the maturity of that argument in this country. Even today, women have had to go the European Courts in order to ensure their constitutional rights regarding their limited abortion rights in this country, where in theory, abortion is legal if it threatens the life of the woman. We are still awaiting the legislation on this limited right.

    Forget about 'the odd way of phrasing'. As it stands we have many routes to circle before those arguments even precipitate in this country.

    You don't think avoiding alienating half the voting public and most of the elected representation with blanket claims that men should get no say would perhaps accelerate that journey?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    B0jangles wrote: »
    But it's a black and white situation : either the pregnancy is aborted or it is not.

    Woman says abort. Man says do not abort (or vice versa)

    Whose opinion/feelings take precedence?

    My point is that everybody's opinions and feelings are important. In countries where abortions are legal women have the right to go to a clinic and abort a fetus. In those same countries men have the right to express an opinion, to contribute to the subject AND to legislate on the issue. In the case of a couple who become pregnant a man has the right to express his opinion and possible objections to abortion also.

    You can't just shut people up or ignore their opinions and beliefs because of gender.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    It's not really about 'half the voting public'. It's about women having the right to decide what happens to their bodies and their lives. I really feel that this is an issue above party politics.

    Why the confusion over basic rights? The UDHR is a document on basic human rights that has been agreed upon since 1948. Ireland has still yet to ratify sections of it, particularly in relation to rights of the child, so maybe your confusion is justified.

    Again, you do not need to legitimise the arguments of your co-posters.

    In any case, the discussion has been derailed by this side-show. Back to Todd Akin please.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    My point is that everybody's opinions and feelings are important. In countries where abortions are legal women have the right to go to a clinic and abort a fetus. In those same countries men have the right to express an opinion, to contribute to the subject AND to legislate on the issue. In the case of a couple who become pregnant a man has the right to express his opinion and possible objections to abortion also.

    You can't just shut people up or ignore their opinions and beliefs because of gender.

    Evidence for the above please?

    Especially love the irony of the argument for gender equality.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    Evidence for the above please?

    Especially love the irony of the argument for gender equality.

    The evidence is already in this thread. You know full well what I originally objected to so stop trying to distract focus in this argument by way of being intellectually disingenuous.

    Secondly, there is nothing ironic about my argument.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    It's not really about 'half the voting public'. It's about women having the right to decide what happens to their bodies and their lives. I really feel that this is an issue above party politics.

    Why the confusion over basic rights? The UDHR is a document on basic human rights that has been agreed upon since 1948. Ireland has still yet to ratify sections of it, particularly in relation to rights of the child, so maybe your confusion is justified.

    Again, you do not need to legitimise the arguments of your co-posters.

    In any case, the discussion has been derailed by this side-show. Back to Todd Akin please.

    I think it's you who is confused by what rights are; rights are bestowed according to a largely political process. You use a deliberate type of language that subtly implies that women somehow have some sort of supreme rights that supersede the political will of a country's people and process. They don't.

    As you put it - 'It's about women having the right to decide what happens to their bodies and their lives.'

    In a lot of cases, whether you like it or not, this argument extends to living bodies within women. That is a fact and cannot be argued otherwise - ultimately you're seeking a right above another living human.

    Secondly, what you write is a deliberate attempt using stylized language to obfuscate the truth. The truth is that pro-abortion / choice activists are solely concerned with the legal right to abortion. It is not about the right to decide what happens with ones body in a general way because that right for the most part already exists and in the cases where it doesn't (excluding abortion) those same activists don't protest / argue on those issues as well as abortion. You couch your argument in general terms to make it appear as though legitimate rights already in existence are being refused.

    They're not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    The evidence is already in this thread. You know full well what I originally objected to so stop trying to distract focus in this argument by way of being intellectually disingenuous.

    Secondly, there is nothing ironic about my argument.[/QU
    x


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    Wonder will Paul Ryan's campaign also implode?
    Todd Akin’s remarks about some rapes being “legitimate,” and the ability of a woman to miraculously self-abort in those instances, have many of his fellow Republicans desperate to distinguish him from others in their party. This isn’t easy.
    Akin, a member of the U.S. House of Representatives who is seeking to unseat Democratic Senator Claire McCaskill of Missouri, is not an outlier.

    No less than Paul Ryan, the Republican candidate for vice president, shares his views. Ryan, Akin’s colleague in the House, has sponsored legislation with him that also sought to distinguish between types of rape: Instead of “legitimate,” it used the word “forcible.”

    http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2012-08-20/todd-akin-and-paul-ryan-are-more-alike-than-you-think.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,938 ✭✭✭mackg


    It's not really about 'half the voting public'. It's about women having the right to decide what happens to their bodies and their lives. I really feel that this is an issue above party politics.


    In any case, the discussion has been derailed by this side-show. Back to Todd Akin please.

    Here is the thing. While it might be their bodies unquestionably, I think everyone will agree that both parents should (be forced to) accept responsibility for the child once it's born. Therefore it is not just the mothers life that is affected. You wanting to not even allow for fathers to object in any form comes across as rather dismissive of their position.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Really my main reaction to this is interest in how the female body might block pregnancy from rape. Any info going on that?
    found it: http://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/s720x720/549664_10151096172359780_1662869054_n.jpg


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    Your gender is irrelevant. And your post is moronic because (a) you're reducing an argument that is literally about life and death to a semantic distinction; (b) your post is sexist because you state that men have no say in a decision taken to abort a fetus.

    You can't just dismiss the opinions and feelings of HALF THE PLANET because it suits you.

    So another man opposes abortion, surprise, surprise, a man who will never have to have an abortion,

    So you are ANTI ABORTION, I bet that makes you feel good about yourself. For you that is an empty platitude as you will never be in a position to have to make that "choice" but yet you impose your morals and judgement on half the worlds population.

    Good for you and as for that been sexist, really, a woman's body and life is her own, she has the right to carry a pregnancy or not. Nothing to do with us.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    To be fair to Dangerous Man, I'm not sure how literally his "have no say" should be taken. He may not be referring to men having the legal right to prevent abortion, but rather having the basic right to object to an abortion taking place.

    He can have an opinion, but he can't oppose an abortion clinic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    mackg wrote: »
    Here is the thing. While it might be their bodies unquestionably, I think everyone will agree that both parents should (be forced to) accept responsibility for the child once it's born. Therefore it is not just the mothers life that is affected. You wanting to not even allow for fathers to object in any form comes across as rather dismissive of their position.

    But it is the mother and woman that must see the full term of the pregnancy. The father can move on. I will honestly give my experience. I travelled in my early 20s and I fkuced around and not always with a condom. It is possible that I made someone pregnant, perhaps those possible pregnancies were aborted or not, I don't know, one thing I do know, either way, I was not around.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,687 ✭✭✭blacklilly


    We are a democratic society, we have and continue to strive for equality, of course men have equal rights on this matter, welcome to our political system!
    So men should only have a right to an opinion or vote on issues that directly effect them? As abortion ends of lives of both males and females I think it is clear it does have a direct on males.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Colmustard wrote: »
    He can have an opinion, but he can't oppose an abortion clinic.

    Says who? Last time I looked we lived in a democracy - if people want to oppose things, they are free to do so. I'm pro-choice and I wouldn't want it any other way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    blacklilly wrote: »
    We are a democratic society, we have and continue to strive for equality, of course men have equal rights on this matter, welcome to our political system!
    So men should only have a right to an opinion or vote on issues that directly effect them? As abortion ends of lives of both males and females I think it is clear it does have a direct on males.

    Abortion terminates a pregnancy and ends a potential viable life, that is all. Birth control also stops a potential human life. When it comes to pregnancy the woman is effected more, it is still a dangerous condition it may surprise you to learn about half a million women die worldwide a year in childbirth. Women can also develop life long health conditions due to pregnancy such as diabetes and other diseases. They are also left with a life changing and not always enhancing package whether they want it or not.

    A man in a lot of cases does not have these problems. So no it is not an equal decision. Men allied with the catholic church in this country pushed and succeeded in getting the constitutional amendment that denies women the right to abortion at a time when women's positions in Ireland was questionable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,516 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    later12 wrote: »
    But the really shocking thing is that it is incredibly easy to find the information on google scholar.

    A very immature teenager could do this. Why on Earth is a lawmaker, a man with influence in shaping the legislation that affects an entire nation of women, not taking 5 minutes out of his day, to inform himself of the facts surrounding rape and pregnancy.

    Possibly because he doesn't know how to use a computer, let alone a search engine. 'JSTOR? No, sorry, never heard of them, I don't listen to rap music'.

    These electronic devil boxes are eroding innocent minds and undermining good honest conservative christian values.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭pennypocket


    mackg wrote: »
    Here is the thing. While it might be their bodies unquestionably, I think everyone will agree that both parents should (be forced to) accept responsibility for the child once it's born. Therefore it is not just the mothers life that is affected. You wanting to not even allow for fathers to object in any form comes across as rather dismissive of their position.

    I just feel like I am arguing with children on this issue. What the fúck business is it of yours what I do with my body? Where the fúck do you stop; are you against contraception? My 'family planning' decisions are my own, and if I desire an abortion [without having to travel to the UK or the Netherlands, and without proper aftercare] it should be available in this country. Fúck off with your fúcking sanctimonious shíte.

    If a woman doesn't want to have a child, for whatever reason, that's where it ends. That's it. Responsibility for the child, when it is born is a completely different issue, and I'll think you'll find child support well legislated for.

    And, besides the entire point of this discussion, I have noticed that long term boards' users known to each other are more than willing to stand up for the equally shíte opinions of each other rather than challenge the bases of the argument in question. Fúcking sad, and in the end, shuts down all discussion from the start. You know who you are.

    I have been a reader since 2002.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,687 ✭✭✭blacklilly


    mackg wrote: »
    Here is the thing. While it might be their bodies unquestionably, I think everyone will agree that both parents should (be forced to) accept responsibility for the child once it's born. Therefore it is not just the mothers life that is affected. You wanting to not even allow for fathers to object in any form comes across as rather dismissive of their position.

    I just feel like I am arguing with children on this issue. What the fúck business is it of yours what I do with my body? Where the fúck do you stop; are you against contraception? My 'family planning' decisions' are my own, and if I desire an abortion [without having to travel to the UK or the Netherlands, and without proper aftercare] it should be available in this country. Fúck off with you fúcking sanctimonious shíte.

    And, besides the entire point of this discussion, I have noticed that long term boards' users known to each other are more than willing to stand up for the equally shíte opinions of each other rather than challenge the bases of the argument in question. fúcking sad, and in the end, shuts down all discussion from the start. You know who you are.

    I have been a reader since 2002.

    You seem literate so I don't understand your use of swearing in the above, It does nothing for what you have just written.
    Also at the very core of pro life beliefs is that abortion is the ending of a human life, can you argue otherwise? The whole potential argument is weak as consciousness is something a new born baby doesn't have and one could argue a new born is a potential human.
    Also what you do with your body can be open to public debate, if a person mutilates themselves for instance, do I think its right because its their body? No. Do I think they should be forced not to do it and seek help? Yes.
    We were all once "potential" humans, we were all given the right to life, I do not believe the right of the mother should supersede that of the unborn. In cases where the mothers life is at risk, yes relevant medical procedures should be carried out but this does not include abortion, it involves treating the mother and doing all that is possible to save the unborn.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard


    I just feel like I am arguing with children on this issue. What the fúck business is it of yours what I do with my body? Where the fúck do you stop; are you against contraception? My 'family planning' decisions are my own, and if I desire an abortion [without having to travel to the UK or the Netherlands, and without proper aftercare] it should be available in this country. Fúck off with your fúcking sanctimonious shíte.

    And, besides the entire point of this discussion, I have noticed that long term boards' users known to each other are more than willing to stand up for the equally shíte opinions of each other rather than challenge the bases of the argument in question. Fúcking sad, and in the end, shuts down all discussion from the start. You know who you are.

    I have been a reader since 2002.

    I absolutely agree with the first part of your post. But the second part. This is an emotive issue and everyone has a position, I don't think someone who is pro abortion like myself would ever post an anti abortion post.

    So people are just posting their own opinions.


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