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  • 11-02-2015 9:08pm
    #1
    squashman
    Registered Users Posts: 27 ✭


    Hi guys, so here's my dilemma I have recently met this guy online and I really really like him and I think he likes me. The thing is I last spoke to him on Monday and it is now Wednesday and I'm wondering should I message him or not. You see I'm new to this whole dating thing and I don't know how long I should leave it before I should message him again. I don't want to frighten him off.
    Any advise would be very helpful.


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  • #2
    Ash885
    Registered Users Posts: 639 ✭✭✭Ash885


    Judging by your other two recent threads, newly out gay people have a habit to rush into new relationships because it's all new and exciting. My only advice would be if the guy doesn't reply, your world is not over and it's only the beginning!


  • #3
    Rick_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,611 ✭✭✭Rick_


    You don't know what's going on in his life and there could be a reason why he hasn't messaged. Don't take everything as a negative. Leave it another day or two and then perhaps message him if there's no word from him, but don't mention that he hasn't been in contact as it may put him off and make you come across as a bit clingy - definitely not a good look when things are potentially just starting out. Play it cool!


  • #4
    floggg
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,824 ✭✭✭floggg


    squashman wrote: »
    Hi guys, so here's my dilemma I have recently met this guy online and I really really like him and I think he likes me. The thing is I last spoke to him on Monday and it is now Wednesday and I'm wondering should I message him or not. You see I'm new to this whole dating thing and I don't know how long I should leave it before I should message him again. I don't want to frighten him off.
    Any advise would be very helpful.

    ****, it message him if you want.

    Newly out people might make mistakes but you learn by doing. Do what feels right to you.

    You'll end up just as confused if you start trying to abide by unwritten rules and over thinking the situation.

    Just use a bit of common sense, realise that nobody knows what they are doing in the dating game and accept that you will make mistakes but it's not going to be the end of the world.


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